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Old 05-01-2018, 04:09 PM #1
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No biggie just an oopsie-daisy again like some of the comments said on TiBB I think if India did not go on and on about 'the op/the change' people would not keep being reminded she was a man I don't think there was any maliciousness in the mistake
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tbf not one of them on the couch reacted when Ann did it last night, I don't think anyone noticed
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Meh. If India is talking about their transition all of the time as it seems, then it will be in the back of peoples minds that India is actually male. For most people, language is a universal thing. And He is used when speaking about male people. Hence 'mistakes'. I cannot get myself too worked up about 'misgendering'. Have been called sir myself before and the world did not end.

I think I would use them/they instead tbh. I already try to do that, that way you cannot really make a mistake. Even though I find them/they a weird pronoun to use for a singular person.
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No malice is meant by it but I understand what India says, a simple "oh i'm so sorry genuinely" from Amanda would've cleared the situation though...
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Meh. If India is talking about their transition all of the time as it seems, then it will be in the back of peoples minds that India is actually male. For most people, language is a universal thing. And He is used when speaking about male people. Hence 'mistakes'. I cannot get myself too worked up about 'misgendering'. Have been called sir myself before and the world did not end.

I think I would use them/they instead tbh. I already try to do that, that way you cannot really make a mistake. Even though I find them/they a weird pronoun to use for a singular person.
It's really weird to read as well

It seems like you're talking about India the country lmao
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tbf not one of them on the couch reacted when Ann did it last night, I don't think anyone noticed
They wouldn't. People don't tend to actually give a crap about pronouns. That seems to be an internet phenomenon more than anything else.
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FFS get the attention seeking cow out of that house ,who does she think she is that people have to walk on eggshells around her while she demands special treatment ?.....Get over yourself


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WELP that was an awkward watch.
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Only Maggie, Jess and Ashley haven't misgendered her now. No wonder she's excited for the men to come in!
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Meh. If India is talking about their transition all of the time as it seems, then it will be in the back of peoples minds that India is actually male For most people, language is a universal thing. And He is used when speaking about male people. Hence 'mistakes'. I cannot get myself too worked up about 'misgendering'. Have been called sir myself before and the world did not end.

I think I would use them/they instead tbh. I already try to do that, that way you cannot really make a mistake. Even though I find them/they a weird pronoun to use for a singular person.
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Have you seen the fall out of it on the video i posted ?
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Okay to be fair to India there is only women in the house so how hard is it to just reference EVERYBODY as a “she” its not that hard. The only reason I can think you would misgender someone is if you knew them as a man/woman before they transitioned and therefore find it difficult to adjust but they all met India as India and so I just can’t grasp how they keep making the same mistake?

But then, if India is getting misgendered a lot now I dread to think what the guys are going to be like, Dapper will probably do it on purpose and I can see India walking.
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Well at least She isnt over-reacting...


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They wouldn't. People don't tend to actually give a crap about pronouns. That seems to be an internet phenomenon more than anything else.
Yes but India will be very insecure about it as most trans people are. When you’ve fought so hard and for so long to be your true self and then someone drags you back to that place you were before you would get annoyed, especially if they do it repeatedly. It’s like a power thing and although I know nobody is misgendering India on purpose it takes away India’s power.
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This is getting embarrassing.
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'Lets just have our tea' after she leaves the room
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When did Malika misgender her?
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Also I don’t seem to remember any other trans housemate being mis-gendered in the same way I don’t know what’s wrong with these lot
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They won't accept he is now a she. Fact. But it's so cringing
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I do think it's because she talks about it so often. If she never brought it up at all, there'd be no confusion.

I do feel for India but she has to acknowledge it is an easy mistake when you talk about being male (at one point) so regularly.
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I forgot she was there for a moment!
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I think it's because India may be acting like a fella...there isn't much femininity about her.

That's just a possible explanation.
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"Ashley come on- sorry not Ashley, India"

"You've just misnamed her"

Ngl I chuckled at that part
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