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armand.kay · 18-09-2015, 01:45 AM

Jw

Jake. · 18-09-2015, 01:46 AM

well, I don't know

Xtopher · 18-09-2015, 01:56 AM

No. I would completely judge that person if they do too.

Gstar · 18-09-2015, 01:58 AM

Nope

Daniel. · 18-09-2015, 01:58 AM

Yeah if we liked eachother and they were hot x

Rob! · 18-09-2015, 01:59 AM

Yes my fans would expect it.

Dollface · 18-09-2015, 02:04 AM

i wanna say no but i think it's a yes

Mystic Mock · 18-09-2015, 02:05 AM

I like to think that I wouldn't.

Gstar · 18-09-2015, 02:06 AM

Can we move this to chat and games

armand.kay · 18-09-2015, 02:21 AM

Can you stop being a vicious bloke

armand.kay · 18-09-2015, 02:22 AM

It's in regards to jaustin and bb so you can stay perched on my diq

Jack_ · 18-09-2015, 02:22 AM

I would have to like them enough, but probably. Would be a bit wary of it being on TV what with all the undeserved hatred you'd receive but oh well

The single party in instances of cheating are absolved of any blame, unless they know the person that's being cheated on...but even then, still not their wrongdoing

Lostie! · 18-09-2015, 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Jack_

I would have to like them enough, but probably. Would be a bit wary of it being on TV what with all the undeserved hatred you'd receive but oh well

The single party in instances of cheating are absolved of any blame, unless they know the person that's being cheated on...but even then, still not their wrongdoing

I don't think it would be undeserved at all.

And anyone who knowingly gets with a married person is just as much in the wrong as the married person, in my opinion. I don't think they deserve to be absolved of anything, they've been just as complicit in hurting and disrespecting someone as the other person.

Anyway, my answer is no.

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Home wreckers aren't classy

Niamh. · 18-09-2015, 01:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Lostie!

I don't think it would be undeserved at all.

And anyone who knowingly gets with a married person is just as much in the wrong as the married person, in my opinion. I don't think they deserve to be absolved of anything, they've been just as complicit in hurting and disrespecting someone as the other person.

Anyway, my answer is no.

Absolutely agree. I think if you either go through or witness someone you love going through the complete devastation cheating can cause some people might have a change of opinion on it

Jack_ · 18-09-2015, 01:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Lostie!

I don't think it would be undeserved at all.

And anyone who knowingly gets with a married person is just as much in the wrong as the married person, in my opinion. I don't think they deserve to be absolved of anything, they've been just as complicit in hurting and disrespecting someone as the other person.

But they are also single, and free to do as they wish. Seriously, I get so sick of seeing the single party in instances of cheating being blamed more than the actual person who cheated. Like if a guy cheated on his girlfriend with some girl they knew, the girl will direct all the blame at the 'home wrecking slut' and let her boyfriend off the hook. It's absolute nonsense.

I am not saying it's nice to knowingly get with someone you know is taken, it is certainly very nasty and leaves that person with questionable morals - but at the end of the day they are single, and are free to do whatever they wish. If a person who is taken is prepared to cheat, that is their problem and their problem only. It's like people who chastised Helen Wood for nearly 'ruining' Wayne Rooney's marriage. No, **** that ****, she was paid to do a job by a taken man who willingly wanted to cheat, that is his problem and no one else's.

This culture of blaming the single person and quite often absolving the cheater of any blame has to stop. If you are single, you can do what you want. Sure, it's not morally right to go ahead and get with someone you know is taken, but you are still free to do that. The cheater does not. And is absolutely the only one deserving of any blame. At all.

Lostie! · 18-09-2015, 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Jack_

But they are also single, and free to do as they wish. Seriously, I get so sick of seeing the single party in instances of cheating being blamed more than the actual person who cheated. Like if a guy cheated on his girlfriend with some girl they knew, the girl will direct all the blame at the 'home wrecking slut' and let her boyfriend off the hook. It's absolute nonsense.

I am not saying it's nice to knowingly get with someone you know is taken, it is certainly very nasty and leaves that person with questionable morals - but at the end of the day they are single, and are free to do whatever they wish. If a person who is taken is prepared to cheat, that is their problem and their problem only. It's like people who chastised Helen Wood for nearly 'ruining' Wayne Rooney's marriage. No, **** that ****, she was paid to do a job by a taken man who willingly wanted to cheat, that is his problem and no one else's.

This culture of blaming the single person and quite often absolving the cheater of any blame has to stop. If you are single, you can do what you want. Sure, it's not morally right to go ahead and get with someone you know is taken, but you are still free to do that. The cheater does not. And is absolutely the only one deserving of any blame. At all.

Sure, they're "free" to do as they wish, there's no law against it. That doesn't make it a morally decent thing to do. And I never said the single person should get all the blame, I specifically said they should be equally held accountable.

Sorry but I'm never going to agree with you that the "bit on the side" (lord knows why anybody would want to be that anyway) is completely undeserving of blame. It takes two to tango, and both of the two should face the responsibilites for hurting someone (because they both did).

Knowingly getting with a married person is, in my opinon, a terrible thing to do and that person is no better, in any way, than the actual cheater. I actually have no respect whatsoever for either party, and I feel no problem in saying that.

Jack_ · 18-09-2015, 01:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Lostie!

Sure, they're "free" to do as they wish, there's no law against it. That doesn't make it a morally decent thing to do. And I never said the single person should get all the blame, I specifically said they should be equally held accountable.

Sorry but I'm never going to agree with you that the "bit on the side" (lord knows why anybody would want to be that anyway) is completely undeserving of blame. It takes two to tango, and both of the two should face the responsibilites for hurting someone (because they both did).

Knowingly getting with a married person is, in my opinon, a terrible thing to do and that person is no better, in any way, than the actual cheater. I actually have no respect whatsoever for either party, and I feel no problem in saying that.

Of course it's not a morally decent thing to do, that still doesn't make it anywhere near on the same level as someone who is in a relationship, and willingly jeopardises that relationship by cheating. The single person has absolutely nothing to lose or risk themselves, and therefore the action they are taking is a lot more justifiable.

There is also a lot of sexism rooted in patriarchy with this issue. As I said, the term 'homewrecker' stems from that and is used by females to abuse the woman who got with their partner, when really they should be directing their anger straight at their partner. It's this underlying notion of 'well, boys will be boys!' and 'a padlock can only be opened by one key but a master key will open many padlocks' and it just has to stop. Obviously there are taken women who cheat too, but a lot of these attitudes stem from sexist beliefs like this. And that makes it even worse, and even more important that it is stopped.

Think that the single person deserves some blame all you want, on that I still disagree, but I absolutely refute the idea they deserve the same amount. One is single, one has put their own relationship at risk. The two are completely different situations.

BENDERBOY · 18-09-2015, 02:24 AM

If it was Austin, yeah, in a heartbeat.

poppsywoppsy · 18-09-2015, 08:12 AM

If it was George Clooney, in a heartbeat.........Sorry Amal

Liam- · 18-09-2015, 08:53 AM

No, I think that's trashy af, while it would be the married person being wrong, I'd be disgusted in myself if I knowingly got with a married person in the real world, even more so on national tv.

Jason. · 18-09-2015, 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Liam-

No, I think that's trashy af, while it would be the married person being wrong, I'd be disgusted in myself if I knowingly got with a married person in the real world, even more so on national tv.

tbh