[pontyboi]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

I think it was a bit extreme the way he described it , like i said it felt like he just was being OTT for a reaction can't you see my point?? .

I don't see your point I think people over reacting to housemates comments over the years and complaining to Ofcom has stifled Big Brother and made it less of a talking point about social situations and BB having to shut them down by ejecting housemates because they need to be politically correct.

They let the Ryan And Roxy situation play out in CBB and it made for brilliant tv and discussion...It was also so relevant to todays #MeToo society which what has made BB as famous as it is

Do you see my point?

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by pontyboi

I don't see your point I think people over reacting to housemates comment over the years and complaining to Ofcom has stifled Big Brother and made it less of a talking point about social situations and BB having to shut them down by ejecting housemates because they need to be politically correct.

They let the Ryan And Roxy situation play out in CBB and it made for brilliant tv and discussion...It was also so relevant to todays #MeToo society which what has made BB as famous as it is

Do you see my point?

i never complained to ofcom i'm not one of those BB viewers . But that's why i made this thread because of the overreaction to Isaac & Lewis G . And i don't understand it when most of the HL show was sexual conversations !!! .

[crashandburn]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

I think it was a bit extreme the way he described it , like i said it felt like he just was being OTT for a reaction can't you see my point?? .

Yeah the reaction being laughter. that's what happens in a group when you're all being silly. Someone says something (e.g. vaginas are ugly) and people laugh, then someone else will take it further and say something more extreme (e.g. they look like a hatchet wound) and get a bigger laugh.

So yes he was being more extreme to get a reaction, I don't understand the problem though?

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by crashandburn

Yeah the reaction being laughter. that's what happens in a group when you're all being silly. Someone says something (e.g. vaginas are ugly) and people laugh, then someone else will take it further and say something more extreme (e.g. they look like a hatchet wound) and get a bigger laugh.

So yes he was being more extreme to get a reaction, I don't understand the problem though?

Like i said if one of the other guys said that then a massive argument would of kicked of between Ana and the person . And as i said most of the housemates were talking about sex and who's the most attractive etc so yeah.

[crashandburn]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

Like i said if one of the other guys said that then a massive argument would of kicked of between Ana and the person . And as i said most of the housemates were talking about sex and who's the most attractive etc so yeah.

But that's more because Ana looks for any excuse to have an argument rather than because it was actually an offensive thing to say (which it wasn't).

[pontyboi]

At the end of the day GoldHeart was apparently offended by the comment hence the thread which we "have to respect".

The whole "if a straight housemate said it" to me seems like bs as you openly said in a post that you dislikes Tomasz and it seems like you're using him to create a feminist situation which isn't there...He openly stated he loved women but didn't find them sexually attractive.

I grew up as a teenager in the 90's and early 2000's when we called vaginas gash and bum holes hoop and it was considered funny and had no pc agenda attached to it.

Im so thankful I grew up in an era where people didn't look into non situations.

If you cant see you're being overly pc then this thread is going nowhere.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by pontyboi

At the end of the day GoldHeart was apparently offended by the comment hence the thread which we "have to respect".

The whole "if a straight housemate said it" to me seems like bs as you openly said in a post that you dislikes Tomasz and it seems like you're using him to create a feminist situation which isn't there...He openly stated he loved women but didn't find them sexually attractive.

I grew up as a teenager in the 90's and early 2000's when we called vaginas gash and bum holes hoop and it was considered funny and had no pc agenda attached to it.

Im so thankful I grew up in an era where people didn't look into non situations.

If you cant see you're being overly pc then this thread is going nowhere.

I wasn't offended and i'm not overly PC , I already explained that the whole HL show was sexual yet certain people get a PASS that's all i'm saying. And Tomasz clearly wanted a reaction .

I never said i disliked Tomasz atall , now you're putting words into my mouth . I think he might get more annoying but from the beginning i actually found him funny when he rolled his eyes at Lewis G and when he hid in the killer coin task .

[pontyboi]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

I wasn't offended and i'm not overly PC , I already explained that the whole HL show was sexual yet certain people get a PASS that's all i'm saying. And Tomasz clearly wanted a reaction .

I never said i disliked Tomasz atall , now you're putting words into my mouth . I think he might get more annoying but from the beginning i actually found him funny when he rolled his eyes at Lewis G and when he hid in the killer coin task .

We aren't gonna agree on this situation lets be honest lol that's what makes this forum better than Digital Spy

Lets focus on the real issue...Why the **** are we awake at 2:48am?

[crashandburn]

What I don't get then is why you asked "why is it ok to say that even as a joke?"

What I want to know is why is it not ok to say it as a joke? lol.

I get that you're now saying you weren't offended etc etc... but that's not what your OP sounds like. Not trying to embarrass you or prove you wrong or anything I just don't understand what this is about haha.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by pontyboi

We aren't gonna agree on this situation lets be honest lol that's what makes this forum better than Digital Spy

Lets focus on the real issue...Why the **** are we awake at 2:48am?

I know

[Garfie]

I found his comments funny. Sorry if that offends anyone! And I didn't think he was over-exaggerating but really did see women's bits in that way, and I guess that's what made it amusing to me.

I thought it was harmless as he was just talking in general about a part of the human anatomy rather than directing it at someone in particular. And everyone else just laughed and continued along the theme, so it didn't seem to cause offence.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Garfie

I found his comments funny. Sorry if that offends anyone! And I didn't think he was over-exaggerating but really did see women's bits in that way, and I guess that's what made it amusing to me.

I thought it was harmless as he was just talking in general about a part of the human anatomy rather than directing it at someone in particular. And everyone else just laughed and continued along the theme, so it didn't seem to cause offence.

It's the hatchet comment that i thought was an exaggeration that's all , we all know he doesn't like it but was still over the top .

[JerseyWins]

Honestly this was hilarious af

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by armand.kay

were any actual women offended?

...nope, I smiled.....whether male or female all of those bits of us are really odd when you think about it...although they’re not odd at all because they all fit together as well...but because he doesn’t find the female bits attractive...he’s able to be more analytical about it...I mean just saying what it all looks like to him...well etc, etc...I can’t believe I’m typing any of this...but no, what he said felt logical to him...

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Rob!

Oh get a grip.

The only thing I found bizarre is that he's an advocate of embracing your feminine side and yet has a morbid fear of the female anatomy.

He is never going to have to be bothered by a vagina so where is the issue, more cliched nonsense from him

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Cherie

He is never going to have to be bothered by a vagina so where is the issue, more cliched nonsense from him

thank you

[bots]

every time they start talking about sex I just zone out ...... i find that works rather well

[Underscore]

If a lesbian said something similar about a dick I wouldn’t be bothered at all

[Crimson Dynamo]

id imagine its been a while since he was able to see his own "private part" so..

[Mokka]

I'm gonna get Scott banned the next time he says this about women's parts in the chat thread... since I'm meant to be uber offended that a gay man doesn't like lady bits... because I'm a lady.

Thank you for telling me to be offended

[Beso]

Its an old and outdated comparison...a steak hanging over a washing line is the way forward.

[user104658]

I don't think it's a particularly uncommon thought for gay men tbh. One of my gay friends practically has a phobia .

I imagine it's due to simply not having much / any experience of actual vaginas, and having distorted / confused ideas of what they're actually all about .

[Elliot]

Originally Posted by crashandburn

I think Anamelia was seriously toying with the idea of being offended and making an issue out of it. But she was too much enjoying the fact everyone was having fun with her while Lewis F was sitting alone, so she didn't want to give that up. She was reveling in it.

But seriously, she was very close to starting a fight over it.

She was itching for a fight all day... the things she was saying in the garden in the afternoon were so worrying.

Yeah anamelia wasn’t exactly the arbiter of public opinion she’d start s fight with herself.... and she has
Also Kenaley said she doesn’t like the look of penis so like,,, this thread seems pointless

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

id imagine its been a while since he was able to see his own "private part" so..

I'm finding his fan very useful it has to be said

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Elliot

Yeah anamelia wasn’t exactly the arbiter of public opinion she’d start s fight with herself.... and she has
Also Kenaley said she doesn’t like the look of penis so like,,, this thread seems pointless

The difference being they both will have have been in contact with one