[Marc]

Number 2 without a doubt, why would her sister want to hurt her sister's feelings.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Ellen

Adult male to young girl
Adult to Adult
Doesnt matter, he should know better. Like i say, he picked the easiest thing to target when he could have said numerous things. I stand by what i say, its childish & very sad.

If becky was not the sort of person who shoots her mouth of about anybody and everybody I may have an ounce of sympathy...But she isn't so I don't.

She is an adult as was caroline, just because they choose to act like adolescents the other adults in the house need not feel guilty for offending them, as they say what they like to others without any concience.

[calyman]

Originally Posted by Livia

Agreeing with your post and loving your Klimt.

Thanks, he definitely had an eye for colour and shape, unlike Becky. "ahem"

[Marmalite]

Originally Posted by Ellen

He did attack her, he said it on the back of a remark she made about respecting him.
Im not defending Becky on any other issues, i dont actually like her but when i think something is wrong i say so. I think he was out of order, he picked the easiest of things to have a pop at her & for an articulate man i thought it very childish & sad.

Agreed - in the outside world in an everyday situation it would be considered childish and sad coming from a 30+ year old.

However, take away the outside world put the person into an enclosed house full of people he would not give the time of day to on the outside and an environment that has seen nothing but bitching, bullying, ganging up, ostracising, back stabbing, threats, name-calling etc, etc, etc move it along to over 30+ days of being in this environment where those you got along with and had fun with are now gone and you have a completely different scenario.

In fact, I take my hat off to him for that being the only bad, childish and possibly hurtful remark he's made. There's only so much a person can take before they finally break and I would have lost it a long time ago so fair do's to him I say!

[Marmalite]

Originally Posted by Ellen

He did attack her, he said it on the back of a remark she made about respecting him.

Oh and btw, he didn't attack her.

He said it behind her back not to her face. So how is that attacking her?

[calyman]

It's irrelevant to talk about the varying ages of adults and what they should or shouldn't be "allowed" to say. We are none of us the same. Nastiness is not age dependent, nor is maturity only within the province of "30+" adults.

What is relevant is whether a person is fundamentally decent or not. Luke A is, Becky is not.

[SuziBooo]

She has big piles of food under her bed! And doesn't share it which admitted it to and she wants to be big and bold! Her choice! So Becky, have your cake and eat it!

[Marcus.]

Originally Posted by SuziBooo

She has big piles of food under her bed! And doesn't share it which admitted it to and she wants to be big and bold! Her choice! So Becky, have your cake and eat it!

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