[Me. I Am Salman]

Some beautiful stuff I'm reading :')

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Livia

I think you have no control when you fall in love with someone. If you're lucky you fall in love with a totally suitable person who returns your love. Lots of people are unlucky enough to fall for a total arse but they still love them completely. Although I think it's possible to "control yourself" and deny yourself, most people wouldn't. However, we're all ready to say that other people should control themselves... as in the teacher/pupil story. We're all judge and jury when it comes to other people's business, especially when we only have a snippet of a story.

It's certainly true many fall for the complete wrong person..yet continue to love them and find no fault..as in wife abuse cases, where they excuse the behaviour, no matter what.
In the tutor/student case, I think I was concentrating on the 'married' part than any other and how the wife and family would feel..it's hard sometimes to stay detatched on a subject...personal experiences come into it.
....I agree on the age thing...it's not up to us to judge and as for the 'abusing his position'.....we don't know all of the facts

[Kizzy]

When you are young you can be carried away by romance, when you are a hardened biatch like me it takes a lot more than a bunch of daffs and a soppy grin to win my heart. If i knew then what i know now...Believe me i had a div magnet, if there was a div in a 50 mile radius i would get him. And they are harder to get rid of than the clap! lol

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by kizzy

When you are young you can be carried away by romance, when you are a hardened biatch like me it takes a lot more than a bunch of daffs and a soppy grin to win my heart. If i knew then what i know now...Believe me i had a div magnet, if there was a div in a 50 mile radius i would get him. And they are harder to get rid of than the clap! lol

..ebay it Kizzy...I think you'll get a decent bid

[Novo]

anyone else ever think that the worst situation is moving in a house with your wife and kids 10 years into the future and you find out that your childhood love is your next door neighbour.. i had a nightmare about this once it was so real as well

Originally Posted by Novo

anyone else ever think that the worst situation is moving in a house with your wife and kids 10 years into the future and you find out that your childhood love is your next door neighbour.. i had a nightmare about this once it was so real as well

Wasn't your childhood love, the local priest, though?

[Novo]

Originally Posted by Jesus.H.Christ

Wasn't your childhood love, the local priest, though?

You have me mixed up for a Catholic

Spoiler:

Just a joke before anyone ( Kizzy) reports

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Novo

anyone else ever think that the worst situation is moving in a house with your wife and kids 10 years into the future and you find out that your childhood love is your next door neighbour.. i had a nightmare about this once it was so real as well

I think I'd have to move if that happened to me

[Ammi]

..I married my childhood sweetheart..I've covered all bases

[Novo]

Okay then you'll find out that he has a twin soon

Originally Posted by Ammi

..I married my childhood sweetheart..I've covered all bases

Have you been together since you were childhood sweat hearts, or did you have a break where you both explored different people?

[Josy]

I'm still with my childhood sweetheart too, never been seperated or even had a huge argument where one of us leaves for a few days.

There was one before him though and I suppose it would be really weird if he was a neighbour.

[Josy]

I just realised how daft childhood sweetheart actually sounds lol

[Novo]

That is why i said Childhood love

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Josy

I just realised how daft childhood sweetheart actually sounds lol

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Jesus.H.Christ

Have you been together since you were childhood sweat hearts, or did you have a break where you both explored different people?

No, we've never been apart..well, apart from when he leaves me..on business....Oh sh*t, don't tell me it's not really business.....

Originally Posted by Ammi

No, we've never been apart..well, apart from when he leaves me..on business....Oh sh*t, don't tell me it's not really business.....

I find that really odd (not in a bad way), as I know I'm just not built that way. I can't imagine anyone keeping my interest for that long, as I've changed so much as a person since I was "childhood love" age. How old were you when you got together?

[fruit_cake]

I think maybe we can control ourselves from falling in love with someone, but who we fall in love with initially is a bit random and based a lot on circumstance imo

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Jesus.H.Christ

I find that really odd (not in a bad way), as I know I'm just not built that way. I can't imagine anyone keeping my interest for that long, as I've changed so much as a person since I was "childhood love" age. How old were you when you got together?

18..I guess I can't imagine it any other way..but it's what works for the individual..

[King Gizzard]

Never been in love

Originally Posted by Ammi

18..I guess I can't imagine it any other way..but it's what works for the individual..

Absolutely - different strokes for different folks. I, personally, wouldn't class 18 as "childhood love" age. I picture it more as a 14/15yr old age. You are an adult at 18 (however immature we may be at that time).

Originally Posted by Nathan

Never been in love

Have you got one of these?



Then you have been in love.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Nathan

Never been in love

But..........but..........but........

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Jesus.H.Christ

Absolutely - different strokes for different folks. I, personally, wouldn't class 18 as "childhood love" age. I picture it more as a 14/15yr old age. You are an adult at 18 (however immature we may be at that time).

..yes, I wasn't a child...I probably should have said 'first boyfriend'...it took me 18 years to have the courage to have a bf

[King Gizzard]

Me and Mrs Hand have been acquainted for a very long time