[Paula D]

Originally Posted by Withano

Perhaps I should have made my point clearer. I know several people object to it, my posts were referring to you, personally you, presuming that chanelle was not being jokey as she said it. You're the only one I've seen imply this, and I think its a key part of the debate we're having. If it turns out Chanelle has seen Rebeccas fanny, and was mocking her for it, the debate will drastically change. It stops being a distateful joke, and becomes borderline-abuse. As it stands, we're not discussing borderline-abuse unless anybody has any reason to believe that Chanelles bad joke holds any credible weight. You've implied it might - I was discussing that aspect.

Where did I imply this?

I did say it was not in jokey way because normal people don't joke in the middle of a screaming row Withano.

What about that do you not understand?