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AlexBigBrother · 22-05-2008, 10:58 PM

right, so your issue is personal arguements, its a fair point!

MrGaryy · 22-05-2008, 11:02 PM

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Originally posted by chrissy

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Originally posted by Fraser
Im writing this to say that I'm sick of the petty and trivial arguments that I've come across in this area of the forum.
It is very unpleasant for the other members to have to encounter the threads clogged up by posts from people arguing over trivial and immature things.
I feel I have to scroll endlessly through a thread to get to the information I want due to the multiple posts of petty arguments.

Please stop this. It is given the forum a bad name and I am considering deleting my account as a result of this.

Also, if anyone dares to start an argument over this saying that it is "clogging" the forum ironically, I would just like to remind them that there would be no need to post this if they simply stopped their petty, immature, demoralising, irritating arguments. AND that they are just proving my point by doing so.

Please argue on a one to one basis only in your own time.

Thankyou.

You have completely controdicted yourself by making this thread!!! you have started the worst "petty" argument i have seen on this forum. And also there will always be arguing on forums because everyone has different opinions, and yes sometimes people say silly things, me included, but at the end of the day we never get personal on this forum and it is the most comfortable forum for BB i have ever been on and i like the members on this forum because they are not afraid to say their opinions and stand up for them, that is not called "petty" arguing its called human nature, the fact you have called this "petty" arguing show the rest of us that you probably dont belong on this forum.

LMAOROFL! You think people don't get personal!

Fraser:) · 22-05-2008, 11:03 PM

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Originally posted by chrissy

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Originally posted by Fraser
Im writing this to say that I'm sick of the petty and trivial arguments that I've come across in this area of the forum.
It is very unpleasant for the other members to have to encounter the threads clogged up by posts from people arguing over trivial and immature things.
I feel I have to scroll endlessly through a thread to get to the information I want due to the multiple posts of petty arguments.

Please stop this. It is given the forum a bad name and I am considering deleting my account as a result of this.

Also, if anyone dares to start an argument over this saying that it is "clogging" the forum ironically, I would just like to remind them that there would be no need to post this if they simply stopped their petty, immature, demoralising, irritating arguments. AND that they are just proving my point by doing so.

Please argue on a one to one basis only in your own time.

Thankyou.

You have completely controdicted yourself by making this thread!!! you have started the worst "petty" argument i have seen on this forum. And also there will always be arguing on forums because everyone has different opinions, and yes sometimes people say silly things, me included, but at the end of the day we never get personal on this forum and it is the most comfortable forum for BB i have ever been on and i like the members on this forum because they are not afraid to say their opinions and stand up for them, that is not called "petty" arguing its called human nature, the fact you have called this "petty" arguing show the rest of us that you probably dont belong on this forum.

I find the petty arguing does get personal and its the fact it is in the wrong thread and I have to scroll pass endless arguing to get to the desired info that irritates me.

This is not an argument. It is a healthy debate. It is sticking to the topic and there is no personal arguing here. There is no need for endless scrolling because the information is completely relevant to the topic.

If members wish to express their opinions in a constructive manner that is relevant to the thread without deliberately upsetting anyone else then that is what you call "human nature".
I think it is petty arguing when it gets personal, which it does on numerous occasions and becomes trivial and completely irrelivant to the thread.

chrissy · 22-05-2008, 11:04 PM

Fraser you have created the BIGGEST petty argument i have ever seen on this forum !! irony

chrissy · 22-05-2008, 11:05 PM

LMAOROFL what the hell is that?

bigbrotherbest99 · 22-05-2008, 11:05 PM

look, there is a divide in TIBB lol like the bb house lol

AlexBigBrother · 22-05-2008, 11:06 PM

day 17, Fraser is talking to the housemates about arguements

Fraser:) · 22-05-2008, 11:08 PM

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Originally posted by chrissy
Fraser you have created the BIGGEST petty argument i have ever seen on this forum !! irony

No you don't seem to be understanding these terms.

Healthy debating here, relevant to the topic.

Petty arguments (the ones which annoy me) are PERSONAL attacks that clog up individual threads and go off on a tangent becoming totally irrelevant to the thread.

chrissy · 22-05-2008, 11:10 PM

No this is petty arguing! rongo!

bigbrotherbest99 · 22-05-2008, 11:12 PM

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Originally posted by AlexBigBrother
day 17, Fraser is talking to the housemates about arguements

lol thats funny make somthing else up lol

chrissy · 22-05-2008, 11:13 PM

Day 17, Fraser is talking crap

bigbrotherbest99 · 22-05-2008, 11:14 PM

alexbigbrother is better

Fraser:) · 22-05-2008, 11:14 PM

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Originally posted by chrissy
No this is petty arguing! rongo!

I dont think you are grasping the terms described above. This isnt getting personal as it is still about the general topic of the thread. Therefore it is not what is described as "petty arguing". Every post here is relevant to the topic and not one post has personally attacked anyone. This is healthy debating which i dont mind.

Its the constant clogging of individual thread with petty arguments such as:

"Davina is a good host" "No she isnt" "Well you cant design eyes very well" "Well your hardly Dan Eatock urself" "Go and die in a hole"

that get me annoyed and give the forum a bad name, clog up threads and this is in no way a petty argument here.

bigbrotherbest99 · 22-05-2008, 11:16 PM

i agree as well though, to many row n the mods do nothing about it !

Fraser:) · 22-05-2008, 11:16 PM

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Originally posted by chrissy
Day 17, Fraser is talking c**p

You just proved my point completly. Personal attack, irrelevant to thread topic.

If you had said "Fraser I disagree with you there" that would be healthy debating which is what forums are for.

chrissy · 22-05-2008, 11:17 PM

Fraser, stick something in your pie-hole please

chrissy · 22-05-2008, 11:18 PM

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Originally posted by Fraser

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Originally posted by chrissy
Day 17, Fraser is talking c**p

You just proved my point completly. Personal attack, irrelevant to thread topic.

If you had said "Fraser I disagree with you there" that would be healthy debating which is what forums are for.

No, not personal just saying i think what you are saying is crap, not saying that you as a person are crap

LovelyL · 22-05-2008, 11:20 PM

Fraser you must have known this would start an argument!!...
i think you love it really!!

bigbrotherbest99 · 22-05-2008, 11:23 PM

lol

MrGaryy · 22-05-2008, 11:30 PM

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Originally posted by chrissy
LMAOROFL what the hell is that?

Laughing My Ass Off Rolling Over ****ing Laughing

MrGaryy · 22-05-2008, 11:31 PM

Fraser your asking for it . . .

Fraser:) · 22-05-2008, 11:37 PM

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Originally posted by Gazbo
Fraser your asking for it . . .

RGUMENTS
lol, dont think this thread is going the way i wanted it to!

NO MORE PETTY ARGUMENTS* PLEASE

HEALTHY DEBATING** IS GOOD THOUGH!

maybe that will get the message across.

* i define petty arguments as posts that personally attack people, irrelevant to thread topic, clog up thread and are generally trivial.

** i define healthy debating as opinions that are expressed without deliberately trying to offend someone and are relevant to the topic of the thread.

Blink_Me · 23-05-2008, 12:01 AM

You're supposed to debate stuff on a forum, so don't act surprised when people argue.

Barbie · 23-05-2008, 05:34 AM

i see your point about arguing on here although i haven't seen much of it...
i have to ask you what do you expect to be done about this?
People are people and you cant expect them to all get along. its just like society.. some get on some don't and we all have different views and opinions on things....
so yeah the arguing isn't nice but we all have to get on with it... just move on to the next topic and say no more about it... arguing is something you cant get away from in social interaction

AlexBigBrother · 23-05-2008, 06:02 AM

here's a philosophical point...
whats the difference between a debate and an argument?
theyre both a conflict of views?

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