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Kyle · 25-07-2013, 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by smeagol

you mean he is being a adult lol

Nope, adults express anger in many ways. Two ways that are wrong is being needlessly aggressive and passive aggressive.

Dexter falls into the latter category, he doesn't defuse situations he manipulates them instead and tries to come out of it looking like he's the one being bullied.

Im_Juz_ChiLLin · 25-07-2013, 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Simple Minds

Nope, adults express anger in many ways. Two ways that are wrong is being needlessly aggressive and passive aggressive.

Dexter falls into the latter category, he doesn't defuse situations he manipulates them instead and tries to come out of it looking like he's the one being bullied.

You mean he is smart....

Vicky. · 25-07-2013, 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Simple Minds

Nope, adults express anger in many ways. Two ways that are wrong is being needlessly aggressive and passive aggressive.

Dexter falls into the latter category, he doesn't defuse situations he manipulates them instead and tries to come out of it looking like he's the one being bullied.

Never once has he done this. Manipulating things to cause ****, yes, but he has never ever tried to appear bullied. I think you are thinking of Wolfy.

Kyle · 25-07-2013, 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Im_Juz_ChiLLin

Dexters uncontrollable angry side..... where is it?

One point if Dexter is considered Aggressive in your eyes OP

Then im interested to hear your views on what Daley is classed as?

Daley however is aggressive.

The Italian guy who chucked pasta over that mother funky's head is aggressive.

Dexter is not.

Kyle · 25-07-2013, 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Vicky.

Never once has he done this. Manipulating things to cause ****, yes, but he has never ever tried to appear bullied. I think you are thinking of Wolfy.

Wolfy did the same, Dexter in the first few weeks when everybody put him up for eviction just sat there and took it and kept going off about how nobody likes him.

He has never come out and said he is being bullied yeh but he knows what he's doing if he said that he would lose his sympathy just like Wolfy did.

Kazanne · 25-07-2013, 12:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Vicky.

Because its just ridiculous?

Surely even as someone who dislikes him you cant possibly agree that he is unable to control his anger?

I just don't see why people cant post anything derogotary about him without getting pounced on ,surely posters have their own opinions on things if the OP thinks that,he/she should be able to say so,afterall I doubt Callum is a serial killer or a psycho but some people had a field day with that.

Im_Juz_ChiLLin · 25-07-2013, 12:46 PM

Big Brother Live ‏@BBUKLive 2h

10.45am: Dexter is ironing his shirt with the hair straighteners. We don't suggest you do the same at home. #bbuklive

Sign of a an aggressive man? i think not.....

Niamh. · 25-07-2013, 12:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Im_Juz_ChiLLin

Big Brother Live ‏@BBUKLive 2h

10.45am: Dexter is ironing his shirt with the hair straighteners. We don't suggest you do the same at home. #bbuklive

Sign of a an aggressive man? i think not.....

He's gonna straighten that shirt out

Vanessa · 25-07-2013, 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh.

He's gonna straighten that shirt out

smeagol · 25-07-2013, 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Simple Minds

Nope, adults express anger in many ways. Two ways that are wrong is being needlessly aggressive and passive aggressive.

Dexter falls into the latter category, he doesn't defuse situations he manipulates them instead and tries to come out of it looking like he's the one being bullied.

he is being a adult and being smart. basically what your saying is he cant win
if he got angry back at people which he is justified to do so for what ive seen. he would be hated. if he stands back and smiles and just thinks to himself let it ride leave it up to karma he is a passive agressive lol

Vicky. · 25-07-2013, 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Kazanne

I just don't see why people cant post anything derogotary about him without getting pounced on ,surely posters have their own opinions on things if the OP thinks that,he/she should be able to say so,afterall I doubt Callum is a serial killer or a psycho but some people had a field day with that.

They can, but this is just absolutely ridiculous. Its a bit like someone making a thread saying that Callum is actually a sugarplum fairy. Yes, that may be someones opinion, but people are free to take the piss out of how ridiculous the idea is.

Vanessa · 25-07-2013, 12:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Vicky.

They can, but this is just absolutely ridiculous. Its a bit like someone making a thread saying that Callum is actually a sugarplum fairy. Yes, that may be someones opinion, but people are free to take the piss out of how ridiculous the idea is.

Kyle · 25-07-2013, 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by smeagol

he is being a adult and being smart. basically what your saying is he cant win
if he got angry back at people which he is justified to do so for what ive seen. he would be hated. if he stands back and smiles and just thinks to himself let it ride leave it up to karma he is a passive agressive lol

No because there is a middle ground and he isn't using it

Daley was far too aggressive (and he had to go)

Dexter keeps quiet and sits there and schemes.

The middle ground is non violent confrontation which most of the other people in the house do.

Sallie also fell into the category of too aggressive and Gina for the most part is passive aggressive as she chooses who to argue with and if it doesn't suit her she backtracks.

Kazanne · 25-07-2013, 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Vicky.

They can, but this is just absolutely ridiculous. Its a bit like someone making a thread saying that Callum is actually a sugarplum fairy. Yes, that may be someones opinion, but people are free to take the piss out of how ridiculous the idea is.

Agreed,but this is a forum and it will get ridiculous posts,i've seen so many already,one more wont make much difference

smeagol · 25-07-2013, 12:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Simple Minds

No because there is a middle ground and he isn't using it

Daley was far too aggressive (and he had to go)

Dexter keeps quiet and sits there and schemes.

The middle ground is non violent confrontation which most of the other people in the house do.

Sallie also fell into the category of too aggressive and Gina for the most part is passive aggressive as she chooses who to argue with and if it doesn't suit her she backtracks.

most people on this forum must be passive agressive then as most of us dont scream and shout at others we keep calm and be adults when attacked. while probably secretly thinking i hope they fall down a well lol

dexter is smart and wise enough to know give people enough rope they will hang themselves he doesn't need to do much but let them rant and sit back and watch them fall. thats just being smart.
the best saying is dont get angry get even. thats not aggressive thats just common sense .

Kazanne · 25-07-2013, 01:02 PM

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Originally Posted by smeagol

most people on this forum must be passive agressive then as most of us dont scream and shout at others we keep calm and be adults when attacked. while probably secretly thinking i hope they fall down a well lol

dexter is smart and wise enough to know give people enough rope they will hang themselves he doesn't need to do much but let them rant and sit back and watch them fall. thats just being smart.
the best saying is dont get angry get even. thats not aggressive thats just common sense .

That doesn't make sense,we are only 'passive aggresive' as you call it because we HAVE to be,firstly you cannot do much through a computer screen,secondly we cant say what we actually feel as we would get banned.

smeagol · 25-07-2013, 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Kazanne

That doesn't make sense,we are only 'passive aggresive' as you call it because we HAVE to be,firstly you cannot do much through a computer screen,secondly we cant say what we actually feel as we would get banned.

you dont have to be anything no one is stopping us. its a choice we make as adults to be smart it doesn't make us passive aggressive

Mitchell · 25-07-2013, 01:05 PM

His passive aggressiveness is seen quite a lot, I just wish he'd stop being fake and actually show us the real Dexter, the act that he's currently showing really isn't working.

Vanessa · 25-07-2013, 01:06 PM

Imagine if Dexter ever dared to answer the housemates back. He'd be labelled worse than Daley.

Mitchell · 25-07-2013, 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa

Imagine if Dexter ever dared to answer the housemates back. He'd be labelled worse than Daley.

No he wouldn't, that's pretty judgemental... If Dexter answered back then let him, but if he got the stage of Daley I would bring it up, undoubtedly he'd still be Mother Theresa