[Cherie]

How bullies are created? and what is was about their upbringing that made them want to target others ....

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Redway

Trust Zizu not to get the cultural implication (stereotypical or not).

Why on earth do you bring colour or culture into everything ?

Disabled can mean many things .. I chose to assume that he’s disabled due to a serious condition or accident and it has drastically shortened his life… hence his comment


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[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Cherie

How bullies are created? and what is was about their upbringing that made them want to target others ....

I always presumed that bullies ( physical and emotional) were bullied as kids … so they were kinda ‘damaged or poisoned’ and feel the need to ‘hurt bully’ someone weaker.
It also taught them HOW to bully at the same time …

What other reason could there be ?


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[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Zizu

I always presumed that bullies ( physical and emotional) were bullied as kids … so they were kinda ‘damaged or poisoned’ and feel the need to ‘hurt bully’ someone weaker.
It also taught them HOW to bully at the same time …

What other reason could there be ?


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That would account for adult bullies yes

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Cherie

That would account for adult bullies yes

… and younger children too , surely ?

There is always someone weaker than you …

Thankfully I have never experienced any serious bullying and in turn NEVER felt the need to bully someone else ..



Oddly bullying is one of my biggest HATES even though it’s never been a problem for myself personally


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[Redway]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Why on earth do you bring colour or culture into everything ?

Disabled can mean many things .. I chose to assume that he’s disabled due to a serious condition or accident and it has drastically shortened his life… hence his comment


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Because cultural layers are way more nuanced than a xenophobe who thinks ham butties are premium food can possibly understand, the kind of upbringing you had, the kind of world you live in.

You like to throw yourself into discussions that have nothing to do with you and you ain’t got the wiring to understand but when someone-else chimes into you, they’re ganging up on you and failing to accommodate your particular spike of neurodivergence. Just imagine. Look at this guy. Just look at.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Redway

Because cultural layers are way more nuanced than a xenophobe who thinks ham butties are premium food can possibly understand, the kind of upbringing you had, the kind of world you live in.

You like to throw yourself into discussions that have nothing to do with you and you ain’t got the wiring to understand but when someone-else chimes into you, they’re ganging up on you and failing to accommodate your particular spike of neurodivergence. Just imagine. Look at this guy. Just look at.

Are you smoking something ?


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[Redway]

Originally Posted by Zizu

… and younger children too , surely ?

There is always someone weaker than you …

Thankfully I have never experienced any serious bullying and in turn NEVER felt the need to bully someone else ..



Oddly bullying is one of my biggest HATES even though it’s never been a problem for myself personally


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I didn’t know xenephobes could have rightful sympathy for other people who are marginalised. But I guess that only applies to purely white-British people. Got it.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Redway

I didn’t know xenephobes could have rightful sympathy for other people who are marginalised. But I guess that only applies to purely white-British people. Got it.

Racist




Incidentally the emoji indicates humour


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[Redway]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Racist




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The first step to overcoming your problem is admitting you have one. So well done for admitting you’re a bigoted loser.

You can’t do comebacks. You can’t hide it under veiled projection. Like I said, you ain’t got the snap. The snap or the nerve. You’re like a sheep stumbling over its own wool. You get in your own way when it comes to expecting your needs to be accommodated while marginalising the needs of innocent, morally upstanding migrants.

Now go and orgasm over a ham butty on brown bread.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Redway

The first step to overcoming your problem is admitting you have one. So well done for admitting you’re a bigoted loser.

You can’t do comebacks. You can’t hide it under veiled projection. Like I said, you ain’t got the snap. The snap or the nerve. You’re like a sheep stumbling over its own wool. You get in your own way when it comes to expecting your needs to be accommodated while marginalising the needs of innocent, morally upstanding migrants.

Now go and orgasm over a ham butty on brown bread.

All jokes aside you cannot keep suggesting that someone is racist or bigoted - it’s just not acceptable . It’s simple bullying


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[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Redway

Now go and orgasm over a ham butty on brown bread.

Oh and don’t assume everyone else gets off the way you do ..


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[Redway]

Originally Posted by Zizu

All jokes aside you cannot keep suggesting that someone is racist or bigoted - it’s just not acceptable . It’s simple bullying


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Oh, there we go. Someone calls you out on your obnoxious BS and you’re being bullied. I wondered when you were gonna drop the bully-card.

Listen, woe-is-me, if your stream of posts suggesting that 9 serious crimes out of 10 are committed by Pakistani men isn’t enough proof of that, nothing is. You don’t have to search far-and-wide to see your nonsense for what it is. Not everyone will tell you to your face, but I will.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Oh and don’t assume everyone else gets off the way you do ..


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Again, your comebacks are a joke and you look so silly for even trying. The sooner you realise that, the better. For you and your dignity.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Redway

Oh, there we go. Someone calls you out on your obnoxious BS and you’re being bullied. I wondered when you were gonna drop the bully-card.

.

Typical reaction from a delusional bully


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[Redway]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Typical reaction from a bully


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I’d rather be a bully of bigots than just-plain bigoted without even the excuse of childhood bullying (like you made clear in another thread) to partially explain where some of that bitterness and hatred comes from. Make your ham sandwich your companion one bedtime instead of your wife and see if you even remember to wake up in the morning. Or wipe your arse.

You’re a bigoted bully who hides behind autism. That’s the truth. And it’s a truth that can be condensed into one adjective: bully. Unlike you, I don’t need to go searching Google for random generic insults that could apply to anyone you don’t see eye-to-eye with. Unlike you, I can call someone out without resorting to vague retorts or projection. You can’t play our game.

[Redway]

Originally Posted by Zizu

I always presumed that bullies ( physical and emotional) were bullied as kids … so they were kinda ‘damaged or poisoned’ and feel the need to ‘hurt bully’ someone weaker.
It also taught them HOW to bully at the same time …

What other reason could there be ?


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Is that what taught you to be racist?

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Redway

Is that what taught you to be racist?

A racist doesn’t pay £150 to watch Stevie Wonder … also a simple check through my posting history on sport and music will show countless examples confirming that I am not a racist by any means

Anyways your comment earned you a report

Keep it up if you want an enforced leave of absence


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[Redway]

Originally Posted by Zizu

A racist doesn’t pay £150 to watch Stevie Wonder … also a simple check through my posting history on sport and music will show countless examples confirming that I am not a racist by any means

Anyways your comment earned you a report

Keep it up if you want an enforced leave of absence


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I’ve got better things to do than go through the post-history of a xenophobic bully who doesn’t know what day it is most of the time. But know that “I’ve got black friends/Asian friends/love black musicians” doesn’t make someone non-bigoted. I can tell you that from experience, experience of a world that you’ll never understand.

Report away. I’m happy to speak my mind in the meantime. Not enough people call you out.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Redway

I’d rather be a bully of bigots than just-plain bigoted without even the excuse of childhood bullying (like you made clear in another thread) to partially explain where some of that bitterness and hatred comes from. Make your ham sandwich your companion one bedtime instead of your wife and see if you even remember to wake up in the morning. Or wipe your arse.

You’re a bigoted bully who hides behind autism. That’s the truth. And it’s a truth that can be condensed into one adjective: bully. Unlike you, I don’t need to go searching Google for random generic insults that could apply to anyone you don’t see eye-to-eye with. Unlike you, I can call someone out without resorting to vague retorts or projection. You can’t play our game.

Your posts are getting ever more disturbing not too mention concerning

Just reported you again


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[Redway]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Your posts are getting ever more disturbing not too mention concerning

Just reported you again


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There you are with the rhetorical gaslight.

And, listen, when are you gonna get it into your head that I don’t care if you report me? Don’t you think I’ll live?

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Redway

There you are with the rhetorical gaslight.

And, listen, when are you gonna get it into your head that I don’t care if you report me? Don’t you think I’ll live?

Yet another slightly disturbing post

I honestly think you need a break from forum life wether it be voluntary or enforced


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[Redway]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Yet another slightly disturbing post

I honestly think you need a break from forum life wether it be voluntary or enforced


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It’s just as well you don’t make the rules. You’d enforce a break on them because they didn’t micro-explain a social cue to you, thinking you’re entitled to preferential treatment for just your understanding.

I’m perfectly calm. I’m just in the mood to call you out tonight. If it earns me a few reports, that’s just too bad. Like I said, I’ll live. That’s the price I have to pay for taking you off my ignore-list for a minute, unleashing all the nonsense that I had to press a button to view before. Doing that has got me back up-to-speed with all your crap. I’m responding accordingly, as and when I feel like it. I have time tonight.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Redway

It’s just as well you don’t make the rules. You’d enforce a break on them because they didn’t micro-explain a social cue to you, thinking you’re entitled to preferential treatment for just your understanding.

I’m perfectly calm. I’m just in the mood to call you out tonight. If it earns me a few reports, that’s just too bad. Like I said, I’ll live. That’s the price I have to pay for taking you off my ignore-list for a minute, unleashing all the nonsense that I had to press a button to view before. Doing that has got me back up-to-speed with all your crap. I’m responding accordingly, as and when I feel like it. I have time tonight.

Reading through some of your posts it looks like you are having a mini meltdown and we certainly don’t want that .

I am watching a dominant Chelsea play as we speak ( on delay )

I suggest you get some sleep


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[Redway]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Reading through some of your posts it looks like you are having a mini meltdown and we certainly don’t want that .

I am watching a dominant Chelsea play as we speak ( on delay )

I suggest you get some sleep


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No meltdown detected. Do you like to pathologise and try to gaslight everyone who doesn’t like you? Because that’s red-flag behaviour right there.

Like I say, you trippin. on your own wool, and you don’t have the social sense to know when to give up.

Anyway, back on my ignore-list you go, you silly beggar. You keep reporting me if you feel like that’s what you gotta do. I will gladly take an infraction if I get to say my peace. You’ve been babied all your life but we’re not your carers. If you don’t like my truth about you, deal with it in a way that doesn’t include gaslighting or repeating words directly from the source. That makes you look even-more ridiculous. That coupled with your entitlement, “slag”-shaming, your silly tantrums when other FMs don’t rate your favourite housemates as much as you and random preoccupation with hating Camilla makes so many of your posts execrable. You’re an utter disgrace to the neurodivergent community. There are plenty of people on here who’d back me up on that. You’re always crossing a line, over-stepping a boundary, and we’re supposed to just accommodate it and bend our communication styles for the benefit of your personal understanding. Zizu you have to understand that the way you are doesn’t bode well for non-frustrating interactions with you. I know your inherent perspective on things is gonna be very different because of how your conditions affect you, and that why I never used to want to get too involved with you, but I’ve held my peace long enough. You can’t skip through forum-life as you are and expect not to be called out or expected to take accountability for some of the things you say. Skimping on that would be babying and coddling you. And you’re not a baby. You’re a 60-something-year-old man who isn’t entitled to as much personally-tailored accommodation and bending to on here as you seem to think. I flit between taking the obvious cue from my ignore-list and … ignoring you and still choosing to view some of your posts individually and choosing to reply, because you say so many things that I don’t want you sitting on unchecked, thinking that’s okay.