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Old 03-10-2012, 05:29 PM #1
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Is it common? Am I over reacting in thinking this person is being selfish or a kill joy?

Most of the time this is how it goes-
me-Yay next week i'm going to do this and that, i'm so happy. (obviously telling them because i'm excited and want them to be happy for me)
person-aw I want to do that.
Me-aw sorry I know, you might get the chance one day. But yay so happy
Person-silence/side eye/slump. Why are you saying you're happy?
Me-because I am happy I got the opportunity.
Person-Oh so you don't care about me then I see.......



I mean is it wrong of me to expect the person to just say "aw Im happy for you" without having it be about them?
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I believe it should be a mixture of envy and congratulating someone else for getting the oppotunity that they also wanted, but that's just my opinion anyway.
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sadly a lot of people are like this

try not to let it spoil your pleasure, it's a horrible attitude. Don't get why people can't just be pleased for others fgs It's a very selfish world.
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They sound like a bit of a mardy knob
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How very mean of you to stir it in
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Would you like a bit of salt to rub into those wounds of his
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seems like you were bragging
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Go and do whatever you are doing next week. Really enjoy it. Then rub it in some more. If applicable, take photos for extra effect.
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sadly a lot of people are like this

try not to let it spoil your pleasure, it's a horrible attitude. Don't get why people can't just be pleased for others fgs It's a very selfish world.
It's a shame and very selfish. I mean, people tell me their good news a lot of them the times and my response is always aw that's excellent well done. If I am envious I try to keep it to myself not to spoil the others person's joy/or sense of accomplishment.
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They is!
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seems like you were bragging
I really wasn't. So when you are excited about something should you never tell people that are supposed to care/friends/family?
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Go and do whatever you are doing next week. Really enjoy it. Then rub it in some more. If applicable, take photos for extra effect.
Funny thing is i've been asked to take some photos for the company too. Maybe I should take some like this

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what is the exciting thing you are going to be doing ITILYT?
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I believe it should be a mixture of envy and congratulating someone else for getting the oppotunity that they also wanted, but that's just my opinion anyway.
Be envious in silence though and let the person have their moment and joy.
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what is the exciting thing you are going to be doing ITILYT?
Be part of an industry festival and the hope is to meet/communicate with some people from the industry. Chances are the people that will be there you have seen their work in some form as a a part of a film or other.
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If I knew someone like that I would purposely rub their noses in it to be honest. What a dick that person sounds
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Be part of an industry festival and the hope is to meet/communicate with some people from the industry. Chances are the people that will be there you have seen their work in some form as a a part of a film or other.
if you get any good pics, stick em on here, we'll be pleased for you.
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Funny thing is i've been asked to take some photos for the company too. Maybe I should take some like this

Perfect. Make sure they are in great surroundings too, and if possible, with groups of people, all having great fun too. That should do the trick.
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If I knew someone like that I would purposely rub their noses in it to be honest. What a dick that person sounds
It always has to be about them. Disgusting. I have done a lot for that person and they act like it's my duty to help anyway and they hardly ever show appreciation. Not that i'm expected a massive thank you fest all the time but a little appreciation wouldn't go a miss. I'm leo, we like to be appreciated.
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if you get any good pics, stick em on here, we'll be pleased for you.
ah I feel pressure now. I'll try but can't promise anything. :/
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you should talk to different people tbh.
You are right. Because I am afraid the saying "you are the company you keep" will become true and my case and I will no longer have the ability to be happy for other people.
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maybe shoulda left it at, aww im sorry, you might get the chance one day.

cos saying yay so happy is sorta rubbing it in
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