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Stacey. · 13-04-2010, 08:58 AM

tbh, Zippy was just having a laugh by putting the same avatar as MeMyselfandI.
it was fine, until Jack and the usual members started copying and taking the piss.
then, by posting in which the way she does, is totally out of order.
It got to the point where she just wanted to leave - that is when it gets too far.

lily. · 13-04-2010, 10:00 AM

Shaun and I copied the avatar, and the sig, and then started singing 'Halo'.

None of that could be classed as 'malicious' or 'bullying'.

We did it for a laugh. If I'd been on the receiving end of avatar copying, I'd have laughed at the sheer ridiculousness of a dozen or more members all using my avatar.

If others had an agenda for doing it, then I can't speak for them, but I did it for sh*ts and giggles. I don't know MM&I.. I don't have anything against her and I don't care if she stays or leaves. I'd have copied the avatar no matter who made the thread.

Stacey. · 13-04-2010, 10:17 AM

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Originally Posted by lili

Shaun and I copied the avatar, and the sig, and then started singing 'Halo'.

None of that could be classed as 'malicious' or 'bullying'.

We did it for a laugh. If I'd been on the receiving end of avatar copying, I'd have laughed at the sheer ridiculousness of a dozen or more members all using my avatar.

If others had an agenda for doing it, then I can't speak for them, but I did it for sh*ts and giggles. I don't know MM&I.. I don't have anything against her and I don't care if she stays or leaves. I'd have copied the avatar no matter who made the thread.

yeah, i totally understand that you dont know MeMyselfandI - and would have done it, whoever it was.
But some of them, do have a thing with her, and just constantly do things to annoy her.

Jack_ · 13-04-2010, 10:25 AM

I'm with lili. I would've done it whoever it was, because it was hilarious and the thread was asking for it, for God sake.

Sure, I do have a problem with her. But I intended it as a joke, because that's what it was. A joke. If it was me I would've been laughing too.

Heaven forbid people have a ****ing joke on here. Oh I forgot, it's not the first time some people have got on their high horse about a joke.

setanta · 13-04-2010, 10:38 AM

Again, it's all about context here. If it was intended as a joke why not do it to a friend rather than somebody who has been targeted enough as it is?

WOMBAI · 13-04-2010, 10:44 AM

What the hell - let's just make it a free-for-all on here - that is clearly what some people want! Unfortunately for them, others don't - including admin!

AlexBigBrother · 13-04-2010, 11:12 AM

yo someone explain in short what happened x

BB_Eye · 13-04-2010, 11:17 AM

Come on though, how many things did you take literally when you were 13?

I reckon if the whole way MM&I behaved looked so stupid, you would move on and wouldn't be falling over yourselves trying to reassure eachother and yourselves how you did nothing wrong and it was all a "joke"?

zotler. · 13-04-2010, 11:18 AM

You may not know MM&I, lili, but I assume most of the others do... They know that she has no sense of humour and that it would get some sort of reaction from her.

InOne · 13-04-2010, 11:34 AM

I think realistically, someone who is affected by cyber bullying must have low self esteem, apart from if they know something personal about them, and are using that against them. But we know nothing about MM&I apart from she's 13, and called Jess or something like that.

30stone · 13-04-2010, 11:43 AM

I wasnt on to see what happened but..

You can be bullied without knowing some one in real life..

Especially when person in question is very young and not the most mature person..

It can upset you a lot, and although you can just turn off your computer off, you still feel it, and may not want to log into that site again.

InOne · 13-04-2010, 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by 30stone

I wasnt on to see what happened but..

You can be bullied without knowing some one in real life..

Especially when person in question is very young and not the most mature person..

It can upset you a lot, and although you can just turn off your computer off, you still feel it, and may not want to log into that site again.

Does that not say something about the kids today though? They need to toughen up, this is a BB forum, what will they be like with real life!

Niamh. · 13-04-2010, 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by 30stone

I wasnt on to see what happened but..

You can be bullied without knowing some one in real life..

Especially when person in question is very young and not the most mature person..

It can upset you a lot, and although you can just turn off your computer off, you still feel it, and may not want to log into that site again.

I agree with this and why should a person feel they can't come on a particular site? that's hardly fair

30stone · 13-04-2010, 11:51 AM

Yes maybe so, but its still going to upset people regardless.

She may have problems with bullying in real life, comes on here and gets it again, you never know?

InOne · 13-04-2010, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by 30stone

Yes maybe so, but its still going to upset people regardless.

She may have problems with bullying in real life, comes on here and gets it again, you never know?

I know, but you have to admit, it's not without reason people are like that with her. Even though she does get ganged up on, she gives as good as she gets most times.

Stacey. · 13-04-2010, 11:55 AM

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she gives as good as she gets most times.

yeah, i think everyone does here, though.
no-one wants to just sit there and take it.

InOne · 13-04-2010, 11:58 AM

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yeah, i think everyone does here, though.
no-one wants to just sit there and take it.

Yes, but not everyone brings attention to themself like she does.

Stacey. · 13-04-2010, 12:00 PM

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Yes, but not everyone brings attention to themself like she does.

i really dont think she means to though.
she just wouldnt think of doing that for attention.
She gets defensive and says whatever is in her head.
shes only just 13, and i probably would have come out with some of the insults she gives too.

setanta · 13-04-2010, 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by InOne

I know, but you have to admit, it's not without reason people are like that with her. Even though she does get ganged up on, she gives as good as she gets most times.

Again Joe, look at the situation from her perspective- one of her and X amount of the rest. Absolutely no need for it.

Niamh. · 13-04-2010, 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by setanta

Again Joe, look at the situation from her perspective- one of her and X amount of the rest. Absolutely no need for it.

yep, I agree, I can't see the problem people have with her either, she always seems very nice to me

InOne · 13-04-2010, 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by setanta

Again Joe, look at the situation from her perspective- one of her and X amount of the rest. Absolutely no need for it.

It's the net man, alot less boundaries and emotional attachments.

setanta · 13-04-2010, 12:02 PM

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It's the net man, alot less boundaries and emotional attachments.

You're subjectifying the issue again Joe, rather than just examining it from every perspective. No two people are alike and what may not damage you personally online could have a negative effect on someone else. Ganging up on an individual, particularly one who has been repeatedly targeted on this forum is just not on as far as I'm concerned.

30stone · 13-04-2010, 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by InOne

I know, but you have to admit, it's not without reason people are like that with her. Even though she does get ganged up on, she gives as good as she gets most times.

Shes 13!!!

All these people taking the piss used to get annoyed when the likes of me andy david remy.. took the piss out of youngers..

Now they do it themselves but much worse..

Yes she tries to fight back but when there is 8 + people ganging up on you its just unfair.

InOne · 13-04-2010, 12:01 PM

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Originally Posted by 30stone

Shes 13!!!

All these people taking the piss used to get annoyed when the likes of me andy david remy.. took the piss out of youngers..

Now they do it themselves but much worse..

Yes she tries to fight back but when there is 8 + people ganging up on you its just unfair.

Well there are some pretty mature 13 year olds on here. Age is really no excuse, and yes the ganging up is not good. But what can you do about it? People will always justify their reasons, seems that way on here anyway.

30stone · 13-04-2010, 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne

Well there are some pretty mature 13 year olds on here. Age is really no excuse, and yes the ganging up is not good. But what can you do about it? People will always justify their reasons, seems that way on here anyway.

Yes but thats what i mean, when people used to gang up on other 13 year olds, the people taking the piss were told to stop.. The people telling them to stop are the same people who are taking the piss out of this 13 year old.

People can do what they like but the ganging up etc etc isn't acceptable, wish i was on.

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