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arsenalforever · 19-11-2009, 10:52 AM

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Originally Posted by 30stone

A little smack on the back of the legs or the bum is fine.

Smack my puppy when he tries to bite like visciously not just playing.
It works (obviously i donthi him hard)

until he gets big and bites you in the neck

dogs have to be trained so a smack is needed

where you smacked as a kid Ben/

Stu · 19-11-2009, 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted by 30stone

A little smack on the back of the legs or the bum is fine.

Smack my puppy when he tries to bite like visciously not just playing.
It works (obviously i donthi him hard)

Are we comparing puppies to kids now, yeah?

30stone · 19-11-2009, 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by arsenalforever

until he gets big and bites you in the neck

dogs have to be trained so a smack is needed

where you smacked as a kid Ben/

Yeah i was. Turned out fine.. i think lol.

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Originally Posted by Stu

Are we comparing puppies to kids now, yeah?

No, im saying you show discipline the same way.

You change your tone of voice, but dont shout.
And you give them a little tap and they know.

Niamh. · 19-11-2009, 11:18 AM

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Originally Posted by 30stone

Yeah i was. Turned out fine.. i think lol.

No, im saying you show discipline the same way.

You change your tone of voice, but dont shout.
And you give them a little tap and they know.

I have 2 dogs and 2 kids, I treat them very differently!!

Stu · 19-11-2009, 11:22 AM

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Originally Posted by 30stone

Yeah i was. Turned out fine.. i think lol.

No, im saying you show discipline the same way.

You change your tone of voice, but dont shout.
And you give them a little tap and they know.

No you don't. Dogs are dogs and children are children.

The whole 'giving them a little tap' thing too is ludicrously misguided. If your not actually going to hurt your children, what's the point in slapping them? I know that sounds rather odd, but really, what good does it do if the child actually knows that there really isn't any actual threat of violence?

It will just aggravate the kid and turn the little thing into an even more temperamental brat, who will more than likely hit out at you in the future because that's the way it was raised!

30stone · 19-11-2009, 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Stu

No you don't. Dogs are dogs and children are children.

The whole 'giving them a little tap' thing too is ludicrously misguided. If your not actually going to hurt your children, what's the point in slapping them? I know that sounds rather odd, but really, what good does it do if the child actually knows that there really isn't any actual threat of violence?

It will just aggravate the kid and turn the little thing into an even more temperamental brat, who will more than likely hit out at you in the future because that's the way it was raised!

Obviously there are a lot of differences but the ones i named..
Thing is i dont have a kid so i woudlnt really know. But if i was to have one now thats how id do it.

I was smacked as a child and i wasnt a brat i just shut up when it happened.
and id never hit my parents and same with my brother and counsins and most of my friends so that theory of that they are more likely to hit you goes out the window.

30stone · 19-11-2009, 11:43 AM

Maybe so we will never know...
I believe its still a thing you should be able to do if you choose to.
I think it helped towards me not being a little brat.

30stone · 19-11-2009, 11:48 AM

Think ill just tell my girlfriend (when i get one) im not a fit dad and just not have kids now.. lol.

Niamh. · 19-11-2009, 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by 30stone

Think ill just tell my girlfriend (when i get one) im not a fit dad and just not have kids now.. lol.

arsenalforever · 19-11-2009, 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by 30stone

Think ill just tell my girlfriend (when i get one) im not a fit dad and just not have kids now.. lol.

oh the self pity

Stu · 19-11-2009, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by 30stone

Think ill just tell my girlfriend (when i get one) im not a fit dad and just not have kids now.. lol.

See you have this fathering thing nailed already

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30stone · 19-11-2009, 11:53 AM

Lol, in all seriousness i think id be a good dad lol, im sure everyone wouldnt agree though!

Niamh. · 19-11-2009, 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by 30stone

Lol, in all seriousness i think id be a good dad lol, im sure everyone wouldnt agree though!

You never know though you might change your mind about the smacking thing when you actually have your own child. They look to you for protection and are so defencless

arsenalforever · 19-11-2009, 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Niamhxo

You never know though you might change your mind about the smacking thing when you actually have your own child. They look to you for protection and are so defencless

A smack is what is needed really