[lostalex]

sleeping with people who are better looking than you are? or people that are not as good looking as you?

I have a friend that tells me she would never sleep with someone better looking than her. It makes no sense to me. What do you think?

Of course i want to sleep with people that are better looking than me. Why wouldn't I?

I don't understand my friend's logic, do you?

[Niamh.]

lmao, I would only sleep with someone I was attracted too, whether they're better looking or not doesn't really come into it tbh though I think in alot of cases people tend to end up with people on the same level of good looking ness as themselves

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

lmao, I would only sleep with someone I was attracted too, whether they're better looking or not doesn't really come into it tbh though I think in alot of cases people tend to end up with people on the same level of good looking ness as themselves

yes i agree. For me, i never understand why anyone finds me attractive, and often when i'm with beautiful guys, they don't realize they are good looking.

But she says she doesn't like good-looking guys! i don't understand it.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by lostalex

yes i agree. For me, i never understand why anyone finds me attractive, and often when i'm with beautiful guys, they don't realize they are good looking.

But she says she doesn't like good-looking guys! i don't understand it.

Maybe you're not giving yourself enough credit then?

and yeah, that is a bit strange, sounds like she has very low self esteem or something

[lostalex]

i think that must be it. Or also i think maybe she likes to be in control, and she likes to have ugly guys because then she feels they are less likely to leave her or something?

I think maybe she wants to feel superior to them.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by lostalex

i think that must be it. Or also i think maybe she likes to be in control, and she likes to have ugly guys because then she feels they are less likely to leave her or something?

I think maybe she wants to feel superior to them.

hhhmmm, yeah, that's not a great attitude to have in a relationship though!

[Beastie]

I would just sleep with someone I am attracted to and if they are attracted to me. Some jealous people will judge and say.. the man is too good for the woman or vice versa. Too good? Someone who is good looking could be a twat. Someone not that good looking could have a heart of gold?

At the end of the day it only matters what the 2 people's feelings for each other have.

[Chuck]

I'm sexual anorexic, I only have sex with myself. But i had to have sex with someone, it would DEFINETELY be someone less attractive.

[Ninastar]

I agree with niamh, I wouldn't have sex with someone I'm not attracted too.