[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by arista

Because some stay in one place
and that changes there outlook.

I have been in many places
even America.

How do you know I haven't travelled? I lived in America and London before I settled down and had a family. And I've been to alot of different countries on holiday.

I don't believe in soul mates because I don't believe we have a soul

[Redway]

No, not really. Even if it does exist, it would only really happen in an incredibly limited amount of circumstances and given the amount of people who just claim to have found their "soulmate", it just doesn't apply.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Redway

No, not really. Even if it does exist, it would only really happen in an incredibly limited amount of circumstances and given the amount of people who just claim to have found their "soulmate", it just doesn't apply.

Yeah exactly, I always feel like people who say they do, are thinking that your relationship isn't as good as theirs if you don't think there's such a thing as soul mates When really I'm not belittling my relationship with my husband at all, I couldn't imagine anyone in the world who could make me happier or suits me more. I felt like I needed to clarify that lol

[Stu]

If you did believe in one perfect soulmate I don't think the "what are the odds they've come to you and are in the same country as you?" thing would be much of a stumbling block so I don't tend to make those arguments.

They're your soulmate after all. Everything is meant to be perfect with them. That would include the fact that you will have ended up running into them. A predestined soulmate is no good sitting on their arse in Minsk.

[Kizzy]

I will have to say yes... When you meet someone and you just 'connect' with them, not a sexual thing anyone of either gender, you never forget that person if you chose different paths.
They are the ones that pop into your mind at quiet times.

[joeysteele]

Yes I believe you can find a soulmate, whether it's a partner or really close friend even.

[Jessica.]

Yes 100%!

[Niamh.]

[Z]

Sure, but it doesn't have to be quite so dramatic as 'the one out there for me' as others have said. I think it's just a romanticised way of describing how some people are more right for each other than others. If you get along with someone, find them funny, attractive, interesting - then who's to say you can't call them your soul mate? You clearly connect on more than one level.

[Mystic Mock]

I believe there's a potential 4 or 5 people you could fall in love with, and depending on your actions you will end up with one of them eventually.

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by The Mockinator

I believe there's a potential 4 or 5 people you could fall in love with, and depending on your actions you will end up with one of them eventually.

you could have all of them mock, if your a serial killer

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

you could have all of them mock, if your a serial killer

Well what you just said reminds me more of a serial rapist, or both if they kill them at the end.

[smeagol]

mine must be on planet blob
how many women in the world. im still lookin for a decent honest one never mind a soul mate lol

no such thing

[King Gizzard]

Having witnessed and separation first hand not really. it's just the luck and coincidence more than a soul mate

[the truth]

yes most definitely. But trying to define it is hard. Id guess its a person youre so comfortable with you dont even need to speak. or in the case of old married couples who finish each others sentences.

[the truth]

Its most lilely we do come across potential soul mates more often than we think, but in the hustle and bustle of the rat race we dont pause long enough to nurture these relationships

[flamingGalah!]

Yes. I had a few relationships in the past, the longest lasted 2 years, & even though I did love them I didn't think of them as being 'the one' or my soulmate. Then I met my partner. We met while working at the same company & this year we will have been together for 12 years. We have barely spent a day apart in all that time & are as much in love (if not more) than when we first started dating. We have so much in common & I cannot imagine being without him... I think you just know when you have met that special someone...