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Old 08-11-2016, 06:55 PM #51
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Yup, sounds about right.
However I see flaws in this also...as whilst scummy bastards who do see their kids as a meal ticket exist..some people genuinely try not to get pregnant and just have horrific luck. I am not really comfortable with telling someone who has been careful that they have to have an abortion or be 'punished'. Which is pretty much what the options would be :S



I am especially not comfortable with it whilst sterilization is refused to people who already have kids when they ask for it

However I cannot really think of any other solution than the one you suggested.

What's the reason they won't allow you to be sterilised Vicky?
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Me? I don't know what a spoon is Cherie? I know every piece of cutlery in my canteen.
No not you Kirk, I should have quoted but I thought it was obvious who it was aimed at
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What's the reason they won't allow you to be sterilised Vicky?
I am still young and might change my mind Even though I know I won't. They won't accept that I know myself and my body and my last pregnancy/labour absolutely broke me..I am still suffering from whatever pain he brought on that day :S
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I am still young and might change my mind Even though I know I won't. They won't accept that I know myself and my body and my last pregnancy/labour absolutely broke me..I am still suffering from whatever pain he brought on that day :S
What age will you have do be before they agree, and do they refuse men vasectomies
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What age will you have do be before they agree, and do they refuse men vasectomies
No bloody idea, I haven't been able to get that answer.

Also Gav has asked about a vasectomy (though I prefer it to be me, as I don't trust vasectomies after my mum fell pregnant after my dad had one :S ) and they tried to put him off with the 'too young' spiel. Despite him having a ridiculous amount of kids (he has 3 with an ex, and 2 with me) already.

I'm thinking I am going to have to go private, though I am unsure if they will do it or not...the impression I get is private they do anything you want BUT if its not like this I can't be wasting cash on appointments for another no
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No not you Kirk, I should have quoted but I thought it was obvious who it was aimed at
It's when you cuddle from behind like spoons in a drawer, big spoon and little spoon, and then you do some nipple stuff, and then sneakily slip it in after spending like 10 minutes trying to get the angle right.
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I am still young and might change my mind Even though I know I won't. They won't accept that I know myself and my body and my last pregnancy/labour absolutely broke me..I am still suffering from whatever pain he brought on that day :S
Most will agree to it fairly easily if you're 30 or over, have two or more kids and can be convincing that you're 100% sure you don't want more... if your GP is being weird about it I'd say just "shop around" GP's until you find one that will give you a referral
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Most will agree to it fairly easily if you're 30 or over, have two or more kids and can be convincing that you're 100% sure you don't want more... if your GP is being weird about it I'd say just "shop around" GP's until you find one that will give you a referral
Maybe will try again next year. I am not yet thirty (only just though )
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Maybe will try again next year. I am not yet thirty (only just though )
Ahh they seem to see 30 as some sort of "watershed" for knowing whether or not you want more kids... which is stupid, obviously. As if something magically changes overnight when you go from 29 to 30.
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It's when you cuddle from behind like spoons in a drawer, big spoon and little spoon, and then you do some nipple stuff, and then sneakily slip it in after spending like 10 minutes trying to get the angle right.
It's all about how the woman is positioned.Ass out,knees bent,push her head down abit then it fits like glove
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It's all about how the woman is positioned.Ass out,knees bent,push her head down abit then it fits like glove
You mean politely ask of course
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How romantic.
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T.S is corrupting you Paul.
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It is though, like a slippery cuddle
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Nah i'm quite experienced in these things
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