[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

Right let's have a real life scenario, your mother in law just got diagnosed with dementia at 79, she wanders and has been brought home by the police 4 times in 3 months it is made apparent she can no longer live independently.

Your daughter is working in new Zealand and your son at uni in Newcastle. Your husband just got promoted to floor manager at marks and spencers homewares a 34 mile round trip from home, you work as a doctors receptionist a 16 mile round trip away. you remortgaged the house 3yrs ago for uni fees an extension and a cruise.

The only other relative lives in Devon and you live in York.... what do you do?

Obviously they are people who CAN'T who might be helped by more people who CAN it's not rocket science

Although there does seem to be some issues understanding the word CAN

It's not any different to people working to support those who are unable to work