Sorry for derailing the thread
Yes she goes at school apparently. The teacher says she loves going to the loo on the tiny toilets they have there and she does not have accidents there at all. Its only at home, and out (basically whenever I am there...) that she plays up. Sometimes she loves the potty. She gets praised for doing anything on it. Sometimes she prefers the loo where she declares that shes a 'big girl now' and is insanely happy that she has been to the toilet. But then it goes back randomly to peeing everywhere. Rather like a cat marking her territory
Edit. I wonder if we should get rid of the toilet and get one of the miniature ones schools have. Can just imagine my 6ft 3 partner trying to hit the loo