[Kate!]

Ive got a first date on Tuesday. Thing is we've text all weekend and covered most topics.

What would you all talk about? Give me inspiration. We are going to a pub near me for a drink.

[Smithy]

Ask him if his dick really is that big

[Kate!]

That's not helpful Smithy

[Jack_]

Politics

[Cherie]

Difficult one, conversations sort of evolve depending on the situation fav movies, food, TV shows, holiday destination, work, pets, hobbies, depends what you both enjoy and what Smithy said

[Fetch The Bolt Cutters]

religion

[Dominic]

Kate, are you looking for topics on your first date with Marsh?

[Shaun]

The many redeeming qualities of Belinda BB9

[Kizzy]

Cheeky finger, yes or no?...Only joking, have a good time, places of interest you've been or would like to go is a good conversation starter

[smudgie]

Play it by ear..follow his lead and keep it light and humorous.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by smudgie

Play it by ear..follow his lead and keep it light and humorous.

Talking about diamonds is out then

[Marsh.]

Just stroke my thigh a bit and we'll go to bed.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Just stroke my thigh a bit and we'll go to bed.

I heard you were easy

[bots]

I would check LT's weather thread .... must be some good topics there

[smudgie]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Talking about diamonds is out then

Unless it's a new sex move that has passed me by then noooo.

[Ninastar]

god, i dont even know what i talk about on first dates lol. I literally just think of anything and hope they make the same amount of effort back. just dont do a dinner date for the first date. talk about awkward

[James]

F.O.R.E - family, occupation, recreation, education. I saw a programme once about helping awkward people, and those were topics they encouraged people meeting for the first time to talk about.

[Kyle]

Talk about football, politics and religion. Can't go wrong with any of those subjects.

You'll have a great evening.

[Ashley.]

Politics is usually a good one

[Ashley.]

Just find out what his views are (he might be a David Cameron fan )

[Ammi]

...try not to think about it, Kate and just let it flow and let it go on it's own, because these things tend to do that...they just naturally gravitate to shared interests etc....I hope it goes well, oooo exciting......

[kirklancaster]

Listen to a man of sexperience (is that a typo? ):

If he is sexy, handsome, witty, charming and rich - and the man of your dreams - wear some very revealing clothes, clutch a copy of Plato's 'The Republic', Robert Kiyosaki's 'Rich Dad, Poor Dad', and a graphically illustrated copy of 'The Kama Sutra Vatsayana', then be sure to weave into the conversation memorised tracts of text such as;

"Don't you think Freud's theories on psychosexual development are highly comparable to Marx and Engels Ideology of Communism? - I just simply adore reading a little of both whilst listening to Bartok's Concerto For Orchestra, after a marathon 6 hour sex session."

You will NOT fail to hook him.

If he is a minger, then hide the books and talk incessantly about your 'frigidity' and 'repressed sexuality' and your obsession with marriage.

Tell him how drawn to him you are and how you cannot help picturing him as your husband. Talk about the wedding and explain your mneumonic for remembering the order of the ceremony;

1) Walking down the aisle
2) Standing in front of the altar
3) Singing the hymn.

Keep repeating this aloud:

Aisle altar hymn. Aisle altar hym. Aisle altar hymn.

Watch him RUN.

I do hope that I've been helpful Ash.

[Josy]

Just make use of the info you already discussed to create talking points like 'So you said your favourite footy team is ...... what other sport do you like other than football, do you enjoy .... ' etc etc

[arista]

Originally Posted by Josy

Just make use of the info you already discussed to create talking points like 'So you said your favourite footy team is ...... what other sport do you like other than football, do you enjoy .... ' etc etc

Yes Good One
Josy.

I hope its a Good Time you have
Kate.

[Kate!]

Thanks