[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by sungrass

I ve never been one for making friends on here - I come on here to see whats up and have a laugh - but I was asked to vote for Charlotte behalf of someone else and said no but was nice about it - I think its all attempt to get you to vote for a posters favourite and its right sneaky.

Me neither, I'm not that shallow

[y.winter]

Tbf the forum have had a lot of patience for Nicky and his love-hate-favourite routine every series, it's not the first time, nor the second time. The fact that every day he's opening multiple threads about going against his favorite filled with hate words (then editing it out), then another one apologising and "everyone hates me" (when no has even said anything like that), then a third one of how he loves again his favourite... It's spamming with a slight smell of trolling. It's every day, every series, the whole routine over and over again.
Since Nicky is willingly putting himself and discussion about himself on the line constantly, I believe it's about time to say something.
Saying sweetie and adding dozens of smiling emojis after every tantrum post is not making it ok suddenly. Not when it's the 46357 time it happens.
Let's not forget he's a 26 year old guy, he's a grown up, not a 5 years old who has no control or responsibility over his own behavior.

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Nicky ,take no notice,just be yourself,support your fave,don't let people get to you,I have said before REAL friends will not fall out with you just because you decide not to support Raph,I like Raph,I haven't fallen out with you it's a personal choice, don't take it too seriously as some people do its just a game at the end of the day. Chin up bud.

aw Kaz, that's because we know each other

i like Raph as a member on here, i will not unfriend or anything now i've seen him in the BB house


and i will just support my fave, and i only just wish i could've done things differently support one housemate from the beginning


and for some saying to me that i might've lost votes for Charlotte, okay doesn't matter i also think Charlotte can be proud of herself no matter she wins or not, it's her normal sweet personality and her heart of gold what makes her a winner for herself

and i think if most people on here would meet her, they would love her i think


so may the best housemate win, i'll be proud no matter where Charlotte will end

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by y.winter

Tbf the forum have had a lot of patient for Nicky and his love-hate-favourite routine every series, it's not the first time, nor the second time. The fact that every day he's opening multiple threads about going against his favorite filled with hate words (then editing it out), then another one apologising and "everyone hates me" (when no has even said anything like that), then a third one of how he loves again is favourite... It's spamming with a slight smell of trolling. It's every day, every series, the whole routine over and over again.
Since Nicky is willingly putting himself and discussion about himself on the line constantly, I believe it's about time to say something.
Saying sweetie and adding dozens of smiling emojis after every tantrum post is not making it ok suddenly. Not when it's the 46357 time it happens.
Let's not forget he's a 26 year old guy, he's a grown up, not a 5 years old who has no control or responsibility over his own behavior.

The pack bullying is wrong no matter what age Nicky is,everyone involved should be ashamed of themselves but they wont be, tonight they will move on ( in pack mode again ,as they never bully alone ) to someone else, time James and mods took control back of this place, why do you think old members have left and don't come back ? people saying "Its quite in here isn't it ?" the mob mentality is whats killing this place

[Epic.]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

The pack bullying is wrong no matter what age Nicky is,everyone involved should be ashamed of themselves but they wont be, tonight they will move on ( in pack mode again ,as they never bully alone ) to someone else, time James and mods took control back of this place, why do you think old members have left and don't come back ? people saying "Its quite in here isn't it ?" the mob mentality is whats killing this place

Wtf there's no bullying here

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Nicky91

aw Kaz, that's because we know each other

i like Raph as a member on here, i will not unfriend or anything now i've seen him in the BB house


and i will just support my fave, and i only just wish i could've done things differently support one housemate from the beginning


and for some saying to me that i might've lost votes for Charlotte, okay doesn't matter i also think Charlotte can be proud of herself no matter she wins or not, it's her normal sweet personality and her heart of gold what makes her a winner for herself

and i think if most people on here would meet her, they would love her i think


so may the best housemate win, i'll be proud no matter where Charlotte will end

You wont have lost votes for Charlotte,that's someone just being mean,at least you know Charlotte is safe this week.

[T*]

Originally Posted by y.winter

Tbf the forum have had a lot of patience for Nicky and his love-hate-favourite routine every series, it's not the first time, nor the second time. The fact that every day he's opening multiple threads about going against his favorite filled with hate words (then editing it out), then another one apologising and "everyone hates me" (when no has even said anything like that), then a third one of how he loves again his favourite... It's spamming with a slight smell of trolling. It's every day, every series, the whole routine over and over again.
Since Nicky is willingly putting himself and discussion about himself on the line constantly, I believe it's about time to say something.
Saying sweetie and adding dozens of smiling emojis after every tantrum post is not making it ok suddenly. Not when it's the 46357 time it happens.
Let's not forget he's a 26 year old guy, he's a grown up, not a 5 years old who has no control or responsibility over his own behavior.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Epic.

Wtf there's no bullying here

You and i know damn well there is ,why do you think old members have left and will never return ?

[LukeB]

No one is bullying Nicky at all.

If he didn't say offensive stuff 'girly guy raphielle" then they wouldn't be an issue.

[T*]

There's no bullying being done here at all, people are just fed up with these constant threads about how he's ditching his faves and being offensive about it. It's problematic.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by LukeB

No one is bullying Nicky at all.

If he didn't say offensive stuff 'girly guy raphielle" then they wouldn't be an issue.

Did he say it about YOU ?

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by LukeB

No one is bullying Nicky at all.

If he didn't say offensive stuff 'girly guy raphielle" then they wouldn't be an issue.

Luke, i wasn't being offensive or homophobic, i'm sorry


you know me, right we chat more with each other on here, in a normal way

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by T*

There's no bullying being done here at all, people are just fed up with these constant threads about how he's ditching his faves and being offensive about it. It's problematic.

His choice no one makes you read his threads ,and of course there is bullying on here, ask the old members who have left because of it

[T*]

A reach and a half.

[Locke.]

Originally Posted by T*

There's no bullying being done here at all, people are just fed up with these constant threads about how he's ditching his faves and being offensive about it. It's problematic.

You've arguably been the main antagonist here so what a surprise you are turning a blind eye to the behaviour. Best to report this guy to James I think chuff

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Did he say it about YOU ?

No he said it about my friend but as a gay guy myself it's offensive to the whole LGBT community.

[Morgan.]

I could, even though it is casual homophobia, see why Nicky saw the first of his 'Raphielle' posts funny but its when it's repeated that is gets inapporpriate. I'm unsure of Nickys age, and so he might not realise that it is something offensive, but it is.



It's posts like above where female pronouns, and continued use of the joke, makes it inappropriate.

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by LukeB

No he said it about my friend but as a gay guy myself it's offensive to the whole LGBT community.

aw Luke i did not know that

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by LukeB

No one is bullying Nicky at all.

If he didn't say offensive stuff 'girly guy raphielle" then they wouldn't be an issue.

The thing is, the joke was made about his mannerisms, not his sexual orientation. Plenty of straight guys are girly, plenty of gay guys are very manly in how they present.

It was chosen to be taken as a "homophobic" attack by those looking for political capital and to virtue signal.

In the end, it was a joke that people are deliberately taking in a dishonest way and running with in an effort to beat down another forum member that happens to not like the same HM.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by LukeB

No he said it about my friend but as a gay guy myself it's offensive to the whole LGBT community.

So if someone says something I dont like about a straight woman I can class it as offensive to ALL straight women ? Get a bloody grip

[Drew.]

At least take your tedious threads elsewhere Nicky, you're spoiling the BB section

[T*]

Originally Posted by Locke.

You've arguably been the main antagonist here so what a surprise you are turning a blind eye to the behaviour. Best to report this guy to James I think chuff

You mean I'm the most recent person to say anything about it? I'm not the only one darling. These stupid posts you keep doing in a joking manner just egg people on who don't understand it and it's quite obvious when you look at it. Letting your friend be targeted for their sexuality is just bizarre too.

[Nicky91]

Originally Posted by Drew.

At least take your tedious threads elsewhere Nicky, you're spoiling the BB section

i seriously want this thread closed, as i'm done with all the drama on here


i know i caused this mess on here, and i'm sorry


story closed, done finito, move on with BB i would really love that

[vesavius]

Originally Posted by T*

Letting your friend be targeted for their sexuality is just bizarre too.

He wasn't targeted for his sexuality.

[Novo]

Originally Posted by vesavius

The thing is, the joke was made about his mannerisms, not his sexual orientation. Plenty of straight guys are girly, plenty of gay guys are very manly in how they present.

It was chosen to be taken as a "homophobic" attack by those looking for political capital and to virtue signal.

In the end, it was a joke that people are deliberately taking in a dishonest way and running with in an effort to beat down another forum member that happens to not like the same HM.

Well said, no mention of Raph's sexuality on Nicky's part