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Black Dagger · 18-09-2015, 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Niamh.

Lucas

A man has needs!

Jason. · 18-09-2015, 10:13 AM

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Originally Posted by _LucasMichael_

A man has needs!

Will. · 18-09-2015, 10:05 AM

Jake. · 18-09-2015, 10:07 AM

OH I've just got what you mean

No, that's nasty

Jason. · 18-09-2015, 10:10 AM

No. I think that's vile. Not only is the person married, but also the idea of meeting them on a trashy reality show

Jordan. · 18-09-2015, 11:18 AM

Daniel. · 18-09-2015, 11:21 AM

Yes
Daniel_, goldensunlight, Jordan., Rob!, windyourneckin, _LucasMichael_

not us the only people being honest

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Niamh. · 18-09-2015, 11:27 AM

No
armand.kay, BB6, Beau, Dezzy, Germyle, jet, joeysteele, LeatherTrumpet, LukeB, Mystic Mock, Natalie., Niamh., RichardG, Riley95, SharkAttack, Shaun, Xtopher

Not us the only people with some class

Daniel. · 18-09-2015, 11:28 AM

I'm classy af

Niamh. · 18-09-2015, 11:29 AM

Home wreckers aren't classy

goldensunlight · 18-09-2015, 12:23 PM

Yeah. If they're the one that's married it's their problem, not yours.

jet · 18-09-2015, 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by goldensunlight

Yeah. If they're the one that's married it's their problem, not yours.

If you know the person is married you can't absolve yourself from taking some of the blame. It's your choice to go there.

Daniel. · 18-09-2015, 01:08 PM

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Originally Posted by goldensunlight

Yeah. If they're the one that's married it's their problem, not yours.

tbh.

Niamh. · 18-09-2015, 01:34 PM

I don't think a single person who voted No on that Poll would say that the married person isn't more to blame Jack.

Crimson Dynamo · 18-09-2015, 01:39 PM

being unfaithful is not a good look and will eat at your soul and mark your life

is no one watching Doctor Foster?

Poor Suranne

Daniel. · 18-09-2015, 01:46 PM

I agree with Jack, I would never cheat on my partner with someone if I was in a relationship on the outside, but if I was single and we liked each other? Then yes, I would go for it..

Jack_ · 18-09-2015, 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Daniel_

I agree with Jack, I would never cheat on my partner with someone if I was in a relationship on the outside, but if I was single and we liked each other? Then yes, I would go for it..

Indeed, I actually find it repugnant on shows like these. I can totally understand liking someone in the house and all your emotions would be be heightened and accelerated, but at least wait until you get off a bloody TV show before you do anything.

I would have to seriously, seriously like someone before I considered getting with them because my conscience would be restraining me, even moreso on national television, but as a single person I would be totally free to do that. Not my problem.

Niamh. · 18-09-2015, 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

Hazel was lovely

Disgusting Daley and Gina were filth

I agree

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Originally Posted by Jack_

Indeed, I actually find it repugnant on shows like these. I can totally understand liking someone in the house and all your emotions would be be heightened and accelerated, but at least wait until you get off a bloody TV show before you do anything.

I would have to seriously, seriously like someone before I considered getting with them because my conscience would be restraining me, even moreso on national television, but as a single person I would be totally free to do that. Not my problem.

I know I already said this Jack but I think if you had actual experience of just how devastating cheating can be on a person and whole families maybe you would be able to empathise more with the (for lack of a better word) victim, even if you're the single person.

Jack_ · 18-09-2015, 02:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh.

I know I already said this Jack but I think if you had actual experience of just how devastating cheating can be on a person and whole families maybe you would be able to empathise more with the (for lack of a better word) victim, even if you're the single person.

I think I understand what you're saying, so if a single person had previously had some experience of seeing how awful cheating was, they would be less likely to get with someone who was in a relationship because of it?

I get that, and that is probably true and would if anything make their decision to go along with it even worse, but I still think they're absolved of most, if not all of the blame. And for the people who've never experienced that, well, they know no differently do they...but it's still not them who are jeopardising a relationship that they themselves have

Niamh. · 18-09-2015, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Jack_

I think I understand what you're saying, so if a single person had previously had some experience of seeing how awful cheating was, they would be less likely to get with someone who was in a relationship because of it?

I get that, and that is probably true and would if anything make their decision to go along with it even worse, but I still think they're absolved of most, if not all of the blame. And for the people who've never experienced that, well, they know no differently do they...but it's still not them who are jeopardising a relationship that they themselves have

Yeah that's what I mean.

Being "absolved of blame" again is pretty subjective here as it's a moral issue so who is really the judge of that?

I agree if the married person is prepared to cheat with you, then they'll probably be prepared to cheat with someone else too but I believe we're all responsible for own actions and you would be having respect for both the innocent party (the married persons spouse) and for yourself by not being a part of that cheating. Not to mention the fact that if you yourself were going to get into a relationship with them then it's not a good advertisement of how they treat their partner and if it's just a sex thing that's meaningless.....doesn't that make you even more callous to be a part of hurting a person so badly just for a meaningless shag?