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Originally Posted by DemolitionRed

I am bi but regardless of that, I saw this person as a woman. I'd seen him as a man and didn't find him as attractive. I think what I found particularly attractive about her is, the way she embraced and celebrated her feminine side. She was brave enough to do what came naturally to her and she did come over very naturally.

Fair enough, I don't want to tell you your sexuality obviously, but in light of your reply, I would say you were probably pansexual, rather than bi?

I am actually bi, though have not been with a female for a long long time (since I was 17) but I could not be done with a person who looked like a man in all aspects but had a vagina, or vice versa. Just would be a huge turnoff for me.

I consider myself mostly straight now though tbh. I know sexuality does not change as such,. but its been a very long time since I was sexually interested in a female. Thats not just as I am married or in a long term relationship or anything as obviously I still fancy people besides my husband. I just have not seriously fancied a woman for ages, besides the usua 'shes really pretty' thought.

Your relative wants a chick with a d*ck!! I can see her point! though I wouldn't be interested in enhanced breasts.

Basically, it seems that way. Chick with a dick is a very popular porn category actually, so it seems to be fairly popular in general

My years in the London clubland probably made me a lot more open-minded. I've been to fet clubs like TG's where you can be anyone you want to be and as I said here recently, at the end of the night when everything else was closed, we all used to pile into Alices Cafe attached to Stunners (probably the biggest transexual club in London). Before I'd had all that experience, I wouldn't have been nearly so tolerant but when you spend some good positive time around these people, you quickly learn that many of them are just the same as us but with a slightly different angle.

I'm well aware of the loud-mouthed chicks who drive lorries through the week and sneak out on a Saturday night without their wife knowing, to parade around (usually in front of a nightclub mirror) in a frock and ridiculously high heels in the hope that someone will tell them how gorgeous they look. I've had some seriously bitchy sarcasms from jealous, overzealous shehe's who begrudge a real female intrusion into the ladies loos! but those loud mouth demanding transexuals are just not nice people, regardless of how they dress and its people like them who are spoiling it for the nice ones.

Yeah, I used to think my long time on the LGBT scene made me open minded. Until it turned out lesbians were afraid to tell me of their very real experience with 'transgender' people and their dicks. They were scared to tell me as apparently I was too 'right on' in my thinking and would have joined in with the 'transphobe' taunting. And I am ashamed to admit, I probably would have :S Given until about a year back, I saw nothing wrong with our moderation policy on 'transphobia' and would happily infract anyone who referred to say...Kellie Maloney, as he when on BB. Its only very recently that I challenged this policy and said basically, we are forcing people to have a certain view, a view that is NOT scientifically proven and is akin to a religion. So we are forcing one religion onto people by moderating in that way. I don;t know if the policy did change or not, but I refuse to subscribe to the view that people have souls and can be 'born in the wrong body' any longer, so if I get banned for this so be it tbh. 'Born in the wrong body' is a mental illness. If it eases the sex dysphoria to have surgeries to resemble the opposite sex, then good for you. But noone can ever 'change sex'.

I don't think its an extreme view that males cannot become female, and the other way around. But apparently..it really is?! Even though transsexual people readily admit that they are their biological sex, just want to be the opposite one. I have not met even one transsexual woman who believes they ARE female. This seems to be entirely driven by 'transgender' people, and more specifically, biological males who are straight and want to shag lesbians and enter female changing rooms.