[Vicky.]

I hope so too. Been a while since I got a spanking from james.

[Vicky.]

OK I think I should maybe log off

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I hope so too. Been a while since I got a spanking from james.

Originally Posted by Vicky.

OK I think I should maybe log off

[Ammi]

..tbf, he didn't try to convince me of anything, we were mainly talking about other more personal stuff until we couldn't PM anymore and hyeah I was trying to talk him out of the thread, I just didn't know about the PM..

[Ammi]

..anyway that's all I'll say on it but I do think sometimes that members should be able to voice things without causing arguments or being abusive because otherwise it just causes confusion and probably builds up misunderstandings that can lead to negative feelings ...

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

OK I think I should maybe log off

[Smithy]

what did he say?

[Me. I Am Salman]

people still aren't answering any questions yet continuing to post
tibb has a habit of doing this and it takes the piss

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by Salman!

people still aren't answering any questions yet continuing to post
tibb has a habit of doing this and it takes the piss

maybe that's because the only people who know don't want to discuss it/is a mod (Vicky)?

[Vicky.]

I didnt mean only him, pretty much everyone who gets banned at some point has people believing they did nothing wrong and it gets extremely irritating not being able to comment on it..as 9 times out of 10 people would totall understand the reasons

People have bee banned by mistake once or twice I will admit, and those tend to get overturned, but its no way as often as people think it is

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I didnt mean only him, pretty much everyone who gets banned at some point has people believing they did nothing wrong and it gets extremely irritating not being able to comment on it..as 9 times out of 10 people would totall understand the reasons

People have bee banned by mistake once or twice I will admit, and those tend to get overturned, but its no way as often as people think it is

..I don't think that people generally do think things are done for no reason, I think it's more for me that members can't ever seem to ask anything or mention anything without being told to hush up and it's often not asked to cause a drama and asked in a respectful way but really telling people to hush up is very poor communication imo...and I never thought I would ever say anything negative about how TiBB is run...


..anyway, that really is my last post on this...

[Me. I Am Salman]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

People have bee banned by mistake once or twice I will admit, and those tend to get overturned, but its no way as often as people think it is

I had three bans overturned

Spoiler:

and they were all overturned by you

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Salman!

I had three bans overturned

Spoiler:

and they were all overturned by you

This is because I am the soft one

Being serious too..besides one I gave 5 weeks ago..the last infraction I gave was on 28-12-2013. Just had to check because I couldnt actually remember but I knew it was ages ago

[Vicky.]

Undeleted my original post (probably the wrong thing to do so someone else may make it disappear later on ) as I guess if some people read it and others didnt..then its not 'fair' :/

[Jack_]

Can't you just start adding reasons to the ban list thing? Like you used to do in that thread...it's a nice little feature but I've always thought whenever there's no explanation for someone's ban these problems of people asking/saying they got banned for no reason are going to continue

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Jack_

Can't you just start adding reasons to the ban list thing? Like you used to do in threads...it's a nice little feature but I've always thought whenever there's no explanation for someone's ban these problems of people asking/saying they got banned for no reason are going to continue

This went on even with the ban list, we were just accused of lying/exagerrating then

[Samm]

Originally Posted by Jack_

Can't you just start adding reasons to the ban list thing? Like you used to do in that thread...it's a nice little feature but I've always thought whenever there's no explanation for someone's ban these problems of people asking/saying they got banned for no reason are going to continue

This.

I don't understand why it was closed

[Headie]

Originally Posted by Jack_

Can't you just start adding reasons to the ban list thing? Like you used to do in that thread...it's a nice little feature but I've always thought whenever there's no explanation for someone's ban these problems of people asking/saying they got banned for no reason are going to continue

I agree with this.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Jack_

Can't you just start adding reasons to the ban list thing? Like you used to do in that thread...it's a nice little feature but I've always thought whenever there's no explanation for someone's ban these problems of people asking/saying they got banned for no reason are going to continue

..I also think that being told not to ever mention anything on the forum or have anything explained, doesn't actually remove any confused or negative feelings, it just means that people are more likely to voice them privately, which actually is never a good idea because it just often makes those feelings grow and become more negative, like a 'low morale' thing..it's always better to be open with anything that you're not sure about or want to ask...

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..I also think that being told not to ever mention anything on the forum or have anything explained, doesn't actually remove any confused or negative feelings, it just means that people are more likely to voice them privately, which actually is never a good idea because it just often makes those feelings grow and become more negative, like a 'low morale' thing..it's always better to be open with anything that you're not sure about or want to ask...

That's a one way trip to ban city on here. I was more than vocal when I first came here about this places sweep everything under the carpet policy but tbh now I've realised they can't win whatever they do. If they let people have freedom to mention banned people or previous spats it usually ends up in 10 page slagging matches because let's face it anyone can be brave behind a keyboard.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..I also think that being told not to ever mention anything on the forum or have anything explained, doesn't actually remove any confused or negative feelings, it just means that people are more likely to voice them privately, which actually is never a good idea because it just often makes those feelings grow and become more negative, like a 'low morale' thing..it's always better to be open with anything that you're not sure about or want to ask...

I've reported your post.

You're trying to rally up some kind of revolt against the mods, I know your game.

[Vicky.]

I do think though..for long term bans it might be a good idea to have a ban list type thing, that explains the final warning they got, etc etc.

Shorter bans it just doesnt work, as most of the time the reason is 'build up of infractions' and people STILL go 'omgz he was banned for a fortnight for calling someone a dick' when the member actually only got a 1 pointer for it or something

[Smithy]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I do think though..for long term bans it might be a good idea to have a ban list type thing, that explains the final warning they got, etc etc.

Shorter bans it just doesnt work, as most of the time the reason is 'build up of infractions' and people STILL go 'omgz he was banned for a fortnight for calling someone a dick' when the member actually only got a 1 pointer for it or something

tbh that ban list thingy should just keep a list of all banned members until they are unbanned (unless it's a permaban)

[Vicky.]

IIRC there was talks about adding a reason part to it..as we have to add a reason to give a ban in the first place...so given that it updates automatically it seems adding the reason wouldnt be too hard. Not sure what happened to that

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Salman!

people still aren't answering any questions yet continuing to post
tibb has a habit of doing this and it takes the piss

Read the thread, Vicky says he was banned for sending racist PMs and then said maybe she shouldn't have spoken about it and can't elaborate.