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Vicky. · 12-01-2014, 09:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Zee

I agree with this unless I was one of the five people, working on the assumption that they weren't going to tell me they'd slept with other people that night as well - then it's my health they're risking and I take issue with that.

Hmm I guess. I dont think of it like that as I am now in a long term relationship and dont HAVE to worry about my health really

Mind if you go back home with someone you just met, them being a dirty bastard is a risk you take. Yeah sleeping with 5 seperate people in a night doesnt necessarily make you a dirty bastard (as someone pointed out, could be using protection) but they are quite a higher risk than someone who rations their sex

Z · 12-01-2014, 09:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Vicky.

Hmm I guess. I dont think of it like that as I am now in a long term relationship and dont HAVE to worry about my health really

Mind if you go back home with someone you just met, them being a dirty bastard is a risk you take. Yeah sleeping with 5 seperate people in a night doesnt necessarily make you a dirty bastard (as someone pointed out, could be using protection) but they are quite a higher risk than someone who rations their sex

Exactly - if you're like me and only come into contact with (ooooooops) a human being about once a year, you know exactly where you caught your unfortunate condition from

maybe I don't have a problem with sleeping with 5 people in the same night at all... maybe I'm just bitter...

Vicky. · 12-01-2014, 09:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Zee

Exactly - if you're like me and only come into a human being about once a year, you know exactly where you caught your unfortunate condition from

maybe I don't have a problem with sleeping with 5 people in the same night at all... maybe I'm just bitter...

Unfortunate choice of wording

smudgie · 12-01-2014, 10:10 PM

there were ten in a bed and the little one said rollover..rollover.

Whatever turns you on..it is obviously only sexual pleasure you are seeking, nothing to do with low self esteem..more to do with a high sex drive and sense of adventure.
Get it out of your system before you meet your soulmate.

Nedusa · 12-01-2014, 10:20 PM

Let's hope he had plenty of change for the condom machine !!!

user104658 · 12-01-2014, 11:20 PM

Errrrrrmm... morally, I have no issue with it. Sex can be just sex (it doesn't HAVE to be, but it CAN be, and for the vast majority of people having one night humpfests, emotions aren't really part of the package).

Physically? I can only imagine... chafey? You could use a lot of lube, I guess. Or if it was five 5-minute quickies I guess it wouldn't technically be any different to one 25-minute session with one person... but still, by the 5th time it can't be feeling great. And from a male perspective, by the 4th "happy moment" within a few hours it tends to be a dry-jizz which (IMO) is seriously uncomfortable. Even the 3rd is usually just an unsatisfying spittle. And the 5th? I reckon it would probably just hurt. Haha.

Kizzy · 13-01-2014, 01:10 AM

It must have an element to it of instant gratification or something?
With no emotions involved it's just sex and seems so carnal and base.
It's not for me, I alone have to be adored by my partners so it wouldn't work

Niamh. · 13-01-2014, 10:29 AM

Personally I think it's a bit manky and wouldn't do it myself (for both men and women) each to their own though i guess but I'd hope that i never unwittingly ended up with someone who did that alot, you'd never know what you'd catch :/

13-01-2014, 10:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Niamh.

Personally I think it's a bit manky and wouldn't do it myself (for both men and women) each to their own though i guess but I'd hope that i never unwittingly ended up with someone who did that alot, you'd never know what you'd catch :/

Can't catch anything twice

Niamh. · 13-01-2014, 10:42 AM

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Can't catch anything twice

Livia · 13-01-2014, 02:31 PM

I couldn't sleep with five people in a night. I'd have to send two of them home.

Benjamin · 13-01-2014, 04:12 PM

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I couldn't sleep with five people in a night. I'd have to send two of them home.

Like an Apprentice style system? The two that fail to impress the most get fired?

Livia · 13-01-2014, 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Benjamin

Like an Apprentice style system? The two that fail to impress the most get fired?

Hmmm never thought about it like that. But yeah, if you like!

Ramsay · 13-01-2014, 04:10 PM

I was once quite close to having a sixsome but luckily we all smoked a joint and fell asleep instead

Niamh. · 13-01-2014, 04:12 PM

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I was once quite close to having a sixsome but luckily we all smoked a joint and fell asleep instead

Lee. · 13-01-2014, 04:18 PM

Even if I were single, I have too much self respect to let 5 different men use my body for their own satisfaction.. I would get no pleasure from it whatsoever. My mind needs stimulated first I'm afraid and a quick 5 minute **** does not appeal to me in the slightest!

Smithy · 13-01-2014, 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Lee.

Even if I were single, I have too much self respect to let 5 different men use my body for their own satisfaction.. I would get no pleasure from it whatsoever. My mind needs stimulated first I'm afraid and a quick 5 minute **** does not appeal to me in the slightest!

Well thats ok for you, but just because someone has lots of sex with different people doesn't mean they have low self respect, self respect is about doing things that make you happy, if that's having lots of sex, then each to their own

Lee. · 13-01-2014, 04:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Smithy

Well thats ok for you, but just because someone has lots of sex with different people doesn't mean they have low self respect, self respect is about doing things that make you happy, if that's having lots of sex, then each to their own

That's fair enough.. However, I've know a few slags in my time and yes, they appear to just love to have lots of meaningless sex, but every single one if them were not happy at all.. They were simply using their body for attention and affection and ended up feeling pretty bad about themselves.. Plus when it came to actually finding someone to have a proper relationship, they struggled. Like this or not, but men are happy for a woman to spread her legs for one night, but when it comes to actually settling down, they don't want the town bike.

Z · 13-01-2014, 04:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Lee.

That's fair enough.. However, I've know a few slags in my time and yes, they appear to just love to have lots of meaningless sex, but every single one if them were not happy at all.. They were simply using their body for attention and affection and ended up feeling pretty bad about themselves.. Plus when it came to actually finding someone to have a proper relationship, they struggled. Like this or not, but men are happy for a woman to spread her legs for one night, but when it comes to actually settling down, they don't want the town bike.

Yeah I agree with this. Maybe that makes me judgmental but I can live with that.

Lee. · 13-01-2014, 04:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Zee

Yeah I agree with this. Maybe that makes me judgmental but I can live with that.

I care not one jot.

Kyle · 13-01-2014, 07:18 PM

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Yeah I agree with this. Maybe that makes me judgmental but I can live with that.

I think you are perfectly entitled to your way of thinking. It's certainly fine if anybody wants to have consensual sex with 5 different people in one night but I don't think people should be chastised if they happen to take a dim view of it.

Niamh. · 13-01-2014, 04:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Lee.

That's fair enough.. However, I've know a few slags in my time and yes, they appear to just love to have lots of meaningless sex, but every single one if them were not happy at all.. They were simply using their body for attention and affection and ended up feeling pretty bad about themselves.. Plus when it came to actually finding someone to have a proper relationship, they struggled. Like this or not, but men are happy for a woman to spread her legs for one night, but when it comes to actually settling down, they don't want the town bike.

The same goes for men though imo. I'd be thinking about how manky it is, you know sleep with one guy and you're sleeping with everyone he has too, disease wise

Lee. · 13-01-2014, 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Niamh.

The same goes for men though imo. I'd be thinking about how manky it is, you know sleep with one guy and you're sleeping with everyone he has too, disease wise

Yeah definitely! But unfortunately, men don't get labelled as town bikes or slags or as having bad reputations! A loose woman is far more talked about than a slag of a man.