[smudgie]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Well I don't think we're talking about Raph casually sleeping with one girl and then casually sleeping with another girl. THAT'S a bit of fun.

I would imagine the point you start referring to one another as your girlfriend/boyfriend would be when the commitment comes in.

There's a clear difference between a relationship and a casual fling but maybe that's just me.

No, I get that Marsh, what I don't know is when it becomes a commitment.
I can see the first girl could feel she was in a relationship( again, I don't understand at such a young age why you would be committed) but if the second and third girl knew he was in it for the fun then I can't see a problem with it.
I guess I just can't see what the rush is to get into a committed relationship that young, I was all for a good time before I settled down.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by smudgie

No, I get that Marsh, what I don't know is when it becomes a commitment.
I can see the first girl could feel she was in a relationship( again, I don't understand at such a young age why you would be committed) but if the second and third girl knew he was in it for the fun then I can't see a problem with it.
I guess I just can't see what the rush is to get into a committed relationship that young, I was all for a good time before I settled down.

Where has it started that the partners after the first one knew it was just a bit of fun and then claimed he cheated come from?

I think the fact that Raph has called himself a serial cheat and said he cheated on them tells us there was a level of commitment or he's surely defend himself from that cheating label?

[smudgie]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Where has it started that the partners after the first one knew it was just a bit of fun and then claimed he cheated come from?

I think the fact that Raph has called himself a serial cheat and said he cheated on them tells us there was a level of commitment or he's surely defend himself from that cheating label?

Hmmm, maybe you are right, but I just don't see it the same way.
When we were at school we all knew who was going with who, maybe the schools in America are bigger, or they didn't all go to the same school

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by smudgie

Hmmm, maybe you are right, but I just don't see it the same way.
When we were at school we all knew who was going with who, maybe the schools in America are bigger, or they didn't all go to the same school

Well when people cheat I imagine they are a little more subtle than broadcasting it to everyone.

Also I imagine most people have separate people they know. Like I had a friendship group in school and people I knew from where I lived and there wasn't much overlap between the two groups.