[CaudleHalbard]

Dexter has probably got all his knowledge of heterosexual sex from the internet.

He gives off rather gay vibes. Indeed that might be at the root of his social inadequacy... non-acceptance of his true self.

[smeagol]

Originally Posted by armand.kay

what is it?

should watch the movie donkey punch - good film

[jet]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Also for all those quick to label him a rapist, it says nowhere in the article (if you can call it that..) that he actually took place in this. Its like someone describing what a donkey punch is...most people know..but have never done it.

I wouldn't label him or anyone else a rapist without proof, and certainly not because the DS implies it, but I have gone off him since he made the 'women are like my accessories' remark. I wanted to like him, and did for quite a while, but there is something sexist and sleazy about him that I personally find off - putting. I think he's a con man who tries to make himself look 'big' and important when really he is coming across to me as just a pathetic little man with an over sized ego.
I admit that he can make for good viewing at times, but no matter how entertaining someone is, I couldn't support them to win if I don't like their basic character.

[Brother Leon]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Dexter took the prank too far and made a nasty jibe, saying: “You can’t take the caravan park out of the girl.”

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Also, how is this sexist language?

And didnt Dexter say he lived in a caravan himself for 5 years?

He had a task to piss her off. In true Dexter fashion he comes up with that LOL

[MTVN]

Don't tellymix normally reference the Star specifically when they are citing a story from there?

(I know the Star have carried the story but tellymix posting the article as they have done suggests it's fairly reliable)

[MatthewS]

So you can get a warning for just explaining what's involved in a sexual fantasy that's enjoyed by consenting adults?

I personally find the fantasy/act itself to be quite odd/weird, but whatever, some people might be up for that, who am I (or BB) to judge? I don't see how you can warn someone for just describing/explaining what this (legal) act entails? Makes no sense.

Also, shame on all those (and Daley) playing the rape card. Rape is specific, it's the forced act of sexual endeavors on a party without consent. Dexter doesn't say anything to suggest that this 'act' involves forcing yourself onto another party without consent. BB is really over reaching this year, you can't even have a conversation about 'fringe' kink or sexually adventurist acts without getting a warning.

[Kizzy]

'to see if she notices' suggests to me that there is no consent.

[karezza]

I wish Big Brother would show us warnings been given rather than leaking stuff to the Daily Star.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/defin...donkey%20punch

Stu Kent likes this

[jet]

Originally Posted by MatthewS

So you can get a warning for just explaining what's involved in a sexual fantasy that's enjoyed by consenting adults?

I personally find the fantasy/act itself to be quite odd/weird, but whatever, some people might be up for that, who am I (or BB) to judge? I don't see how you can warn someone for just describing/explaining what this (legal) act entails? Makes no sense.

Also, shame on all those (and Daley) playing the rape card. Rape is specific, it's the forced act of sexual endeavors on a party without consent. Dexter doesn't say anything to suggest that this 'act' involves forcing yourself onto another party without consent. BB is really over reaching this year, you can't even have a conversation about 'fringe' kink or sexually adventurist acts without getting a warning.

The article implied that Dexter took part in an act where the girl might not be consenting as various men do things to her 'to see if she notices'.
We don't really know if Dexter said he actually DID take part, but if he did, then a warning was certainly in order, and a severe one at that. If he didn't personally take part, then it wasn't.
I wish BB would show footage of these convo's and warnings and let the viewers actually see exactly what occurred.

[Roy Mars III]

Originally Posted by jet

The article implied that Dexter took part in an act where the girl might not be consenting as various men do things to her 'to see if she notices'.
We don't really know if Dexter said he actually DID take part, but if he did, then a warning was certainly in order, and a severe one at that. If he didn't personally take part, then it wasn't.
I wish BB would show footage of these convo's and warnings and let the viewers actually see exactly what occurred.

which is probably the B.S. part of the article. They don't quote him, because he never hinted to it. If he did, they would have quoted it. This is the amazingly similar to the Dan/Wolfy article. A real event blown up out of proportion by the DS

[MatthewS]

This is the problem, the whole "we don't know if Dexter" participated, but we're going to assume he might have so we'll warn him anyways. We'll also assume that one of the participants may not have consented. It's so PC it hurts.

[Roy Mars III]

we don't even know if he was actually given a warning or just reminded to watch what he talks about on the show

[MatthewS]

Originally Posted by Roy Mars III

which is probably the B.S. part of the article. They don't quote him, because he never hinted to it. If he did, they would have quoted it.

Bingo. The lack of journalistic integrity and motivation to put as negative a spin on it as possible, to create a 'talking point', is just beyond me.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Roy Mars III

which is probably the B.S. part of the article. They don't quote him, because he never hinted to it. If he did, they would have quoted it. This is the amazingly similar to the Dan/Wolfy article. A real event blown up out of proportion by the DS

“This is where a guy and a girl have sex and the guy covers the girl with a sheet and loads of men run in the room.

“It’s like a rodeo. Men put sheets over the girl. Loads of men run in and do stuff and wait to see if she notices.”

They do quote him.

[Roy Mars III]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

“This is where a guy and a girl have sex and the guy covers the girl with a sheet and loads of men run in the room.

“It’s like a rodeo. Men put sheets over the girl. Loads of men run in and do stuff and wait to see if she notices.”

They do quote him.

Not saying he took part, only describing the act. Anyone with internet could do that

[CaudleHalbard]

He got all that from the web - or a porno vid!

[smeagol]

doesn't matter if he took part or not. if the girl is consenting which no doubt she did there is no problem and it has nothing to do with bb.
those sex parties n stuff they do all sorts. blind folds ppl goose them n try figure out who it was after. its all legal and consenting. describe it the wrong way though could seem dodgy which i guess is what dex has done.
and the caravan thing is just beyond sad , they will be watching every word soon then the show becomes just a robot house of people like calum thinking before they speak and never revealing anything.

[MatthewS]

Meanwhile, you can turn on any other channel and see shows like CSI, Dexter, The Sopranos, Bones, Weeds, Law & Order - which clearly depict scenes of violence, rape, substance abuse, physical abuse, elements of racism, etc.

Dare to have an adult conversation in the BB house about those topics though and you're chances of getting reprimanded are shockingly high.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Roy Mars III

Not saying he took part, only describing the act. Anyone with internet could do that

''told his friends about some of the various sex acts he got up to''
Would they put it like this if he hadn't? I guess he should get the benefit of the doubt though.

[Scream]

LMFAO!!

[Lwize]

Dexter is quite the storyteller.

[EzzaB]

Fake

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Also for all those quick to label him a rapist, it says nowhere in the article (if you can call it that..) that he actually took place in this. Its like someone describing what a donkey punch is...most people know..but have never done it.

Vicky,what's a 'donkey punch' seriously never heard of it,and I take it ,it's not punching a donkey(well I bloody hope not)

[goroos1994]

Dexter's shooting himself in the foot.