[DanaC]

Then why use the phrase 'for all their faults'?


By 'usually' I mean when the phrase is used correctly.

[alex_front2]

Originally Posted by DanaC

Then why use the phrase 'for all their faults'?


.

Because they are straight. It would be wrong to say they weren't. Daley might have attacked Hazel but his sexuality is hetero* and it would be wrong to misaddress his sexual orientation as gay. E.g. Daley didn't like it when Hazel was teasing him about Dexter being in love with him.




*he could be in the closet of course but I got a hunch he's not

[CaudleHalbard]

We see negativity if we want to, in almost anything.

[the truth]

Originally Posted by LikeABoatOnWater

I have an exceptional gaydar, ive been thinking this for a while but tonight i just cant hold it in any more.
The kid probably doesn't know it yet but he is, because although he is 23 im pretty sure he has a mental age of a 13 year old.
keep pouting hun xoxo

its wrong to write this as fact when its not.

[Withano]

You're wrong, thats just wishful thinking.

[waterhog]

does not matter to me - i am judging him on what i see - not what he is - and as i see very little of him - can not make up my mind.

i do have understanding how hard it was for him to do this.

did he make the right decision going in ? i am not convinced - sorry if this is hurtful.

[Verbal]

Originally Posted by LikeABoatOnWater

I have an exceptional gaydar, ive been thinking this for a while but tonight i just cant hold it in any more.
The kid probably doesn't know it yet but he is, because although he is 23 im pretty sure he has a mental age of a 13 year old.
keep pouting hun xoxo

Law suit! Incoming!

[Johnnyuk123]

I think the gay slur is just a way of diverting people from the obvious fact that Sam is still dominating the house. It's natural for people to become jealous when one housemate gets all the air time.
He's always at the center of the action, especially in the bedroom. In the safe house he ruled again, Sophie just sat their brushing her hair over and over. This young man is deaf, yes deaf! Have some respect! He didn't choose to be this way, he is extremely brave to enter the BB house and bear his soul to the nation raising awareness of this horrendous dissability. So what if he keeps mentioning Hazels big boobies or Charlies bottom or trying to fondle old women or is crude and crass, who cares? he's a typical lad and thats what lads do and say. He is 2nd fave to win the show so who cares if he's 2nd because of the sympathy vote? If anything Sam deserves our respect and of course the Ł100,000 prize money, he has promised that he is going to spend it sensibly on children with similar issues in his local community. You wont find Sam falling out of a celebrity club at 4 am with vomit on his shirt after the show ends and boobies on the right and left of him,no, he is just a young man trying his best to be a role model to young children. Have some respect.

[DanaC]

*smiles*

You can be asexual and still find people attractrive. The people you find attractrive will depend on whether you are straight, gay or bi etc.

Personally, I am asexual straight as well. Though it took until my late 30s to figure that out. Prior to that I thought there must be something wrong with me.

[DanaC]

From wiki:

Asexuality (or nonsexuality)[1][2][3] is the lack of sexual attraction to anyone or low or absent interest in sexual activity.[4][5][6] It may be considered the lack of a sexual orientation, or one of the four types thereof, alongside heterosexuality, homosexuality, and bisexuality.[7][8][9] A study in 2004 placed the prevalence of asexuality at 1%.[7][10]
Asexuality is distinct from abstention from sexual activity and from celibacy,[11] which are behavioral and generally motivated by factors such as an individual's personal or religious beliefs;[12] sexual orientation, unlike sexual behavior, is believed to be "enduring".[13] Some asexual people do engage in sexual activity despite lacking a desire for sex or sexual attraction, due to a variety of reasons, such as a desire to please romantic partners or a desire to have children.[6

[LikeABoatOnWater]

Well if you dont experience sexual attraction and your living a straight life style then your choosing to be straight surely.

[Verbal]

Originally Posted by LikeABoatOnWater

Well if you dont experience sexual attraction and your living a straight life style then your choosing to be straight surely.

No, I find women attractive. I do not find men attractive. For example, if you approached a regular every day person in a club and said to them you cannot have sex for the next 7 months. They would probably go and hang themselves. I havent had sex for about 7 years and have no desire to seek it out.

If you are genuinely interested in the subject I would recommend visiting http://www.asexuality.org/en/ the good folks there can explain it far better than I can.

[LikeABoatOnWater]

Originally Posted by CynicalHermit

No, I find women attractive. I do not find men attractive. For example, if you approached a regular every day person in a club and said to them you cannot have sex for the next 7 months. They would probably go and hang themselves. I havent had sex for about 7 years and have no desire to seek it out.

If you are genuinely interested in the subject I would recommend visiting http://www.asexuality.org/en/ the good folks there can explain it far better than I can.

do you wank

[Verbal]

Originally Posted by LikeABoatOnWater

do you wank

Nope. Althought some asexuals do. Its a very wide spectrum. I am not a prude either before someone directs that at me. I find sexual things such as porn quite funny to be honest. My first incline that I maybe asexual was when everyone around me was obsessed with sex as a youngster, and I thought ok erm what am I missing? Then after making a conscious effort to 'pull' being bored senseless with 'it'.

And before some smartass says 'you just cant get laid' if I wanted it and I couldnt get it through conventional means, I would pay for it. I just don't care about it.

[DanaC]

That is not the same as having sex with another person.

[DanaC]

There are lots of people in relationships who have sex with their partners because that's what you're supposed to do, and because not doing so would make their partner feel like they were being rejected or were unattractive They may love their partner very much. They may find them very attractive. They may enjoy the romance, or cuddling up on the sofa. But full on sexual activity may feel totally wrong to them.

[DanaC]

There are lots of people in relationships who have sex with their partners because that's what you're supposed to do, and because not doing so would make their partner feel like they were being rejected or were unattractive They may love their partner very much. They may find them very attractive. They may enjoy the romance, or cuddling up on the sofa. But full on sexual activity may feel totally wrong to them.


They may be able to think themselves into a frame of mind where it's ok. Or they may even quite enjoy it, but not actually have a desire for it.

When people find out I have been single for nearly 10 years, they find it strange that i don't miss the sex. When in fact that's the part of a relationship that I absolutely do not miss. I just don't have that desire.

Like CynicalHermit, my first inkling was when i was younger and all my mates talked about sex. It just did nothing for me. It's like that part of my brain never activated or something. Really, it's only the last few years that I have recognised it for what it is. before that I spent a long time thinking I was somehow broken. When actually, I'm just wired a little differently to most people.

[Verbal]

Originally Posted by DanaC

There are lots of people in relationships who have sex with their partners because that's what you're supposed to do, and because not doing so would make their partner feel like they were being rejected or were unattractive They may love their partner very much. They may find them very attractive. They may enjoy the romance, or cuddling up on the sofa. But full on sexual activity may feel totally wrong to them.


They may be able to think themselves into a frame of mind where it's ok. Or they may even quite enjoy it, but not actually have a desire for it.

When people find out I have been single for nearly 10 years, they find it strange that i don't miss the sex. When in fact that's the part of a relationship that I absolutely do not miss. I just don't have that desire.

Like CynicalHermit, my first inkling was when i was younger and all my mates talked about sex. It just did nothing for me. It's like that part of my brain never activated or something. Really, it's only the last few years that I have recognised it for what it is. before that I spent a long time thinking I was somehow broken. When actually, I'm just wired a little differently to most people.

Disclaimer: Not me in the picture. Just some random dude on google images.

[pcro]

There has been zero indication of this and whether he is or not, this thread is just wishful thinking on the part of the OP. Speculation and gossip based on absolutley nothing.

[Kris]

Originally Posted by LikeABoatOnWater

I have an exceptional gaydar, ive been thinking this for a while but tonight i just cant hold it in any more.
The kid probably doesn't know it yet but he is, because although he is 23 im pretty sure he has a mental age of a 13 year old.
keep pouting hun xoxo

Well. No. Don't think he is.

And?

So what if he is? So was Dan, one of the twins, Wolfey, Rylan and thousands of other people in the world. What's your point?

As for him having the mental age of 13. I think that's ridicules. I think he acts the mental age of a young lad...which is what he is.

[DanaC]

he seems a pretty normal 23 year old to me.

[billy123]

Why the hell is this still open its got nothing to do with big brother and what it did have to do with it when the thread was started was thinly veiled homophobia.

[elliebrew]

How is this thread STILL going

[DanaC]

Originally Posted by elliebrew

How is this thread STILL going

I don't know, but I've done my level best to derail it

[DanaC]

hahahahah excellent.


But maybe narcosexual?