[Ninastar]

So most of you guys here know that my parents are getting divorced and it's been a messy year for me blah blah blah...

Anyway, 2 weeks ago this sunday, I moved into a new house with my dad. My sisters stayed with my mum and I was the only one to stay with my dad. All was going well and I really liked staying in the house. It's less than a minutes drive from work, so it's super convenient.

So tonight, my sisters and dad go to the panto (I didn't go because it was at 6 and I was put on the late shift. I wasnt told anything about it until wednesday so there was nothing i could do.) I get to the old house and my mum tells me that this woman my dad has been speaking to is coming over to stay. I asked when and she said tomorrow.

I wasn't sure whether it was my mum just trying to cause **** or w.e but really, I knew it was true. I was immediately angry that my dad hadn't told me.

So like half an hour ago, my dad comes in and tells me. This woman is staying for a month and she's going to be spending christmas and new year with him.

i'm just so so angry. Do I have the right to be? I told my dad that I didn't want to meet her and that I'd be moving back to the old house for a month or so.

is that selfish of me?

Maybe i'd feel different if I was told like a week ago, but the fact that it's less than 24 hours away... i'm just devastated. i didn't want the year to end like this at all.