[Oliver_W]

Originally Posted by Ant.

There was another teacher with her they were the only teachers on the trip with us. I actually found it kinda funny.

We were all 14/15 and they told us to go find some restaurant to eat at and they both went to a pub to watch the football then we went back to the accommodation and she kept using gay as an insult so she turns to me like "Ant does that offend you? Are you... yknow?"

Oh okay, that kind of puts a different slant on it

[Ant.]

Originally Posted by Oliver_W

Oh okay, that kind of puts a different slant on it

I still don't think the headteacher would've been fine with what happened

[Ant.]

it was so weird after I left high school bc I met straight guys and they weren't repulsed about me at all which was kinda sad bc I've just grown up with straight guys doing jabs at me. The only guy friends I did have ended up being gay so I never really had a friendship with a straight guy and it was really weird bc being friends with a straight gu is different from being friends with a straight girl/any girl. Like with my gal pals I'd kiss them and hug them and be really affectionate and say "i love u!!!" and I just didn't feel comfortable doing that with a straight guy. And I'm a p affectionate person and even with my gay guy friends we've talked about how much we've platonically loved each other and been up all night talking and it's never meant anything romantically. It's just weird how I don't feel comfortable doing that w/ the straights

[Twosugars]

Tbf some straights still find us disgusting but those are usually ****ed up about sex and/or gender identity so We are only one of many other problems they have.

[Liam-]

Straights that can have conversations with you about guys like they do with fellow straights and girls are the best

[Elliot]

Originally Posted by Liam-

Straights that can have conversations with you about guys like they do with fellow straights and girls are the best

Doubt these exist

[Liam-]

Originally Posted by Elliot

Doubt these exist

They do, I’ve known some!

[Smithy]

Originally Posted by Liam-

Straights that can have conversations with you about guys like they do with fellow straights and girls are the best

I was in the jacuzzi at the gym with these rugby lads and they were talking about girls they like and then they got me involved asking what the equivalent of a tits girls is with gays, what kind of guys I like and then if I like bum boys (he realized what he said and then quickly corrected himself to ass guys) it was so cute

[Liam-]

Originally Posted by Smithy

I was in the jacuzzi at the gym with these rugby lads and they were talking about girls they like and then they got me involved asking what the equivalent of a tits girls is with gays, what kind of guys I like and then if I like bum boys (he realized what he said and then quickly corrected himself to ass guys) it was so cute

Inclusive straights are adorable, especially if they’re new to it

They can go too far though, one of mine once asked me about rimming and I zoned out like, no ma’am google that.

[Smithy]

Originally Posted by Liam-

Inclusive straights are adorable, especially if they’re new to it

They can go too far though, one of mine once asked me about rimming and I zoned out like, no ma’am google that.

[Moniqua]

does this thread apply to the ones still in t'closet ??

[Cherry Christmas]

we love an inclusive thread

[Smithy]

Originally Posted by Moniqua

does this thread apply to the ones still in t'closet ??

I guess so, how you feel in general around straight men and if you’d feel comfortable to be out around them?

Originally Posted by Cherie

we love an inclusive thread

Oh poor you not being able to give your opinion or being able to relate to our oppression

[Cherry Christmas]

Originally Posted by Smithy

I guess so, how you feel in general around straight men and if you’d feel comfortable to be out around them?


Oh poor you not being able to give your opinion on our oppression

Yes its dreadful you poor person

[Twosugars]

Originally Posted by Cherie

we love an inclusive thread

don't be nasty

some threads address people with particular experiences

[Lostie!]

I've never really had gay friends until my last job (and while I'm still in touch with him we don't really see each other), my social circles have always consisted of girls and straight guys.

Originally Posted by Elliot

Doubt these exist

Lol of course they do. One of them is my oldest friend actually, we've been friends since we were 4 and he has a gay cousin too so he's ridiculously comfortable discussing anything with me, even suggesting we go to the gay village on a future night out because I've never been to a gay club and he wants to help me get a boyfriend

[Shaun]

At school we were pretty much half and half (I went to an all-boys school): there were about 8 of us in our circle of friends and 4 of us have come out as gay or bi since school. The other 4 were/are straight. It's never been an issue lol

Of my friends now I still would say it's about half-half. I only really begin to shut out straight guys if I pick up a sense that they are weird around me, or judging me, or are just flat-out homophobic Otherwise I don't really see why this thread would be a question.

[TomC]

If I'm completely honest, I find straight guys kinda hard. It's probably more due to my own insecurity/paranoia. I had male friends at school in the closet At uni ALL of my closest friends are female (like my 10 closest uni friends at least probs) but I do have some male friends and get on w males great in the right circumstances. I think I'm almost more self-conscious because I have so many female friends?

[Wizard.]

anyway I don't have friends

[Gstar]

@ the live call

All my friends are mostly girls and gays