[Beso]

Originally Posted by Mariah_Carey

No it's not, it's saying in an exaggerated and comical way "I find this person attractive"... like most forms of flirting.

It's probably OTT and unnecessary in the workplace, but it's no different to other flirting.

The point of the thread is that its making people feel uncomfortable.

I guess it depends who is doing it though, you could look at it both ways...like if brenda on reception was winking and nodding at gemma in accounts when troy the postman came in...or if old bob and dirty des sat leering and drooling at eachother when brenda and gemma stand giggling and wiggling in thier tight skirts in front of them in the canteen....which is right which is wrong?...what side does this lad stand on...he does come across a little sleezy in his actions imo.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by santasingsadingaling

The point of the thread is that its making people feel uncomfortable.

No sh*t Sherlock.

My point is that some people not being comfortable or keen on it doesn't automatically make his behaviour unacceptable.

Personality clashes happen all the time doesn't mean anyone is breaking code of conduct or crossing the line.

However, in this case, it seems to be more than one particular thing so it's hard to judge without seeing for ourselves really.