[jaxie]

I think it's natural to want to help your children whatever age they are though different families have different circumstances. I used to work with a lovely lady who helped her daughter a lot, getting in debt herself to do it and it felt rather like her daughter was taking advantage, she used to guilt her mum a lot and her boyfriend and her almost seemed to think her parents were cash cows. It may be that your neighbor has helped his daughter before but has reached a limit. It's really hard to say without knowing all people's circumstances and history. I'm not sure why the fact that your neighbor if Moroccan is relevant.

[Cherry Christmas]

Originally Posted by jaxie

I think it's natural to want to help your children whatever age they are though different families have different circumstances. I used to work with a lovely lady who helped her daughter a lot, getting in debt herself to do it and it felt rather like her daughter was taking advantage, she used to guilt her mum a lot and her boyfriend and her almost seemed to think her parents were cash cows. It may be that your neighbor has helped his daughter before but has reached a limit. It's really hard to say without knowing all people's circumstances and history. I'm not sure why the fact that your neighbor if Moroccan is relevant.

This really, or he might not approve of her boyfriend, it's never black and white

[Ronald.]

Originally Posted by Cherie

This really, or he might not approve of her boyfriend, it's never black and white

That is true cherie. I didn't want to pry. I didn't think of it like that . R

[Jack_]

Originally Posted by Cherie

This really, or he might not approve of her boyfriend, it's never black and white

No but it might be black or white

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Cherie

This really, or he might not approve of her boyfriend, it's never black and white

Racist!

I'm saddened it's driven a wedge between them, that said she has a partner, there's no reason they can't just rent a small place and save up?
If they saved a little dad might be more willing to add to it perhaps.