[_Seth]

I'd have thought all the members my age would have each other's. Good, now I feel less of a social ******.

Only joking.

[Beastie]

No.

[Locke.]

Used to have Christina's and Ben's (30stone) but haven't anymore.

[Shaun]

oh I have/had Ross' too, idk if he's changed it though

[Stu]

Are my the only one who finds having others numbers a bit ... you know ...

[Doogle]

I'm FB friends with Stacey so she probably has mine.

But no, I don't have anyones.

[Shaun]

oh and Darenn's lmao... -will probably have 10 more by the time I actually bother to check my phone-

[Ninastar]

Was going to say no, but unfortunately someone posted here and reminded me that I have Sams (cant remember which one but yeah)

[Locke.]

Originally Posted by Stu

Are my the only one who finds having others numbers a bit ... you know ...

A bit sad and weird. No.

[Boothy]

I also have Thomas_C's.

[Shaun]

I personally find bitching about people on TiBB having each others' phone numbers a bit more sad and weird but y'know, have fun x

[Stu]

Gross overuse of the word 'bitching' in the thread's only bitchy comment. Nice.

[Shaun]

oh I'm sorry were your ellipses going to be followed by "sweet" and "cute"?

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

you can probably find bens number in half the toilet cubicles in bristol

[Stu]

Originally Posted by Shaun

oh I'm sorry were your ellipses going to be followed by "sweet" and "cute"?

Does the pope take pseudo articulate shits in the woods?

Don't get me wrong I think it's absoloutely beguiling that you have the full connective prowess of being able to have the full TiBB experience in the bath or on the beach I just naturally find it a little unorthodox that's all. It's a keen old place and all but I wouldn't take it beyond the confines of itself.

I don't think it's that sad or weird to think that either. Nor do I think it's particularly bitchy simply outlining that you think it's a bit ... well ... well I didn't say did I. I'm keeping my cards on this one.

[Ramsay]

eoin..but that was on my old phone before i lost it

[Shaun]

I don't think there's anything unorthodox about knowing some members for 3/4 years and sharing a couple of texts from time to time - it's no different to having them on MSN, Twitter or Facebook. It's not like we spend hours on the phone sharing memories about the Razzies - we just happen to discuss our personal lives quite often and I consider them friends.

[Shaun]

although I'd like to try and discuss past Razzies for three hours. *phones Ross*

[Stu]

That's my wall of delusion down like a house of cards then. I imagined you all organized constant raucous get togethers where you would braid one anothers hair and send endless unwanted pizza orders up to Claymore's flat.

Seriously though that last bit is just where we differ. It's not even that I wouldn't be comftorable with sharing personal details with people I've never met I just don't see the value in it.

[Shaun]

well screw you you'll just miss out on impromptu updates on my college bus journeys.

[InOne]

Vicky's (If shes not changed) And Lucy

[Pyramid*]

I can understand friendships forming over time, people swopping email addresses, and then taking that a step further to passing phone numbers - but I think there has to be a certain degree of safety involved as well as commonsense.

Much of that can only come from building up rapport / and trust. (which to be fair on 'both sides' .., I've seen trusting friendships build - and have also seen those who are meant to be 'best buddies' going around stabbing each other in the back, on the flip of a coin).

[Jessica.]

I used to have a few peoples ages ago but lost my phone. hehe

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Pyramid*

I can understand friendships forming over time, people swopping email addresses, and then taking that a step further to passing phone numbers - but I think there has to be a certain degree of safety involved as well as commonsense.

Much of that can only come from building up rapport / and trust. (which to be fair on 'both sides' .., I've seen trusting friendships build - and have also seen those who are meant to be 'best buddies' going around stabbing each other in the back, on the flip of a coin).

Not everyone is a bastard though.


Like I said earlier in the post, the only person to have my number is Marc. I trust him with it as over the years I have got to know him and he is a sound and funny guy.


But yeah, I don't and wouldn't just throw my phone number around the forum.

[Pyramid*]

Originally Posted by ukturtle

Not everyone is a bastard though.


Like I said earlier in the post, the only person to have my number is Marc. I trust him with it as over the years I have got to know him and he is a sound and funny guy.


But yeah, I don't and wouldn't just throw my phone number around the forum.

I don't think I inferred that everyone was a bastard - at all.

I said pretty clearly that some friendships will build up, trust gained etc - as well as the flip side of when it all goes pear shaped.

It all comes down to being wise and applying common sense.