[Cherie]

Originally Posted by MeMyselfAndI

Either way he owes her 200k

Bet she will let the land go to public auction now though as if she doesn't she may not get the full sum owed back. Once the land is gone and if he has no further assets he can declare himself bankrupt and she can whistle for it.

[Ammi]

It is sad my dream has ended this way. I wish to God I had never met Valerie. But there’s no point wasting emotion worrying over things that have happened.’


..the irony of those two words.....because it's not an emotional reaction at all to bulldoze a house down..and not at all a waste of 5 years of your life, even though you're not going to be able to live there yourself..to not allow someone else to enjoy and appreciate those 5 years, which you have spent building it...

[Tom4784]

Well I hope she gets her money back in the end. This man seems like an arsehole and I hope he does end up for nothing for being utterly childish.

[MeMyselfAndI]

I agree with Josy, he is in no way a victim.

[MeMyselfAndI]

50/50 blame? I'm dying

Thats like the equivalent of giving blame to a rape victim

[Livia]

This is the lawyer in me speaking: Always get a prenup. Always. No one is that good a shag that you should trust them with your cash, whatever the amount.

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Livia

This is the lawyer in me speaking: Always get a prenup. Always. No one is that good a shag that you should trust them with your cash, whatever the amount.

so you think I have lost my 50 pence then?

[Benjamin]

What a twat of a man. Glad he did that as he has only made life worse for himself.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Benjamin

What a twat of a man. Glad he did that as he has only made life worse for himself.

she was equally twattish pushing to sell off his assets for just enough to cover her debt even though they were worth a lot more. I can't see how she comes out of this looking good either.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Cherie

she was equally twattish pushing to sell off his assets for just enough to cover her debt even though they were worth a lot more. I can't see how she comes out of this looking good either.

..yeah, you're right Cherie, I don't think that she does come out of it looking good either..it's always sad (but often happens) that people who have had feelings toward each other can then feel so much bitterness when the relationship comes to an end.. and it's so often about 'money/possessions' as well..a real 'relationship gone wrong' in this case for whatever reasons and they both look bad and appear very vindictive and bitter.but because of the extremity of his actions, he's not only made himself look far worse than her, he's also made her look better as well...irony...

..he really has wasted 5 years of his life now because the people who would have bought the house and lived there, would have appreciated their home and loved it and then it wouldn't have been a 'waste'....

[Samm]

Ew he's ugly no wonder she got rid of him

[Livia]

Pay a lawyer for a prenup or pay a lawyer to sort out the carnage. I know which one will cost you less. If people know what the deal is before they get married, there'd be less of this ridiculousness - from both sides.

[Josy]

Originally Posted by Livia

Pay a lawyer for a prenup or pay a lawyer to sort out the carnage. I know which one will cost you less. If people know what the deal is before they get married, there'd be less of this ridiculousness - from both sides.

They weren't married though

[Livia]

Originally Posted by Josy

They weren't married though

Even more reason then to have some kind of contract when money and property are involved. If they were two uninvolved people investing, they'd never dream of going ahead with only verbal contracts to protect their interests.

[Black Dagger]

I could have had that house.