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Cat-calling 3 16.67%
Cat-calling
3 16.67%
Staring 3 16.67%
Staring
3 16.67%
Slut-shaming 4 22.22%
Slut-shaming
4 22.22%
Inappropriate jokes (either making them or letting them slide) 8 44.44%
Inappropriate jokes (either making them or letting them slide)
8 44.44%
Being anti-feminist (in its basic sense) 4 22.22%
Being anti-feminist (in its basic sense)
4 22.22%
“Boys will be boys” 3 16.67%
“Boys will be boys”
3 16.67%
Period jokes 6 33.33%
Period jokes
6 33.33%
Failing to understand why it’s important that women and men get paid the same for the same job 3 16.67%
Failing to understand why it’s important that women and men get paid the same for the same job
3 16.67%
Touching inappropriately 3 16.67%
Touching inappropriately
3 16.67%
Refusing to take any responsibility for contraception 3 16.67%
Refusing to take any responsibility for contraception
3 16.67%
Dismissing women’s opinions/man-splaining 3 16.67%
Dismissing women’s opinions/man-splaining
3 16.67%
Sharing nudes 3 16.67%
Sharing nudes
3 16.67%
Removing condoms 3 16.67%
Removing condoms
3 16.67%
Pursuing girls who aren’t interested 3 16.67%
Pursuing girls who aren’t interested
3 16.67%
“It’s just being friendly” 3 16.67%
“It’s just being friendly”
3 16.67%
Feeling entitled to sex 3 16.67%
Feeling entitled to sex
3 16.67%
Other 3 16.67%
Other
3 16.67%
None at all 10 55.56%
None at all
10 55.56%
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I am talking about scientific fact
XY comes from XX since female’s the default sex. That’s a scientific fact.
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For the record I love strong independent women I hate week men
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XY comes from XX since female’s the default sex. That’s a scientific fact.
This is true, it's (genuinely) why the ballsack has a "seam" up the middle - it's where the two sides of the labia join and seal together when male sex hormones are introduced during gestation. It's also why men have nipples (they start to develop before the fetus goes one way or the other). Fascinating stuff really.
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I would say out of those, it would be sometimes letting inappropriate jokes slide. I do make more of an effort nowadays to call a friend out on stuff like that, but know I should try harder
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...I had 9 very definite’s that I didn’t post the number yesterday but it was very valid for Jess to suggest that as well, that the ones felt should be noted also...
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...to be honest, though...I’m not always entirely quite clear between misogyny and sexism...I mean some are more obvious but for instance, which would ‘inappropriate jokes’ be...?...
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...to be honest, though...I’m not always entirely quite clear between misogyny and sexism...I mean some are more obvious but for instance, which would ‘inappropriate jokes’ be...?...
I don't actually think the distinction is all that important; it would only be to "lessen" one definition vs the other for the sake of the perpetrator and stop them launching into the defensive whining... which those that way inclined would probably do anyway whether you called it misogyny or sexism. I can't personally think of many examples of sexism that don't come from some level of unconscious misogyny.
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...to be honest, though...I’m not always entirely quite clear between misogyny and sexism...I mean some are more obvious but for instance, which would ‘inappropriate jokes’ be...?...
I would say the two are a lot of times entwined but misogyny is more of an actual hatred for women. Like you could be sexist but not a misogynist but all misogynists are sexists (that sounds like one of those Maths/IQ test questions ) These are the definitions

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prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination, typically against women, on the basis of sex.

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...yeah, I’m overthinking I guess but there are ‘levels’ which I wasn’t sure if there was a line, if that makes sense...
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I would say the two are a lot of times entwined but misogyny is more of an actual hatred for women. Like you could be sexist but not a misogynist but all misogynists are sexists (that sounds like one of those Maths/IQ test questions ) These are the definitions

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See even by the dictionary definitions I think it's largely the same thing... people don't engage in the former without some element of the latter. I guess going by those, they're actually just different aspects of the same thing; misogyny is just the feelings/beliefs in and of themselves from their conception, whereas sexism is the active form of actually engaging in misogynistic behaviours (rather than just thinking them).
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Funny story; the other day I forgot I had this avatar, saw my own avatar when I was scrolling down the page, and thought the post was LT. there must be some sort of strong cognitive link!

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See even by the dictionary definitions I think it's largely the same thing... people don't engage in the former without some element of the latter. I guess going by those, they're actually just different aspects of the same thing; misogyny is just the feelings/beliefs in and of themselves from their conception, whereas sexism is the active form of actually engaging in misogynistic behaviours (rather than just thinking them).
Yeah, I suppose you could say misogyny is more of a conscious thing or that some people who behave in a sexist way don't think hard enough about why sexism comes from misogyny? I don't know. Neither is great is it?
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...see, it’s just so not you at all...poor LT, though, I don’t think it’s him either...
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...some of the definitions that I’m reading are suggesting that sexism deals with and defines more the inequalities of sexes, as in salaries not always been equivalent for an equivalent job...?..but misogyny goes deeper into a dislike of..?..well, hatred of I guess, technically...
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Sometimes I think it is literally him Ammi... did Piers ever express being a Big Brother fan?
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I don't think that I've been guilty of misogynistic behaviour, but then I am gonna say that because nine times out of ten people don't realise that they are prejudiced towards a group of people.

An interesting topic though Redway.
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There’s a difference between a sexist and a misogynist


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Mansplaining is definitely a thing but I agree that it's so overused now it's pretty meaningless
Oh I agree.

I saw a woman on Twitter the once say that a guy was mansplaining to her just because he disagreed with her.

The original meaning of the word is getting lost.

Oh and I've just re-read the inappropriate jokes option, I've definitely let jokes of that nature slide in the past.
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