[thesheriff443]

The old saying never judge a book by it's cover, in my opinion not true.

I believe we make an instant judgement rangeing from how someone look's to how they dress or how they talk,

on tibb i judge member's on their opinon's.

what do you lot think!

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

The old saying never judge a book by it's cover, in my opinion not true.

I believe we make an instant judgement rangeing from how someone look's to how they dress or how they talk,

on tibb i judge member's on their opinon's.

what do you lot think!

I try to look beyond someone's appearance. What matters to me is if they're a good hearted person. I want nothing to do with cruel or bullish people.

[Marcus.]

me i just let them they way they are

i am to kind for my own good

[Me. I Am Salman]

[Munchkins]

Of Course, we all subconciously judge eachother, even if we don't want to

[Ammi]

..no, there are some members that I have an opposite view to virtually all of their opinions but I like the way they put that opinion across, so I still like them...

[Marsh.]

Of course we make instant judgements even without realising.

Doesn't mean it's right all the time. It's not.

You can't judge someone as a person on what their clothes look like.

[Me. I Am Salman]

80% of the time your judgement is right anyway

[Ammi]

..I don't think I agree with that though..if you believe you're right then you will be right because you've already made that judgement...so you won't see anything other than what you've already decided...

[the truth]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

I try to look beyond someone's appearance. What matters to me is if they're a good hearted person. I want nothing to do with cruel or bullish people.

great answer pity the same cant be said for that kitten, beastly bully

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Salman!

80% of the time your judgement is right anyway

salman, i would like to see mine and your avatar fight

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Salman!

80% of the time your judgement is right anyway

But then you're closed minded and already biased.

If you make an instant decision that you dislike someone then you'll find fault with anything that might be good about them and unfairly make yourself dislike them.

[Mystic Mock]

Sadly everyone makes judgements on people depending on how they look, but personality comes through in the end I like to believe.

[the truth]

Originally Posted by Salman!

80% of the time your judgement is right anyway

depends what youre judging it on though? how they look, how they speak, what they say? how they say it? ,aybe its body language or certain habits or the types of things they ask etc?

[the truth]

I find that the people who seem to use all the right cliches for everything often in the first 5 minutes, end up not folowing through in practice...theyre just not real....its a strange phenomenon , all theory and no practice...maybe its politicians polluting our minds. the types that tell people to express themselves, yet when people do , they squirm and either dont listen or leave the room.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

The old saying never judge a book by it's cover, in my opinion not true.
I believe we make an instant judgement rangeing from how someone look's to how they dress or how they talk,

on tibb i judge member's on their opinon's.

what do you lot think!

...I think that saying is true though...people are judged by appearances all the time..hairstyles/clothes/piercings/tattoos etc..so what does that say about the character of the person..nothing really, but their character will be inevitably judged on these things by some people and perhaps those people will never make any effort to get to know them because of it...so their 'judgement' will always stand and to them be 'proved right'....so the saying is true because not everyone opens the book...

[Livia]

You never get a second chance to make a first impression. Sadly, some people never get past that initial judgement so sometimes people do judge a book by its cover. I know that I am frequently guilty of it myself. If I don't like you instantly I will probably never like you.

[Niamh.]

I'm a pretty bad judge of character on first impressions lol so i try to ignore my initial snap judgement

I find always being right enables me to make deadly accurate initial assessments of people. Livia, you have been warned.

Of course we judge people, but it's a key indicator of intelligence in people, to be able to change their minds and accept they may be wrong. If you believe the same thing on Wednesday as you did on Monday, regardless of what happens on Tuesday, then you're an idiot.

[lostalex]

I'm very judgemental.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by the truth

great answer pity the same cant be said for that kitten, beastly bully

Poor mutt!

[Withano]

On here I always guess what people look like because of the way they speak and their opinions but when I go on that 'meet the members' thread, I'm nearly always wrong.

[Kazanne]

I have judged people and been totally wrong about them,I like to think I now get to know someone before judging them,I don't judge on looks though as to me that is so shallow.

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

I have judged people and been totally wrong about them,I like to think I now get to know someone before judging them,I don't judge on looks though as to me that is so shallow.

so just to clarify,... you are saying that you judged people for being ugly, and now you are trying to not treat them like crap even though you think they are ugly? is that what you are saying?

that's kinda fvvcked up. why did you treat people badly just for being ugly to begin with?

[Ammi]

..I think Kazanne said she didn't judge on looks Alex...she's judged on character, like an initial instinct sort of thing before and been wrong so tries not to do that now and takes time to get to know them first...