[jaxie]

I think it's natural to want to help your children whatever age they are though different families have different circumstances. I used to work with a lovely lady who helped her daughter a lot, getting in debt herself to do it and it felt rather like her daughter was taking advantage, she used to guilt her mum a lot and her boyfriend and her almost seemed to think her parents were cash cows. It may be that your neighbor has helped his daughter before but has reached a limit. It's really hard to say without knowing all people's circumstances and history. I'm not sure why the fact that your neighbor if Moroccan is relevant.