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Life imitates art
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Do you Agree with the statement?
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Only in the sense that if I were cheated on by a person I'd never trust them not to do it again in future. I don't think I can agree with it as a sweeping statement though.
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No. I don't think cheating is a character trait, and everyone can make mistakes but it doesn't mean you'll make the same ones over and over again. It's probably true of some people for other reasons, such as them being selfish or uncaring or just generally not having respect for their relationships for whatever reason, but mostly I think people are allowed a mistake and are able to learn from it and not repeat it. (Depends on the circumstances of the affair as well, 'cheating' is a broad term but I think there's a big difference between say, a one night stand and a full blown relationship.)
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Life imitates art
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I agree that people can mistakes, I've been cheated on before and he said it was a 'mistake' but the trust was broken and I didn't believe it fully. It just makes me think if someone who cheated before how do i know they won't do it again.
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This Witch doesn't burn
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Far too black and white a statement, anyone can make a mistake like a one night stand while under the influence or a short affair before they realise this is not what they want on the other hand some people just can't be faithful or true to one person but you have to look at it on a case by case basis not a blanket approach
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Life imitates art
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I believe there are some people who are capable of change and growth and some people who aren't. You will find cheaters within both categories.
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Well you can't change your species can you?
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I'd personally never forgive a guy for cheating on me, my ex did and I was devestated but in all honesty after we spoke about it I don't think he would have again so I fall between yes/no
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No, but I wouldn't get back with someone who cheated me
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hot tamale
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I would say yes, but amend it to 'yes, if you allow thenm to get away with it'.
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Depends.
You can play around when you are younger, sort of finding your feet, just enjoying life and its pleasures in general. But once you meet the right one you can commit fôr life and never stráy. |
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TeamDiegoPooth <3
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OG(den)
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I voted Yes but meant no
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Yeah I think so. Cheating is one of the worst things you could ever do to someone.
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Namaste
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Nah I don't agree. It's like the phrase "a leopard never changes it's spots", as others have said that's a too narrow, black and white way of looking at it. Someone can absolutely make a mistake once and not do it again. There are some compulsive cheaters who just lack an ability to commit to someone but they're not representative of everyone who's ever been unfaithful.
I'd find it hard to continue a relationship with someone who cheated on me but not because I assumed they'd do it again, but because it's the ultimate betrayal of trust and I'd have no interest in being with someone who ever felt the need to stray (even if I felt confident they wouldn't do it again). |
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Banned
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It's not a black and white situation.
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of course there is a mountain of diff in cheating on a person before you are married, married, married with kids etc
its all cheating yes but you have to factor in circumstances bob and sue are 20 and have been dating 6 months Bob abd sue are 23 have been married 6 months bob and sue 30 married 7 years and have twin girls age 2 bob and sue 45 married 22 years with 3 kids 2 teenagers etc |
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Hmm I don't think you can apply a blanket statement like that to all cheaters.
I would never trust one again though and since trust is one of the most important things in a relationship then for me the relationship would be over. |
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