[RileyH]

I like her, just not as much as others

[Gusto Brunt]

She's clearly very intelligent and won't take any sh**. So maybe that's why...

Originally Posted by Jake.

It’s 2018 and people can’t cope with a woman who used to live as a man, apparently

i wood agree. For some weird reason it annoys a lot of people, when it's none of their business really.

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Taking Ann's bed for a start

[ethanjames]

I'm quite indifferent about her shes okay though.

[Ant.]

Not that I can speak for Greg, but when I was 4 I knew I was gay. It wasn't anything deep, I just thought the guys on my telly were cute!

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Lilbro

Not that I can speak for Greg, but when I was 4 I knew I was gay. It wasn't anything deep, I just thought the guys on my telly were cute!

Thats so odd to me. I wonder if its me thats different and just assuming that I am 'normal'. Genuinely did not feel any kind of sexual attraction til I was maybe 12 or so. And it is making me feel a little ill considering that 4 year olds could be thinking in that way. My daughter is 5...am slightly worried as I do find that really strange

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Thats so odd to me. I wonder if its me thats different and just assuming that I am 'normal'. Genuinely did not feel any kind of sexual attraction til I was maybe 12 or so. And it is making me feel a little ill considering that 4 year olds could be thinking in that way. My daughter is 5...am slightly worried as I do find that really strange

(I'd imagine it was closer to romantic attraction than sexual attraction, but I'm on your page too).

[Ant.]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Thats so odd to me. I wonder if its me thats different and just assuming that I am 'normal'. Genuinely did not feel any kind of sexual attraction til I was maybe 12 or so. And it is making me feel a little ill considering that 4 year olds could be thinking in that way. My daughter is 5...am slightly worried as I do find that really strange

In some aspect I agree with you?

It wasn't as if I 'knew' - it was very much something I only came to terms with until I was like, what, 13??
It wasn't anything 'sexual', like "I want to kiss boys" (but I'll get to this point in a min!), it was just I always thought they were cuter than girls.
I don't know how this would make you feel, but when I was around 5? the boys in my class used to run around chasing girls trying to kiss them (I think the fact I backed out of that is also how I realised I was gay at such a young age)

A friend I made recently who I didn't grow up with said his mum told him she knew he was gay because he cried that, similar to how boys chased girls around when i grew up, boys chased the girls and tried to kiss them on his playground and he cried because the boys weren't trying to kiss him

[Amy Jade]

I started school at 4 and had a boyfriend, perhaps Greg was in a similar situation but found himself liking boys...

[Gusto Brunt]

I must say I was not a fan of India showing us her legs last night.

Wrong side of 50 for that.

[Amy Jade]

Actually this reminds me of Secret Life of 4 Year Olds

There was a little boy who had no interest in the girls and got upset when the boy he played with got a girlfriend and even became withdrawn because of it, now if in 10 years time he turns out to be gay I would personally believe his reaction to the boy he was close to getting a girlfriend was a sign

[Vicky.]

I freaked myself out with the thought of kids having a sexuality when younger than my daughter. Have chilled myself out a little now

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/raina...b_8278146.html

Apparently average age 9-10. Could not find age for heterosexuality...but I guess there would never have been any studies done on that as..well why would they

[jaxie]

Well she wasn't very nice over the bed. I think she was quite selfish really. Ann is elderly and deserves a little consideration.

Also she is on a show celebrating women and she is not a woman she is a trans woman. I think many women will feel disappointed that once again women are pushed aside in favour of someone who was a man two years ago.

[Greg!]

listen Vicky I didn't even know what 'gay' meant when I was 4-5 OBVIOUSLY but I knew there was something different.

[Ant.]

Originally Posted by Greg!

listen Vicky I didn't even know what 'gay' meant when I was 4-5 OBVIOUSLY but I knew there was something different.

this

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Greg!

listen Vicky I didn't even know what 'gay' meant when I was 4-5 OBVIOUSLY but I knew there was something different.

Well yes
And you are ewing at the idea of 'in a sexual way' but thats exactly what bloody sexuality is

[Ant.]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Well yes
And you are ewing at the idea of 'in a sexual way' but thats exactly what bloody sexuality is

But to be fair, having romantic feelings/thinking guys are cute are on a different page to having sexual desires. You can feel romantic feelings without feeling sexual desires/feelings, and while 'romantic feelings' may not be the best way to describe how I felt towards my guy friend when I was 5, it's certainly more applicable than looking at him in a 'sexual way'

[Greg!]

And ew I didn't "see people in a sexual way" at age 4, I did NOT say that

[Greg!]

I found guys attractive at a young age and not girls, it's not a hard concept to grasp!

[Vicky.]

Even on attraction though..I felt no attraction to anyone til about 12 or older. Yes, attraction is a better way of putting it. But yeah, maybe its me who was a late developer or something. Just always thought that was 'normal' but it seems i am in the minority

See these are the sort of conversations I want the housemates to have. Actual..interesting stuff. I think we will get it from the lineup too rather than 'omgz X fancies X, he is so hot' rubbish

[bots]

honestly think people are attributing affinity with what is to become sexual preference.

I mean, I remember as a kid where all the boys would be together, they were mates that got up to mischief, they were best buddies and were much closer than they were with girls. That doesn't make someone gay. Times change of course, but I don't see how a kid could distinguish that affinity and camaraderie with what would become sexual preference

[Greg!]

Originally Posted by bitontheslide

honestly think people are attributing affinity with what is to become sexual preference.

I mean, I remember as a kid where all the boys would be together, they were mates that got up to mischief, they were best buddies and were much closer than they were with girls. That doesn't make someone gay. Times change of course, but I don't see how a kid could distinguish that affinity and camaraderie with a what would become sexual preference

I'm not on about that, I had literal crushes on some of me pals and some celebs when I was really young (but obvs didn't even know what it was!)

[Jamie89]

Originally Posted by bitontheslide

honestly think people are attributing affinity with what is to become sexual preference.

I mean, I remember as a kid where all the boys would be together, they were mates that got up to mischief, they were best buddies and were much closer than they were with girls. That doesn't make someone gay. Times change of course, but I don't see how a kid could distinguish that affinity and camaraderie with what would become sexual preference

I don't think it's that tbh. Friendships at school weren't really anything to do with it. Most of my friends were boys but I wasn't attracted to them, and most of those boys turned out straight. It's hard to explain though because I don't know what it is. It's not attraction in a sexual way and I think it's not an obvious thing, the only thing that really makes it obvious is that it's directed towards boys not girls and that's why it stands out, because from a very age you're taught that that's not normal, so whatever it is maybe young straight people do feel it too it just doesn't stand out to them because it's in line with what they consider to be normal, there's no reason for it to alarm them or for them to even really notice it.

[Greg!]

Originally Posted by Jamie89

I don't think it's that tbh. Friendships at school weren't really anything to do with it. Most of my friends were boys but I wasn't attracted to them, and most of those boys turned out straight. It's hard to explain though because I don't know what it is. It's not attraction in a sexual way and I think it's not an obvious thing, the only thing that really makes it obvious is that it's directed towards boys not girls and that's why it stands out, because from a very age you're taught that that's not normal, so whatever it is maybe young straight people do feel it too it just doesn't stand out to them because it's in line with what they consider to be normal, there's no reason for it to alarm them?

Omg yes this. You've articulated it perfectly

[AnnieK]

Originally Posted by Jamie89

I don't think it's that tbh. Friendships at school weren't really anything to do with it. Most of my friends were boys but I wasn't attracted to them, and most of those boys turned out straight. It's hard to explain though because I don't know what it is. It's not attraction in a sexual way and I think it's not an obvious thing, the only thing that really makes it obvious is that it's directed towards boys not girls and that's why it stands out, because from a very age you're taught that that's not normal, so whatever it is maybe young straight people do feel it too it just doesn't stand out to them because it's in line with what they consider to be normal, there's no reason for it to alarm them or for them to even really notice it.

But who told you it was not normal when you were that young? At that age, most thought processes are taught or learned behaviours. My son is 7, I have gay friends and straight friends, he doesnt think anyone is normal and others abnormal. No one has ever told him that being in love with someone of the same sex is abnormal so he doesnt think it. I think its awful that at that age you thought any thoughts or feelings you had were perceived abnormal

[Greg!]

Originally Posted by AnnieK

But who told you it was not normal when you were that young?

Constant heteronormative narratives in movies, TV shows, books, music etc and society in general? Which is why theres such a big deal made over LGBT representation in kids' shows nowadays for example.