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Old 01-01-2009, 11:26 PM #26
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Talk to him Aaron, for real.
No one should feel the way you are feeling, I think you were right about time apart, its the best way to try to get over someone.. but then again the whole scenario of Absense makes the heart grow fonder...
Go to his house, don't ring him, and speak to him face to face, tell him everything.. its better than feeling like shet everyday you see him... if you do talk to him, don't pile it all on him at once, ease him into it, you don't want him to get angry or upset when you're talking to him... just take it slow and tell him exactly how much you love him and if time apart will help you get over him then do it.. but he may surprise you... take the chance, you will gain more from it.
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My advice would be not to tell him. If you know for sure that he is straight then it can only work against you. Best just keep it to yourself and be patient. In the mean time try and find someone else (e.g. me, woah yeah!) and soon he will become a thing of the past, a crush and you will look back and think you were crazy.

You just need to get out there and find different guys.
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I may be in the minority with this, but I don't think you should just go up to a straight man and come out with stuff like you love him. If he's definitely straight, can it really be the best thing for you to do? I understand how much it bothers you and the fact that you do love him, but it probably won't work the ways you may want it too.

All I can say is just wait, because there are plenty of other fish in the sea. You're young, and you know some day you may find a man who's gay and feels the same for you as you do him. I really respect you though because I cannot imagine being in that situation. I hope it works out well for you.
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I think whats more worrying is the fact you said unrelevent rather than irrelevant.
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