[Jack.]

Could I just ask what's the razzies ??

[T*]

I had a dream that this thread turned into a sports discussion thread and Idek why.
My brain is weird

[Natalie.]

Wish I had been on here when the razzies happened now we're not having it anymore

[Benjamin]

If it makes you feel better I did get infracted for my (now deleted) speech to Kizzy.

[Benjamin]

-is also expecting a few more today-

[Kazanne]

Well far be it from me to put my size 5s in,but I opted out too,I cant even remember much of it tbh,but if we are shooting from the hip here,I will say I think Kizzy gets a very unfair ride on here,all she does is state her opinions which is supposedly what a forum is about and she sucks up to no one,so please or offend I kinda admire that,I dislike the way some are scared to say what they REALLY feel for fear of a ban,so maybe don't blame it on certain individuals,afterall it takes two and lets face it Kizzy gets loads of flack as does Chuff,we may not always agree with what they say,but we have to get past that.I myself get really angry sometimes,I just stay away as sometimes it's pointless trying to get a point across,I think Kizzy is a good member we need a few Kizzys/Chuffs.the only reason I opted out the razzies was because I feel its a bit silly but I would never want it stopped because of that(just incase anyone is pointing a finger at me)and ben as much as I like you,I was surprised at that outburst,chill man You can all shoot me now

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Well far be it from me to put my size 5s in,but I opted out too,I cant even remember much of it tbh,but if we are shooting from the hip here,I will say I think Kizzy gets a very unfair ride on here,all she does is state her opinions which is supposedly what a forum is about and she sucks up to no one,so please or offend I kinda admire that,I dislike the way some are scared to say what they REALLY feel for fear of a ban,so maybe don't blame it on certain individuals,afterall it takes two and lets face it Kizzy gets loads of flack as does Chuff,we may not always agree with what they say,but we have to get past that.I myself get really angry sometimes,I just stay away as sometimes it's pointless trying to get a point across,I think Kizzy is a good member we need a few Kizzys/Chuffs.the only reason I opted out the razzies was because I feel its a bit silly but I would never want it stopped because of that(just incase anyone is pointing a finger at me)and ben as much as I like you,I was surprised at that outburst,chill man You can all shoot me now

Kizzy can be a good member but she often has a chip on her shoulder and looks to pick a fight. And over the last year the sniping between a few members seems to take over a fair few threads and it is not fair on the majority of us who don't give a **** if they hate each other yet we have to sit there and go through it time after time after time and watch as threads/events then become ruined.

[arista]

Originally Posted by Ben

Kizzy can be a good member but she often has a chip on her shoulder and looks to pick a fight. And over the last year the sniping between a few members seems to take over a fair few threads and it is not fair on the majority of us who don't give a **** if they hate each other yet we have to sit there and go through it time after time after time and watch as threads/events then become ruined.

Yes very Sexy

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by arista

Yes very Sexy

arista you old devil

[Jemal]

There are alot of people who follow fashion and dont speak their mind tho.
I know i dont do that, i just have a preferred bunch of people i like talking too.
I also do agree with Kaz that a lot of people do hold back because their scared of a ban but yeah, sometimes the members you find annoying can be known as a great member in other people's eyes.

I have people on here who i can't stand lol, but if im in a heated debate, after I've calmed down abit i then realise its a forum and your gonna have people you don't agree with or dont nessecarily like. Or in Ben and Kaz's case have opposite opinions on a particular member.

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Jemal

There are alot of people who follow fashion and dont speak their mind tho.
I know i dont do that, i just have a preferred bunch of people i like talking too.
I also do agree with Kaz that a lot of people do hold back because their scared of a ban but yeah, sometimes the members you find annoying can be known as a great member in other people's eyes.

I have people on here who i can't stand lol, but if im in a heated debate, after I've calmed down abit i then realise its a forum and your gonna have people you don't agree with or dont nessecarily like. Or in Ben and Kaz's case have opposite opinions on a particular member.

Yeh I got a bit of a shock when I first joined here I was getting banned left, right and centre. I've had to tone it down a bit and now I've been unbanned for quite a while. But if that's what it takes to keep 'order' then who am I to complain I've never run a forum before so I don't know what it's like lol

[Jemal]

Originally Posted by Simple Minds

Yeh I got a bit of a shock when I first joined here I was getting banned left, right and centre. I've had to tone it down a bit and now I've been unbanned for quite a while. But if that's what it takes to keep 'order' then who am I to complain I've never run a forum before so I don't know what it's like lol

Remember when me and you always used to get banned for not liking dexter LOL

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Jemal

Remember when me and you always used to get banned for not liking dexter LOL

Good times Jemal

H.M.S Samuel shipmates ftw

[Jemal]

Originally Posted by Simple Minds

Good times Jemal

H.M.S Samuel shipmates ftw

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Jemal

Remember when me and you always used to get banned for not liking dexter LOL

yeah, that happened I'm sure..........

[Benjamin]

I will just say again (as I think that part was also deleted) I know it isn't just Kizzy, there are members that go out of their way to snipe at her just as much and they are equally responsible and tiresome.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Ben

I will just say again (as I think that part was also deleted) I know it isn't just Kizzy, there are members that go out of their way to snipe at her just as much and they are equally responsible and tiresome.

Oh hallelujah...
So I'm not the big instigator, scourge of the forum now?
Do you feel better for what you said, had your own little private razzies didn't you?

[Josy]

Right stop using this thread to discuss other members, infractions and bans or I'm closing it.

[Benjamin]

To be honest I think it's about time we all addressed the issues on here and got them out in the open and sorted them out as opposed to keeping it all hush-hush, letting the tension build and tip-toeing around each other while others carry on with their sniping ways.

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Ben

To be honest I think it's about time we all addressed the issues on here and got them out in the open and sorted them out as opposed to keeping it all hush-hush, letting the tension build and tip-toeing around each other while others carry on with their sniping ways.

A private social group, moderated by one or two mods and invites to all people concerned to sort it out then shut the group after. Personally I think it's better than closing the thread and waiting for another Volcano to brew.

[arista]

Originally Posted by Simple Minds

A private social group, moderated by one or two mods and invites to all people concerned to sort it out then shut the group after. Personally I think it's better than closing the thread and waiting for another Volcano to brew.

No Ben - former staff
says not

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by arista

No Ben - former staff
says not

I'm just trying to help, I can't be assed with the all out war I just want to come on here and have a laugh. I want everyone to get on.

[arista]

Originally Posted by Simple Minds

I'm just trying to help, I can't be assed with the all out war I just want to come on here and have a laugh. I want everyone to get on.

Never
Some get on
Some do not
Some arrange meet ups.



That is very normal Worldwide

[Josy]

Originally Posted by Ben

To be honest I think it's about time we all addressed the issues on here and got them out in the open and sorted them out as opposed to keeping it all hush-hush, letting the tension build and tip-toeing around each other while others carry on with their sniping ways.

This is said constantly and is quite honestly bull**** tbh, the members that don't get on here don't want to and that's it, they will argue day in day out because it's what they want to do, they thrive off of drama.

The same goes for all the 'we need a private thread' etc, no we don't because it would be a novelty that would wear off in a few days for the simple fact that there would be no rule breaking and no audience.

Far too many on here are too quick to blame others for the things that happen and can never ever take any responsibility for their own actions.

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Josy

This is said constantly and is quite honestly bull**** tbh, the members that don't get on here don't want to and that's it, they will argue day in day out because it's what they want to do, they thrive off of drama.

The same goes for all the 'we need a private thread' etc, no we don't because it would be a novelty that would wear off in a few days for the simple fact that there would be no rule breaking and no audience.

Far too many on here are too quick to blame others for the things that happen and can never ever take any responsibility for their own actions.

Then why is more not done about it? Not to question you moderators (so please don't take it as an insult) but why are they allowed to still be here ruining threads and events time and time again for the rest of the forum who are causing no harm to anyone? I ask that as a sincere question, not as a dig.

The whole reason the Razzies is banned because of the arguing but I'd rather have a night of arguing then a year like we have just had of this constant bickering/sniping that occurs in many threads. That is more off putting then anything else.