[Holly Christmas]

I'd like to choose my character name please but happy to go with a majority decision. X

[The Human Santapede]

I’m still keen to play. Are we needing to send you a character etc?

[Holly Christmas]

Originally Posted by Benjamin

I’m still keen to play. Are we needing to send you a character etc?

I've created one so hopefully Jake will choose that option x

[Time to Sleigh]

Sorry Im not going to get around to doing this in September. I will have to postpone it. Im thinking maybe November time. Been a bit preoccupied lately so haven't had time to think about this

[Holly Christmas]

Originally Posted by Strictly Jake

Sorry Im not going to get around to doing this in September. I will have to postpone it. Im thinking maybe November time. Been a bit preoccupied lately so haven't had time to think about this

No worries. Xx

[Merry Mockmas]

Originally Posted by Strictly Jake

Sorry Im not going to get around to doing this in September. I will have to postpone it. Im thinking maybe November time. Been a bit preoccupied lately so haven't had time to think about this

That's fine Jake.

[ChristmasNeeve]

Originally Posted by Strictly Jake

Sorry Im not going to get around to doing this in September. I will have to postpone it. Im thinking maybe November time. Been a bit preoccupied lately so haven't had time to think about this

Hope everything is OK with you Jake

[Cherry Christmas]

Hope you are okay Jake, if it runs in November I might join xx

[Time to Sleigh]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Hope you are okay Jake, if it runs in November I might join xx

That's great if you can

Im not doing too great currently at the moment. Life's just got a bit on top of me the past couple of days. Im struggling. My wife had a major op a couple of weeks ago and having to juggle what comes with that plus dealing with the 3 kids and also working two jobs im feeling a bit what I describe as fizzy my whole body is vibrating and my head feels empty and full at the same time. Plus a bit down as my friends and family who all said they will be round me all the time to give me help and will do whatever we need, just haven't seemed to care all that much now the operation has happened and instead they are all socialising together constantly and posting it on Instagram about what a great fun time they are all having so thats not making me feel too great

So yeah postponing this felt right as not in the headzone currently for it.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Strictly Jake

That's great if you can

Im not doing too great currently at the moment. Life's just got a bit on top of me the past couple of days. Im struggling. My wife had a major op a couple of weeks ago and having to juggle what comes with that plus dealing with the 3 kids and also working two jobs im feeling a bit what I describe as fizzy my whole body is vibrating and my head feels empty and full at the same time. Plus a bit down as my friends and family who all said they will be round me all the time to give me help and will do whatever we need, just haven't seemed to care all that much now the operation has happened and instead they are all socialising together constantly and posting it on Instagram about what a great fun time they are all having so thats not making me feel too great

So yeah postponing this felt right as not in the headzone currently for it.

….…do you have any family circle support atm, Jake…?…

[Merry Mockmas]

Originally Posted by Strictly Jake

That's great if you can

Im not doing too great currently at the moment. Life's just got a bit on top of me the past couple of days. Im struggling. My wife had a major op a couple of weeks ago and having to juggle what comes with that plus dealing with the 3 kids and also working two jobs im feeling a bit what I describe as fizzy my whole body is vibrating and my head feels empty and full at the same time. Plus a bit down as my friends and family who all said they will be round me all the time to give me help and will do whatever we need, just haven't seemed to care all that much now the operation has happened and instead they are all socialising together constantly and posting it on Instagram about what a great fun time they are all having so thats not making me feel too great

So yeah postponing this felt right as not in the headzone currently for it.

That's more than fair Jake.

We'll be ready to do the game whenever you're personally ready, and are in the right headspace to do it.

[Cherry Christmas]

Originally Posted by Strictly Jake

That's great if you can

Im not doing too great currently at the moment. Life's just got a bit on top of me the past couple of days. Im struggling. My wife had a major op a couple of weeks ago and having to juggle what comes with that plus dealing with the 3 kids and also working two jobs im feeling a bit what I describe as fizzy my whole body is vibrating and my head feels empty and full at the same time. Plus a bit down as my friends and family who all said they will be round me all the time to give me help and will do whatever we need, just haven't seemed to care all that much now the operation has happened and instead they are all socialising together constantly and posting it on Instagram about what a great fun time they are all having so thats not making me feel too great

So yeah postponing this felt right as not in the headzone currently for it.

Aw Jake, sorry to hear that, maybe they think you are doing okay as you are juggling everything, sometimes people need a nudge, maybe give one of them a call tomorrow and try and organise some help over the weekend, its kinda harder to say no to a direct request and they did offer to help but like I say sometimes people get a bit distracted and might think you are handling it all, hope your wife has a speedy recovery and that you have a chance to get a break soon x

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Strictly Jake

That's great if you can

Im not doing too great currently at the moment. Life's just got a bit on top of me the past couple of days. Im struggling. My wife had a major op a couple of weeks ago and having to juggle what comes with that plus dealing with the 3 kids and also working two jobs im feeling a bit what I describe as fizzy my whole body is vibrating and my head feels empty and full at the same time. Plus a bit down as my friends and family who all said they will be round me all the time to give me help and will do whatever we need, just haven't seemed to care all that much now the operation has happened and instead they are all socialising together constantly and posting it on Instagram about what a great fun time they are all having so thats not making me feel too great

So yeah postponing this felt right as not in the headzone currently for it.

…I’m sure that they do care and if maybe give specific tasks/chores etc on a list of things that you need help with most and then allocate one thing to each who have offered…?…and say, as they wanted to snd offered to help, would it be ok to do that specific thing as you’re struggling a bit atm to fit everything into your days.…?….

[Yuki Maru Hoshi]

Originally Posted by Strictly Jake

That's great if you can

Im not doing too great currently at the moment. Life's just got a bit on top of me the past couple of days. Im struggling. My wife had a major op a couple of weeks ago and having to juggle what comes with that plus dealing with the 3 kids and also working two jobs im feeling a bit what I describe as fizzy my whole body is vibrating and my head feels empty and full at the same time. Plus a bit down as my friends and family who all said they will be round me all the time to give me help and will do whatever we need, just haven't seemed to care all that much now the operation has happened and instead they are all socialising together constantly and posting it on Instagram about what a great fun time they are all having so thats not making me feel too great

So yeah postponing this felt right as not in the headzone currently for it.

Have you asked them directly for help? I know in my case, people always assume I have it together because we don't generally have drama in our lives.

[Time to Sleigh]

Thanks for the advice. Yeah I guess I haven't gave anyone a specific help instruction. I think I just need them to visit a bit more really, when anyone in our friends circle or family circle has had a medical problem or similar everyone seems to set up a WhatsApp on thats persons behalf to visit a lot, take meals etc, and they all said they will be visiting her all the time, but they visited her once when she came back form hospital and haven't been back since, its been 2 weeks, even people we aren't that close to have visited her once surely our closest friends and family should be wanting to visit more, especially when they said they would. But yeah I guess I haven't told them how im feeling about it. Its just when they post on Instagram for the past 2 weekends we are having "THE best time with the BEST people" it's sort of a slap in the face when im dealing with so much.

Im definitely being over dramatic and sensitive and reading too much into stuff but im just so tired and stressed. Yeah I will try reach out to them today

[Holly Christmas]

Originally Posted by Strictly Jake

Thanks for the advice. Yeah I guess I haven't gave anyone a specific help instruction. I think I just need them to visit a bit more really, when anyone in our friends circle or family circle has had a medical problem or similar everyone seems to set up a WhatsApp on thats persons behalf to visit a lot, take meals etc, and they all said they will be visiting her all the time, but they visited her once when she came back form hospital and haven't been back since, its been 2 weeks, even people we aren't that close to have visited her once surely our closest friends and family should be wanting to visit more, especially when they said they would. But yeah I guess I haven't told them how im feeling about it. Its just when they post on Instagram for the past 2 weekends we are having "THE best time with the BEST people" it's sort of a slap in the face when im dealing with so much.

Im definitely being over dramatic and sensitive and reading too much into stuff but im just so tired and stressed. Yeah I will try reach out to them today

Excellent. I reckon they'll take it on board and rally round. I certainly hope I'm right. Xx

[Merry Mockmas]

Originally Posted by Strictly Jake

Thanks for the advice. Yeah I guess I haven't gave anyone a specific help instruction. I think I just need them to visit a bit more really, when anyone in our friends circle or family circle has had a medical problem or similar everyone seems to set up a WhatsApp on thats persons behalf to visit a lot, take meals etc, and they all said they will be visiting her all the time, but they visited her once when she came back form hospital and haven't been back since, its been 2 weeks, even people we aren't that close to have visited her once surely our closest friends and family should be wanting to visit more, especially when they said they would. But yeah I guess I haven't told them how im feeling about it. Its just when they post on Instagram for the past 2 weekends we are having "THE best time with the BEST people" it's sort of a slap in the face when im dealing with so much.

Im definitely being over dramatic and sensitive and reading too much into stuff but im just so tired and stressed. Yeah I will try reach out to them today

Tbf I think you're having an understandable reaction.

Speaking for myself, I've seen people have sensitive responses to things over far less than what you're describing.

Hopefully it all works out for you in the end.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Strictly Jake

Thanks for the advice. Yeah I guess I haven't gave anyone a specific help instruction. I think I just need them to visit a bit more really, when anyone in our friends circle or family circle has had a medical problem or similar everyone seems to set up a WhatsApp on thats persons behalf to visit a lot, take meals etc, and they all said they will be visiting her all the time, but they visited her once when she came back form hospital and haven't been back since, its been 2 weeks, even people we aren't that close to have visited her once surely our closest friends and family should be wanting to visit more, especially when they said they would. But yeah I guess I haven't told them how im feeling about it. Its just when they post on Instagram for the past 2 weekends we are having "THE best time with the BEST people" it's sort of a slap in the face when im dealing with so much.

Im definitely being over dramatic and sensitive and reading too much into stuff but im just so tired and stressed. Yeah I will try reach out to them today

…we’re having such a wonderful summer with weather etc and it’s so easy to get wrapped up in just enjoying that, that it’s easy to forget those close to us eho may be struggling…making a rota/timetable etc in a WhatsApp group and asking who can fill each task etc will help in focusing your care circle into what needs to be done…and a speedy recovery to your wife also…..

[Holly Christmas]

Also I agree with the words of advice posted above from Ammi Maru Cherie and Mock.

[Yuki Maru Hoshi]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

Tbf I think you're having an understandable reaction.

Speaking for myself, I've seen people have sensitive responses to things over far less than what you're describing.

Hopefully it all works out for you in the end.

Agreed. That's super normal.

[Time to Sleigh]

Thanks everyone for your kind words and advice and pm's. Having a sounding board just to have a small dramatic vent to has helped me feel better. I was keeping stuff to myself and that was making things worse.

This forum always seems to help me through my difficult times theres so many lovely people here.

[Holly Christmas]

Originally Posted by Strictly Jake

Thanks everyone for your kind words and advice and pm's. Having a sounding board just to have a small dramatic vent to has helped me feel better. I was keeping stuff to myself and that was making things worse.

This forum always seems to help me through my difficult times theres so many lovely people here.

[Santa's NaughtiNess]

No problem jake. Hope you're ok.

[Santa's NaughtiNess]

Originally Posted by Strictly Jake

Thanks everyone for your kind words and advice and pm's. Having a sounding board just to have a small dramatic vent to has helped me feel better. I was keeping stuff to myself and that was making things worse.

This forum always seems to help me through my difficult times theres so many lovely people here.

[Ammi]

…I hope that it’s all beginning to have some structure and support now, Jake…and also that Mrs Jake is recovering well from her surgery……