[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by DemolitionRed

I agree with this^

My other half got on really well with one of his work collegues until we all went out for dinner one night. As he introduced his wife he said, "This is Annie, she's a bit fat and very smelly but she's nice really". My husband was so disgusted with that introduction that he decided this guy was not a nice person. I reminded him that although he didn't like the way he introduced his wife, his wife seemed to find it quite funny (though she may of been embarrassed) and therefore he shouldn't be judgemental.

Aw you see initially I would laugh but I can see why that would be uncomfortable as it's setting her on the backfoot. If he'd said 'this is Annie, I know whats she doing with a fat smelly bloke like me?' that would be better, it's still a comedy intro

[Ashley.]

They can be a nice person to other people. But they wouldn't be a nice person in my books.

[lostalex]

Yes, absolutely. some people bring out the worst in other people. There're definitely some partners that drive you into being an asshole because they are so manipulative and emotionally abusive.

[waterhog]

I promise I will be a nice person if you will be my partner - please state clearly below and I will review the list (joke).