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Old 13-03-2014, 07:24 PM #1
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I think my ex is still in love with me. After all that time.
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I think my ex is still in love with me. After all that time.
Yes.
My dad loved my mother until the day he died, they were divorced for nearly 40 years.
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My dad loved my mother until the day he died, they were divorced for nearly 40 years.
I always knew he liked me, but i thought we were past that stage. A lot of time as passed.
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I think my ex is still in love with me. After all that time.
some people find it hard to move on, what has stopped him from moving on?
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some people find it hard to move on, what has stopped him from moving on?
No idea. We have stayed good friends. But i had no idea that he still loved me. He lives in Italy and he's one of my closest mates.
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No idea. We have stayed good friends. But i had no idea that he still loved me. He lives in Italy and he's one of my closest mates.
so what you thinking?
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so what you thinking?
That this is a bad idea.
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Yes.
My dad loved my mother until the day he died, they were divorced for nearly 40 years.
My grandad was the same about my grandmother. She left him and my mum when my mum was 9 and he never loved anyone else, it was so sad. He brought my mum up on his own but if she'd knocked on his door 40 years later he would have welcomed her with open arms.
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but at least you know where everything goes
It's very flattering, but i doubt things would work.
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How long we're you together Ness?
Not very long. Six months and that was when i was 21. But we have known each other since we were kids.
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Not very long. Six months and that was when i was 21. But we have known each other since we were kids.
sounds like you where his first love!, so are going to live in Italy or is he going to move here?
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sounds like you where his first love!, so are going to live in Italy or is he going to move here?
I can't move to Italy. There's no work there. I think we're better off as friends.
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I can't move to Italy. There's no work there. I think we're better off as friends.
I agree.
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You must have been very good Vanessa

Seriously though some people never get over their first love.
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If the love is really that strong initially.. perhaps is never goes away.
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Who finished the relationship? and yes I think you can love someone for years even though you're not with them.
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Love, it's a weird thing ain't it?
There's no way to explain it
But I swear, as well as pain
There should be joy, but we sustain
The same level of mundane,
And it's numbing me through
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Me, because i moved to London.
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