[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Christmas treeza

We weren't discussing 'pervs' (or people who just look at other people) we were discussing predators.. there is a gulf of difference there.

Well yes this is a good point actually. Discussing people who actually do sexually assault and even rape. Of which, its mostly men. By a long shot.

Amazing how saying this brings on a raft of 'not all men are like that' (we know this..it would be fairly ****ing depressing if they were!) and 'women do it too' (yes, but not anywhere near as often) every time.

When I discuss this with my husband, he doesn't take it as a...personal insult (?) that there are a lot of men who are ****ing perverted entitled arseholes. He admits it and says its a disgrace, rather than trying to deflect. Its odd how men get so defensive over this topic. 'Women do it too' is true enough, but again, nowhere near as often as men do.