[the truth]

without making it sound like you dont trust them???

[Northern Monkey]

Say,Bitch you already stole my **** once and put it in lockup.Pre-nup or no-nup!

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Northern Monkey

Say,Bitch you already stole my **** once and put it in lockup.Pre-nup or no-nup!

[Cherie]

Darling I have way more to lose than you if this goes belly up so sign on the dotted line, don't expect conjugals for a while though

[LukeB]

Trick them into signing something

[Northern Monkey]

And if she tries to withdraw 'conjugals' then best thing to do is just watch porn on your phone in bed next to her.She'll soon get jelly and suck your dick.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Northern Monkey

And if she tries to withdraw 'conjugals' then best thing to do is just watch porn on your phone in bed next to her.She'll soon get jelly and suck your dick.

Lock her in a room, slide it under the door, and don't let her out until it's signed?

[Northern Monkey]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Lock her in a room, slide it under the door, and don't let her out until it's signed?

I think that's abit extreme

Kidnapping laws might get in the way

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Northern Monkey

I think that's abit extreme

Kidnapping laws might get in the way

I actually don't know how you could broach that with someone you are planning on spending your life with, it's just a bit of a weird thing to be thinking about, practical but weird, just don't marry might be the best course of action ?

[Northern Monkey]

Originally Posted by Cherie

I actually don't know how you could broach that with someone you are planning on spending your life with, it's just a bit of a weird thing to be thinking about, practical but weird, just don't marry might be the best course of action ?

Definitely.If those kind of doubts are there then i think it's best to probably remain as friends with benefits(not on benefits )

[Withano]

Probably would hold the wedding off a year or two before I considered a prenup tbh.

[the truth]

shes not happy ....she says I dont trust her and would I be doing 50% of the housework...Ill be doing 100% of paying the bills I know that for sure

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by the truth

shes not happy ....she says I dont trust her and would I be doing 50% of the housework...Ill be doing 100% of paying the bills I know that for sure

Why do you need to marry, just live together see how you get on ? Why wouldn't she contribute to the bills? No job?

[thesheriff443]

Just stick to wanking. Truth with your attitude towards women it ain't gonna work.

[Withano]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

Just stick to wanking. Truth with your attitude towards women it ain't gonna work.

Good point.
Does the woman know your views on feminism/meninism or are you way less vocal about the subject outside of the forum?
A money earning meninist wanted a prenup with an unemployed woman sounds like a bizarre matchup.
I think you should hold off marriage for a little while

[Northern Monkey]

Originally Posted by the truth

shes not happy ....she says I dont trust her and would I be doing 50% of the housework...Ill be doing 100% of paying the bills I know that for sure

How long have you been together?I don't know but i'd be a little suspicious if she's in a big rush to get hitched after pulling stunts on you previously.You don't wanna do anything that you'll regret financially for a long time and end up getting bitter and going all MGTOW.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by the truth

shes not happy ....she says I dont trust her and would I be doing 50% of the housework...Ill be doing 100% of paying the bills I know that for sure

Is this still the same woman who robbed all your stuff a few weeks back? If yes say "Honey, you robbed all my stuff a few weeks back so you're right I don't trust you" and if it isnt her say "Honey we barely know eachother so you're right I dont trust you" Simples

[jennyjuniper]

Originally Posted by the truth

shes not happy ....she says I dont trust her and would I be doing 50% of the housework...Ill be doing 100% of paying the bills I know that for sure

I have to ask Truth...WHY ARE YOU MARRYING HER? It certainly doesn't sound like a match made in heaven from this end anyway. If it's the same woman who ripped you off before, donm't marry her, don't buy a house with her and never leave your valuables laying around. Good Luck, because it sounds as though you are going to need it.

[DemolitionRed]

Ask her and if she says no don't trust her. Without it, put nothing in joint names but most importantly, don't let her contribute towards the mortgage. Stay safe and that includes not getting screwed over.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by DemolitionRed

Ask her and if she says no don't trust her. Without it, put nothing in joint names but most importantly, don't let her contribute towards the mortgage. Stay safe and that includes not getting screwed over.

It doesnt matter whats in joint names or if she pays towards the mortgage, if they're married she'd still get half

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

It doesnt matter whats in joint names or if she pays towards the mortgage, if they're married she'd still get half

Precisely

[the truth]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Precisely

according to my solicitor , not if we buy a house and get a contract for shared ownership , the contract could apportion her 30% me 70% as thats what wed be paying in each

The solicitor says its water tight, Ill be paying most bills, she may chip in towards the shopping and shes a better cook too.

I just dont want to buy a house, spend £170,000 on a £230,000 house then 6 months later she may say, its over I want half. call me tight but why should I waste £55,000 ?

[smudgie]

Originally Posted by the truth

according to my solicitor , not if we buy a house and get a contract for shared ownership , the contract could apportion her 30% me 70% as thats what wed be paying in each

The solicitor says its water tight, Ill be paying most bills, she may chip in towards the shopping and shes a better cook too.

I just dont want to buy a house, spend £170,000 on a £230,000 house then 6 months later she may say, its over I want half. call me tight but why should I waste £55,000 ?

No point in a pre- nup.
Making it shared ownership and getting a contract sounds fair to me, you both get out what you put into it.
The trust issues would worry me more if I am honest.
Good luck with it, the love of a good woman will do you the world of good.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by the truth

according to my solicitor , not if we buy a house and get a contract for shared ownership , the contract could apportion her 30% me 70% as thats what wed be paying in each

The solicitor says its water tight, Ill be paying most bills, she may chip in towards the shopping and shes a better cook too.

I just dont want to buy a house, spend £170,000 on a £230,000 house then 6 months later she may say, its over I want half. call me tight but why should I waste £55,000 ?

You moved the goalposts, a few weeks back you said you decided not to buy, you asked about a prenup so that is the slant of the answers you got, what do you need a prenup for if you have a contract with a solicitor already agreed, no one wants you to lose your damn money, not one single response has encouraged you to go ahead so where you got the idea that people want you to lose money is anyone guess

[jennyjuniper]

Originally Posted by the truth

according to my solicitor , not if we buy a house and get a contract for shared ownership , the contract could apportion her 30% me 70% as thats what wed be paying in each

The solicitor says its water tight, Ill be paying most bills, she may chip in towards the shopping and shes a better cook too.

I just dont want to buy a house, spend £170,000 on a £230,000 house then 6 months later she may say, its over I want half. call me tight but why should I waste £55,000 ?

If you have a scenerio in your head where six months down the line it's over, then DON'T DO IT.