[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Petershaw1984

I dont talk about people at all cherie, i have been so supportive to this one person who after struggling at first and having the majority of the workplace against her has turned into a pretty decent worker and the staff that didnt particuly like her have become pally and respectful to her and that is pretty much down to me.
As i said to ammi its hard hearing what people think of you. I suppose i just feel really let down

I know Peter, that's why I said it takes a very strong person not to get involved in office gossip and as you said you have taken a stand and don't get involved, of course its very disappointing that this has happened, unfortunately that is human nature for you. I suppose looking at it from her point of view, if she was an outsider to begin with and is now in the gang she might find it difficult to walk away and finds it easier to just go with the flow and fit in. Some people just cant stand alone, don't take it to heart its more their problem than yours.

[Petershaw1984]

Originally Posted by Cherie

I know Peter, that's why I said it takes a very strong person not to get involved in office gossip and as you said you have taken a stand and don't get involved, of course its very disappointing that this has happened, unfortunately that is human nature for you. I suppose looking at it from her point of view, if she was an outsider to begin with and is now in the gang she might find it difficult to walk away and finds it easier to just go with the flow and fit in. Some people just cant stand alone, don't take it to heart its more their problem than yours.

Yeah cherie i know she did struggle at first and has more than once said she feels part of something now she has even said if it wasnt for me then she would have left by now, she probably didnt mean any of what was said.

Ive always been of the mind set that people at work dobt bother me wether they like or dislike me as the people i want to like and love and appreciate me are at home.

[Petershaw1984]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..you've mentored this person and it's a reflection on them and not you..you can't make people appreciate you or what you've done or how kind and patient you've been...if they don't then you have to know that it says nothing about you..you behaved well and they didn't...try not to take it personal and to realise that they're really just disrespecting themselves and not you....your character is completely intact Peter...

Thanks ammi. Its just hard hearing it, i dont mind people disliking me or talking about me really its just upsetting when you hear it.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Petershaw1984

Thanks ammi. Its just hard hearing it, i dont mind people disliking me or talking about me really its just upsetting when you hear it.

..yeah, it's hard to hear it Peter..but just don't believe it..

[KingBilly]

Grammar is taught in primary school ffs.

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by KingBilly

Grammar is taught in primary school ffs.

so are fcuking manner's

[KingBilly]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

so are fcuking manner's

No they are not, actually.

I am really two-faced. I am a complete **** ♥

[Marcus.]

Originally Posted by KingBilly

No they are not, actually.

I am really two-faced. I am a complete **** ♥

well that nice to know kingbilly

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

so are fcuking manner's

Nice one

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

so are fcuking manner's

[Livia]

You don't get extra marks for grammar, punctuation or spelling on here Billy. Everyone has different skills.

[Marcus.]

Originally Posted by Livia

You don't get extra marks for grammar, punctuation or spelling on here Billy. Everyone has different skills.

yep livia
i am rubbish at spelling and grammar but the lovely people on here is helping me with it

[Ammi]

..don't tell anyone but I can't stand that Lemonjam..he's so two faced...




..but really...

[KingBilly]

Originally Posted by Livia

You don't get extra marks for grammar, punctuation or spelling on here Billy. Everyone has different skills.

Then the people with lesser skills should work on improving them. Life is harder for the illiterate people. I'm just trying to help.

[Marcus.]

Originally Posted by KingBilly

Then the people with lesser skills should work on improving them. Life is harder for the illiterate people. I'm just trying to help.

well i bet they are but it may take a bit of time

[Livia]

Originally Posted by KingBilly

Then the people with lesser skills should work on improving them. Life is harder for the illiterate people. I'm just trying to help.

If that's the case, perhaps you can take on board the comment about manners. Perhaps you can work on them. Just trying to help...

[KingBilly]

Originally Posted by Livia

If that's the case, perhaps you can take on board the comment about manners. Perhaps you can work on them. Just trying to help...

I have manners. I use them on people that are worthy.

[Livia]

Originally Posted by KingBilly

I have manners. I use them on people that are worthy.

I haven't seen much evidence of them on this thread. I'm all for confidence, but there's no need to be quite so rude. It doesn't make you look cool, it makes you look silly and spiteful.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Livia

If that's the case, perhaps you can take on board the comment about manners. Perhaps you can work on them. Just trying to help...

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by KingBilly

Then the people with lesser skills should work on improving them. Life is harder for the illiterate people. I'm just trying to help.

you just concentrate on yourself.

[KingBilly]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

you just concentrate on yourself.

Why? I have no flaws. I am flawless.

[LemonJam]

If I'm honest I can be quite two faced, but only about friends if they're getting on me tits.

[InOne]

This doesn't have much to do with the thread but with what people are talking about it reminded me of this book lol

[Kizzy]

Aw were these blokes too?
Just laugh when you see them and say something like 'hi there fishwives'!
what a pair of twonks!
Hope you really embarrassed them walking in peter

[Petershaw1984]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

Aw were these blokes too?
Just laugh when you see them and say something like 'hi there fishwives'!
what a pair of twonks!
Hope you really embarrassed them walking in peter

Both women kizzy, i work in a pretty female dominated job. Most of the blokes that work there get on quite well, infact i thought i got on with everyone.