[Cherry Christmas]

Originally Posted by Strictly Jake

Maybe she should stop being such a judgmental cow and realise that people probably are interested in what he is saying and realise that she is the dull one and the reason they get invited less and less is because she stands there all night looking grumpy giving evils to her husband who people like

windmills arms around and shouts loudly at Jake

[bots]

She could wear a blindfold and earplugs .... problem solved

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Cherie

windmills arms around and shouts loudly at Jake

Short sharp kick to the nuts would be the appropriate action to take, unless it’s lt, he would consider that as flirting.

[Christmas Dynasnow]

Dear LT: 'My girlfriend’s mother can’t look me in the eye'


My girlfriend’s mother can’t look me in the eye I have been with my lovely
girlfriend for three years and we are extremely happy. Unfortunately whenever I
visit her parents’ house, there is always an air of hostility from her mother
who, on a good day will say hello, and on a bad day will say nothing at all.

I’ve wondered for a while what makes her so uncomfortable; I’d like to think
I’m just a normal kind and caring 25 year-old with a decent education and a
good career, although I think she struggles to accept that her daughter is in a
relationship with a girl.

What can I do to ease the tension and make her more comfortable towards me
?

[Holly Christmas]

Dear gay girl. You have probably hit the nail on the head yourself as to why her mother is so uncomfortable around you. Assuming this is her first relationship with a member of the same sex. Just be yourself and don't go OTT with PDA's. Hopefully the mum in question will come around. A lot depends on how much notice your girlfriend takes of what her mother thinks. Good luck.

[Holly Christmas]

Bumping this.....

[Christmas Dynasnow]

'Living in limbo has made me question whether my six-year relationship has a future'



I am 26 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for six years. We met at university – we were in the same halls,
so we’ve lived together from day one of our relationship. Things have been great, but in the past 18 months doubts
about our future keep entering my mind. We are very honest with each other and we talk about these issues and
usually work through them.

Recently, though, a colleague told me he has feelings for me and kissed me. My boyfriend found out and says he has
come to terms with it, although he feels he can’t trust me any more.

Part of my gut tells me to keep our relationship going, to work at it because it can be great, and the other part
is saying you wouldn’t have kissed him back if you were happy.

We have been in limbo with our lives for a couple of years, uncertain about jobs and where to live. It might be
this limbo that is clouding my feelings too – I just don’t know.

We have said we will always be there for one another, I will never meet anyone like him and he’s doing nothing
wrong – it’s just my mind is set on experiencing life alone for a bit for the first time since I was 17, in the hope
I’ll be able to make the relationship work once I feel I’ve had that “me time”. By that time though, however
long it will be, he might have moved on.

Is it worth me being selfish for the risk of losing what might’ve been the best thing I ever had?

Fanny, York