[Ammi]

Originally Posted by pontyboi

Shane j and Andrew were just messing about its what we do and she constantly talks about men being real men....a lot.

What was sexual in anyway with Shane j and Andrew play fighting....the other boys have done it it's the fact she sees it as gay and is against it that s worrying.

She has also exhibited the classic men should be men opinion on way to many occasions.

Anyone who sticks up for her is a moron.

..I’m a moron..loud and proud and coming out with my moronic ways....she seems to accept people for the person they are but is less accepting of their sexuality...although I do think that ‘public displays’ come into that as well and the things she feels should be private...also things like ‘crude talk’, which she doesn’t like, regardless of sexuality...so I guess technically that would make her homophobic ...but then that’s very restrictive and ‘in a box’, I think...and surely being a phobic is ‘boxing’../..the grouping together of certain sexualities..?...there are ‘layers’, I think and those layers have to be explored also..otherwise, we just put on labels, like homophobe, racist etc on a person... which only really does the same thing of what we haven’t felt comfortable with from the off, that thing of, you’ve judged me and labelled me because of one specific aspect about me, which is that I’m homosexual...anyways, maybe technically she’s homophobic by definition...but I think, a very interesting one in that I think people’s ‘layers’ should be explored/questioned/listened to etc..rather than just labelled and be done with it, type thing...