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still loving Josie

[Blueisthecolour]

I still like her more than most although I like her less than I did.

I think...

[flamingGalah!]

I like her a bit more now after last nights H/L's

She was right in all that she said to JJ. He IS a pussy & needs to grow up...

As the oracle himself (Ben) said "He likes to dish it out but can't take it back"

[rosieb]

Feelings haven't changed ................ still dislike her!

[Niamh.]

I thought Josie was very cruel to John James yesterday when he was clearly upset and she is supposed to be his friend. I don't think she does it on purpose though, I just think she does that, puts up a wall, to protect herself from getting hurt. I'm glad they talked it through though, I find their relationship so interesting, they're both very different people but they seem to understand eachother very well, they could learn alot from eachother

[monx]

My views on Josie havent changed after the HL show. What I saw was Josie having a bad day and admitedly taking it out on JJ but in her defence, JJ has been very volatile with her, one minute laughing at what she said and then taking offence at something she said in a throw away comment. She doesnt know where she is with him. He seems to find something hurtful one day and not another, it is also dependant on who has said it.

He really has problems with any kind of scrutiny from women and reacts to it. In the diary room where we see him cry because he realises that he has pushed his only true friend in there too far was very telling. It was very interesting that JJ only understands that it hurts him when someone says something potentially hurtful but can't seem to understand that his words can be just as hurtful, like an ealier poster and Ben said, he can dish it out but cant take it.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by monx

My views on Josie havent changed after the HL show. What I saw was Josie having a bad day and admitedly taking it out on JJ but in her defence, JJ has been very volatile with her, one minute laughing at what she said and then taking offence at something she said in a throw away comment. She doesnt know where she is with him. He seems to find something hurtful one day and not another, it is also dependant on who has said it.

He really has problems with any kind of scrutiny from women and reacts to it. In the diary room where we see him cry because he realises that he has pushed his only true friend in there too far was very telling. It was very interesting that JJ only understands that it hurts him when someone says something potentially hurtful but can't seem to understand that his words can be just as hurtful, like an ealier poster and Ben said, he can dish it out but cant take it.

You're right and it happens all the time in r/l too, you take things out on the ones closest to you, don't you?

You're also right about JJ and hopefully if he takes one thing away from this experience it will be an understanding that other people have feelings just like him!