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CBB13 Celebrity Big Brother 2014 (CBB13) shown January 2014 was won by Jim Davidson. Discuss here. |
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20-01-2014, 03:16 PM | #151 | |||
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..I'm not saying that bullying doesn't happen in primary schools just that not everything is bullying and can quite often be clashes of characters..in the case of Jim in the BB house, I don't see anything that would be bullying...obviously we are seeing things differently, if you do...anyway, I'm going to bow out of this thread because I'm just really repeating the same thing...and I was only really giving my opinion on comments about Jim being 'bullied', which imo, he isn't... |
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20-01-2014, 03:23 PM | #152 | |||
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20-01-2014, 03:26 PM | #153 | ||
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What I said was I don't freaking care about HM's sniping and bitching at him, because he hasn't exactly been blameless himself in the house. He was a nasty man and I haven't seen any great change in him to make me think he is now a good man. Maybe he's mellowed with age, but I still don't like the person he was. If you want to spend hours on end championing such a man, that is your prerogative. My stance is - who freaking cares is he isn't having a good time in the house. He wouldn't know what a good time was if it bit him on the ass. He's a spoiled, grumpy git spreading misery and getting back misery in return. |
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20-01-2014, 03:30 PM | #154 | ||
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Perhaps it would be an idea to do a bit more reading on the subject then, because of your position in schools. Bullying does take place in primary schools and it can take insidious and subtle forms. A friend's daughter was driven close to suicide due to subtle (non-violent) mobbing type bullying which her teachers refused to acknowedge or deal with. My sister had to change the school her younger son attended because of relentless bullying which the teachers didn't recognise or acknowledge. The most common complaint of parents whose children are bullied at school is that the school either didn't acknowledge it or didn't do anything about it.
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20-01-2014, 03:40 PM | #155 | |||
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20-01-2014, 03:45 PM | #156 | ||
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20-01-2014, 03:47 PM | #157 | ||
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Then you use the generalization that men of Jim's generation are usually misogynist and sexist? That opinion is ageist and sexist. I am not much younger than Jim, and I am neither. Talk about double standards! Last edited by jet; 20-01-2014 at 03:49 PM. |
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20-01-2014, 03:52 PM | #158 | ||
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I told you at the time that I thought it was a patronising and insulting comment to make, lol. Just about every woman goes through the menopause and they can still hold down jobs, bring up families and jog along with all kinds of people in the workplace. The type of behaviour being exhibited by Linda is nothing to do with her "hormones". |
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20-01-2014, 03:53 PM | #159 | ||
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20-01-2014, 03:58 PM | #160 | |||
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Holla, Fruit Loop Dingus!
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20-01-2014, 04:08 PM | #161 | ||
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Of course, you're right. Every personality clash doesn't lead to bullying.The problem arises when one of the parties bolsters their strength by surrounding themselves with other people who will agree with them and join them in ganging up on another person. Anyway - have a nice day. |
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20-01-2014, 04:18 PM | #162 | ||
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When I made the post about sympathizing with Linda it was at the time she broke down when Jim cruelly brought out the incident about Frank Carson's dressing room. I noticed that earlier in the programme she was flushed and fanning herself to cool down, which is a symptom of hormonal fluctuations. I was simply sympathizing that the cruel reveal came at a time when she may have been feeling under the weather. So shoot me for being insulting (in your opinion) on one occasion. Meanwhile you spend hours on end trying to convince everyone that poor Jim is a victim of bullying (which was suggested could be caused by his sexist remarks) but that's okay because his misogyny and sexism is just typical of a man of his generation so he should be given a pass. Hmmm... Last edited by jet; 20-01-2014 at 04:22 PM. |
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20-01-2014, 04:26 PM | #163 | ||
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Let's just leave the topic of bullying. It is an interesting topic but I am viewing it from a more academic/behavioural viewpoint. Plus, on a more personal note - I really hate bullies. Rest assured that if Jim Davidson was behaving like Linda is, I'd utterly detest him. Last edited by Seraphim; 20-01-2014 at 04:31 PM. |
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20-01-2014, 04:35 PM | #164 | ||
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She fights with her mouth like a man, cause she knows nothing could happen, she uses fighting talk, knowing the men will back down (ie. dappy, lionel etc) Jim walks away cause he would never back down to that vitriolic bull that comes out of her annoyingly whiney mouth |
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20-01-2014, 04:40 PM | #165 | ||
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The row they had years ago was because her husband was stealing from Jims best mate, who else wouldnt be annoyed he should not have brought it up EVER (after a mans death) but he's not the most intelligent man on the block, she should have shut up and stopped picking on a guy who had a secret on her I really cant stand a thief, so although it was him and not her, her excusing it by saying he only gave a guilty plea to save his family from stress was bull, he was CAUGHT ON CAMERA after money had been going missing all week!! Again, none of that is her fault, but shut up about it! |
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20-01-2014, 04:53 PM | #166 | ||
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Do you seriously believe a man with his history of nastiness is incapable of giving it back 100 - fold if he so chose? He is holding back because he is playing the game of Mr. Innocent Victim - and you are falling for it. Now THAT is funny. |
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20-01-2014, 05:10 PM | #167 | ||
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They have been nominating him from the very first nom, which was in the diary room and in private. If Linda tried to influence nearly them all in that short time and they were afraid not to nom him in private then she is some kind of ultra superwoman. The fact is, we have no idea whatsoever if Linda made even one person dislike him or if they just don't like him full stop. Common sense would indicate the latter. Linda is as sour faced as Jim and I don't like her either, but come on. |
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