[Novo]

All was forgiven when he voted Trump, his sins have been revoked.

[T*]

This is purely speculation (about him as a HM, not as a member) but on BOTS yesterday Raph was in the diary room talking about his gameplan and this was analysed by Trisha Goddard

What i'm thinking is perhaps these two events might be connected and it was Raph explaining that he was fake crying for his game and it wasn't shown or something and he was trying to do something similar to BBUS and BBCAN where after a game move they were explaining his strategy?

[Glenn.]

I'm pale now thanks mock

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Glenn.

I'm pale now thanks mock

I didn't mean to single you out on anything if I have.

[Alf]

Just jealous of Raph getting plenty of pickle tickle?

Me too

[smudgie]

If Raph was living in the same area all the time he was cheating, surely the people he was sleeping around with would have known his reputation.
It's not like he is old enough to have been in long term relationships...or does he just look very young for his age?

[Locke.]

Originally Posted by smudgie

If Raph was living in the same area all the time he was cheating, surely the people he was sleeping around with would have known his reputation.
It's not like he is old enough to have been in long term relationships...or does he just look very young for his age?

He moves around a lot, but I believe it was said that the 3 girlfriends he cheated on was during his high school days. He was young.

[smudgie]

Originally Posted by Locke.

He moves around a lot, but I believe it was said that the 3 girlfriends he cheated on was during his high school days. He was young.

So they probably knew he was just a player then, not in it for love ever after and all that.

[EspeonBB]

Originally Posted by smudgie

So they probably knew he was just a player then, not in it for love ever after and all that.

This doesn't really excuse him cheating though

[smudgie]

Originally Posted by EspeonBB

This doesn't really excuse him cheating though

So are you saying he was the only one that knew he was playing the field at the time, nobody else in school knew who was doing who...hardly likely.

[LukeB]

Originally Posted by Locke.

He moves around a lot, but I believe it was said that the 3 girlfriends he cheated on was during his high school days. He was young.

It was and that was years ago and you can regret and feel remorse years later (doesn't mean we condone it) you can make loads of mistakes when you are young.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by LukeB

It was and that was years ago and you can regret and feel remorse years later (doesn't mean we condone it) you can make loads of mistakes when you are young.

Yes. We all make mistakes when we're young. No one is perfect.

[T*]

Originally Posted by LukeB

It was and that was years ago and you can regret and feel remorse years later (doesn't mean we condone it) you can make loads of mistakes when you are young.

girl he said he never felt guilty about anything though

[Firewire]

Originally Posted by T*

girl he said he never felt guilty about anything though

That's not true though is it

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by T*

girl he said he never felt guilty about anything though

In his VT...

[Drew.]

Originally Posted by T*

girl he said he never felt guilty about anything though

Thats where the whole thing about people just waiting to take a dig at him comes into play, you're all ignoring the fact hes repeatedly said hes remorseful to us just so you can keep this up

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by smudgie

If Raph was living in the same area all the time he was cheating, surely the people he was sleeping around with would have known his reputation.
It's not like he is old enough to have been in long term relationships...or does he just look very young for his age?

Yes lets blame the victims instead. Wow.

[smudgie]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Yes lets blame the victims instead. Wow.

Maybe the second victim knew about the first victim..what would that make her then?
Just sounds like a load of young people having fun to me.
If they all lived in the same area it must have been a very large area for none of them to know what was going on.

[Denver]

Originally Posted by smudgie

Maybe the second victim knew about the first victim..what would that make her then?
Just sounds like a load of young people having fun to me.
If they all lived in the same area it must have been a very large area for none of them to know what was going on.

People like to believe they learn from mistakes

[smudgie]

Originally Posted by Adam.

People like to believe they learn from mistakes

Maybe at the time he didn't think of it as a mistake, or hurting anyone, then as you grow up you mature and see things differently.
I am only playing devils advocate here, I don't know Raph, all I know is he is young and I like what I see of his personality on BB.

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by smudgie

Maybe the second victim knew about the first victim..what would that make her then?
Just sounds like a load of young people having fun to me.
If they all lived in the same area it must have been a very large area for none of them to know what was going on.

Still a victim as he cheated on her.

[smudgie]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Still a victim as he cheated on her.

Hmmm, but she would be as guilty as him, sleeping with someone else's boyfriend.

[Denver]

I am sorry but the he was young so is allowed to cheat argument is bull****

[Jake.]

Thing is you can't expect people to fully take a step back and try and see him as a "standard" housemate.. He's always going to be "Raph from TiBB". I certainly don't condone cheating, but I don't condone looking for any excuse to jump on the bandwagon of hate either. As someone who's met him I can vouch for him being a great guy who has changed from those days. It's not like coming out is notorious for being a walk in the park either, is it?

[armand.kay]

Originally Posted by Jake.

Thing is you can't expect people to fully take a step back and try and see him as a "standard" housemate.. He's always going to be "Raph from TiBB". I certainly don't condone cheating, but I don't condone looking for any excuse to jump on the bandwagon of hate either. As someone who's met him I can vouch for him being a great guy who has changed from those days. It's not like coming out is notorious for being a walk in the park either, is it?

I feel like him being a member hasn't made as much of a difference as people are making out. The members who seem not like him very much don't tend to support housemates like him.