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Please don’t put words in my mouth... I haven’t said anything remotely close to what you’re implying...
You implied the situation was akin to a woman being raped
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I used that as a example to put things in to context so that others could understand my argument... It had nothing to do with writing my own narrative of what happened...
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I used that as a example to put things in to context so that others could understand my argument... It had nothing to do with writing my own narrative of what happened...
Except that it is exactly either you putting things out of context... or you drawing your own narrative of what occurred... or both.

The thing is, your arguments for why I'm wrong are also the same arguments for why you are.

And ultimately, there is still no victim here
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Except that it is exactly either you putting things out of context... or you drawing your own narrative of what occurred... or both.

The thing is, your arguments for why I'm wrong are also the same arguments for why you are.

And ultimately, there is still no victim here
It's not out of context at all... Both are unwelcomed behaviors that people are implying are ok just it's welcomed by someone else... I'm also not implying anything by using the example I've been using or writing my own version of events...
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It's not out of context at all... Both are unwelcomed behaviors that people are implying are ok just it's welcomed by someone else... I'm also not implying anything by using the example I've been using or writing my own version of events...
But you are if you think that those two examples of behaviour are the same. That is your version of what happened in a nut shell.... you just stated that implicitly. The directed behavior of a man putting himself forcefully on a woman who is saying no... is far different than a man being in the same space as a woman and when he realised she was uncomfortable by his physical activity... stopping.
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But you are if you think that those two examples of behaviour are the same. That is your version of what happened in a nut shell.... you just stated that implicitly. The directed behavior of a man putting himself forcefully on a woman who is saying no... is far different than a man being in the same space as a woman and when he realised she was uncomfortable by his physical activity... stopping.
I have never said that the two are the same or should be treated the same... Just that the example is comparable on an equal level... I've also never used examples of men vs woman... Woman are just as capable or committing violating behaviours...
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I have never said that the two are the same or should be treated the same... Just that the example is comparable on an equal level... I've also never used examples of men vs woman... Woman are just as capable or committing violating behaviours...
I think someone needs to look at the definitions of "same" and "equal"

You keep proving what I am saying
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I'm not actually... The only thing happening here is that you're putting words in my mouth...
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I'm not actually... The only thing happening here is that you're putting words in my mouth...
I'm reading the words you are typing... and taking them as they are defined. If I'm misunderstanding then it might be your choice of words, phrases, or analogies.
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I'm reading the words you are typing... and taking them as they are defined. If I'm misunderstanding then it might be your choice of words, phrases, or analogies.
No once again you're writing your own narrative... I haven't said anything you're accusing me of saying...
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No once again you're writing your own narrative... I haven't said anything you're accusing me of saying...
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Patronizing doesn't become you
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Not patronizing anyone... If anyone has been patronizing in this argument it's been you...
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Been up since 4.35 Mokk.

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It's not intended to, but it is my opinion and one based on on the facts that your premise is irrational and your argument is non-persuasive.
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